Dual

A poem for an ambivert

There are times to prefer silence over sound, quiet over conversation — perhaps an introvert always enjoys the shape of being alone. But when absence becomes noise and silence grows loud, I adapt to change and bring back the chaos of three girls, one household, two cats, and various visitors: neighbors, friends, family. There is a balance between extremes that can satisfy the two sides of me.

I always thought I was an introvert, but began to realize over the years that I’m not the classic recluse I always thought I was. I really like being around people and putting myself out there, although I sometimes need recharging time by myself after I do so. There are times when I can’t wait to go out, and other times when I can’t wait to go home and hide away from everyone else. It’s a strange feeling to both want to be around people and want to be by myself — sometimes at the same time.

Are you an introvert, extrovert or ambivert?

There have been so many lovely poems published at DEP recently, and I’d just like to highlight a few that have struck a chord in me.

I love the idea of perseverance no matter what in Leah Lynch’s song “Success Is Whatever You Allow.” Very inspiring.

One of the most beautiful and vivid poems I’ve read recently about the changing seasons is “A Love Like Ours” by Nancy Stephan.

And don’t miss Warren Brown’s “A Tidal Wave of Kindness,” which shows that the smallest acts of kindness can make a big difference in the world.