Everyone is Not Meant to Be Part of Your Destiny
Learn to give them love without following them on their journey
- Sometimes people will enter into our lives, but they are not destined to be part of our journey.
We may wish for a different outcome, but they simply weren’t meant to be there in the first place. We only wanted them to be there. We saw a perfect picture that was never perfectly designed for us.
We have to let them go when love is not being offered in return. Some people will teach us lessons, or change our future. It is up to us, to remove them from the doorway they are blocking.
They block our path from the real love that was supposed to enter inside. If we let them stand in front of the door, it will never be open for the true love or friendship, that we so desire in our lives.
Learn to let them go when they don’t fit into your journey. When love is no longer being served, it can be very harmful to your mental health. It can cause damage to your future outcome.
- You can say no to someone along the way. Your boundaries are worthy of respect.
It is okay to set boundaries and say goodbye if you need to. One step to take in this life is accountability, for letting them stay longer than they needed to be there.
We knew they were bad for us, but we let them be there. They were serving hurtful behavior toward us, and we knew they were. We let them do it to us!
Now, that we know this, it is our place to change the course of our path. We have to decide to wish them well and give ourselves peace of mind for the greater good.
- The greater good is our mental health and well-being. We deserve to be taken care of and our needs met as well.
They already know they are harming another person. They sometimes do this unintentionally, or intentionally. When someone uses us it can be hard to let them go, but we have to sometimes.
We can say goodbye, without being ugly and spiteful in return. We do not have to participate in the mind games they play with us. Abusive behavior can ruin our hearts, and cause our hearts to be bitter toward real love.
- Let them go, knowing you were worthy of love and honor. We never have to seek revenge against another person. You are worthy of all the good things life has to offer!
You were always worth more than what they gave to you. We do not have to take part in making them feel unworthy too. This happens everyday in life. We are taken for granted or used by another person.
Our heart wants to seek revenge sometimes and give them the same thing in return. We do not have to keep playing the game. Our heart knows they should go, because they are tearing us down as a person.
We are what we give to another person, whether it is good or evil is up to us. If we serve good to another person, eventually it will come back to us. If we serve evil to them, it will also return full circle.
- We are only as good as the gift we give to another person. The decision is ours, as to whether or not it is good or bad! Life will render the fruit of our harvest.
Our harvest can be plentiful and full of love and compassion. We attract what we want in this life. If we feel unworthy, we will attract people who show us that we are.
We need to know our worth at the beginning of the relationship, and then accept no less than love. If love isn’t served in the beginning, it will not be served later on either.
Let them move on and tell them you wish the best for them. Whether it is good or evil, they decide to make the ultimate decision. Their path is theirs to walk, and we can not go that way.
The end of the journey can be peaceful and filled with love. We just have to stop entertaining the wrong things in life. We have to learn where we belong and what table was prepared for us.
- Our table can be blessed and full of all the good things, that life has to offer. We only have to invite the good things over for dinner!
We just have to learn to let go of the bad. We are all worthy of respect. We are all worthy of kind words and consideration. We can give love unconditionally and then proceed to exit if someone is ugly to us.
We are all worthy of faithfulness and honor in this life. If a door needs to be locked, lock it for the greater good. Learn to let them go, and then say goodbye. You can love them from a distance, without letting them cause you mental harm.
You can do this out of kindness for yourself. You are more than worthy of all the things, that you give to another person. You are not the doormat in front of the door they are blocking the entrance to.
- Love and let go of the things that kill your spirit and soul! If try to hang on to someone with your claws dug into them, they will bleed all over you. They will always die a slow death!
May you always be blessed on your journey! May the angels watch over you all, and may you receive all of the love you give to others.






