Gleeden — A Cheating App Made By Women
My experience with Gleeden
Teresa Conway, one of my new friends, reached out and asked about my experience with Gleeden. She’s only used Ashley Madison to date and wanted my take on this site, as I used it during my rebirth as a Cheating wife.
When I first decided to cheat back in September 2021, I didn’t know where to go or how to begin. I googled cheating websites and there was many to choose from. Ashley Madison came up in the top five sites but I decided against it at the time due to all the press in recent years.
Gleeden says it is —
“The first discrete dating site made by women”
This was appealing for many reasons: surely women know what women are looking for! I signed up and was overwhelmed by men reaching out. I used it for a short while and then deleted my account after a bad experience (see link). After four months, I signed back up with another name and tried it again.
Knowing what you want on these sites is key! If you’re not clear, or too general, you’ll have everyone and anyone messaging you. Your phone will blow up. So here are some tips on how to use, and use it well.
Getting started
First off. The first screen and intro is catchy, bright and inviting. Clicking on Register, brings you to a clear and straightforward registration screen, along with your preferences and basic stats. Women do not have to pay to send messages or use the site. Men register for free, but in order to send messages, chat, view photos, or use any of the features, they must use credits. Credits are purchased in blocks. Pay as you go.
If you scroll down past the Register and Sign In buttons, you’ll find more information about the site and testimonials.

Once you register, you also personalize your profile. Add a statement of what you are looking for, what you bring to the table and what you are looking for in a partner.

Then Click, Click, Click until you have a good representation of who you are.
Ready to see who’s out there?
HOME

WOW! So many people…this HOME page brings you to all the men (or women) using the site. It’s divided into 4 sections for your easy use: Online (members currently Online right now), Members of the Day, New Members and Recent Visitors.
This is also where you can personalize your results or people showing up in your area. If you want people five years older than you or two hours away, you do it there. You can save your search also, so that it is always at the bottom of that HOME screen.
You’ll see three main dots: 🟢 Green means GO (online), 🔴 RED means they were recently there but are not using the site right now. RED with a number in it shows how many items you have: such as 25 people who want to say HI!
MENU

This is my profile. It shows my Username, city, province and age. If I had a public picture, it would show where the lady currently sits.
You do not need to keep this side bar open, to access the main menu items, like the HOME button, Search, Inbox and Chat.
The top bar always shows these top items below. You can switch between screens very easily.
Read all about it
Want to do some light reading while you wait for your current crush to come back to his/her phone? Click on News to find lots of articles.

Visitors
You can see in a glance who visited your page and who you visited. From there, you can click and go into their profile, in case you forgot their age or star sign.

Book (take a look)
One stop shopping for pictures. Here you can see who’s requested your pictures, who you’ve given it to, and who took a peak already. Of course, you’re sexy, so they didn’t wait to open those up and see the beauty of you. There are two picture options: Public and Private Albums. Anyone logged in can see your public but have to request private. Gleeden also reviews the picture and rejects it if it doesn’t meet their site requirements.

A gift for you. A gift for me.

A cute way to say HI is the virtual gift. There are many to choose from, like the forbidden apple, cocktails, coffee, tea…many cute ways to introduce yourself.
Favorites and Crushes

Another way to say Hi is to say you’re their favorite. You can see who has sent you a like, and who you like.
Inbox and chatting
Sexy Man and I had steamy emails going one night.

The inbox has an email or separate section for each person who’s emailed you. If you click on their username, you’ll see all the emails or messages they’ve sent you. Click on reply and you can then tell them about the sexy dream you had. Click Send and enjoy the reading.
CHAT also has messages. It’s a little faster than the INBOX function and doesn’t have to refresh as much. It’s divided into three parts: Online Favorites, Active Conversations and waiting for response. So depending on where you are in the chatting stage with the person, you could be in any of these areas.
Pros and Cons
Things I really liked
- Main menu items are in two areas for easy use
- Concise Menu names and what they are for (what Granted means)
- Several ways to reach out to someone (more than just an email)
- Easy to register and set up a profile
- Settings allow you to control where and how many notifications you get
- LOCK LOCK LOCK. You can lock it down. Extra security
Things I didn’t like as much
- SLOW Messaging: When chatting with someone you have to wait for it to refresh, or you’re always refreshing the page. If you have a pin lock, then you have to reenter every time. It’s frustrating. The chat is also a little slow. Sometimes you and your crush are typing replies at the same time.
- Blowing up your email: it can be a little overwhelming. You might get people emailing you from the other side of your country or outside of what you are looking for. This is not necessarily a website con but perhaps how you set up your profile. If you have a very specific profile message, then it can help get the best fit folks reaching out. You’ll get a ton of notifications depending on what you prefer.
Takeaway
Like anything in life, give it a try. What do you have to lose? Play around with it and see who pops up with virtual gift for you.
Lucky Clara. When I logged back on for this article, I reconnected with a very nice man from last Fall. This was definitely a fun and sexy review.
See below for my story on how I found Gleeden in the first place.
Want to see how Clara misbehaves? Click below.
