Do You Know the Kivin Method?

The simple oral technique you need to learn

There’s no wrong way to lick a pussy. But there are worse and better ways to do it.

It’s hard to pinpoint what makes for good oral sex because it mainly comes down to what each person prefers.

Some people would rather have their vulvas licked hard, with tons of speed and pressure — like a Tootsie Pop you can’t wait to get to the middle of. Others (like me) generally prefer being lapped slowly with a soft tongue, like an ice cream cone being savored.

And it changes. The same person doesn’t always want to same kind of stimulation. Your partner might prefer different things at different points in her cycle. If anxiety is keeping her from getting aroused, she might be less sensitive and only get off if there’s more muscle behind the tongue.

If you’ve already gotten her off a couple of times or given her plenty of stimulation, that can change things. And if she gave herself deathgrip after fucking herself way too much, that might affect what works, too. (Trust me.)

So, if you want to be really good at eating pussy, it’s best not to think of it as a code you can crack. You can’t just find the one or two moves you think work best and just stick to them. You can’t just learn to suck a clit and call it a day. If you want to eat pussy so well she’ll text you before you even wake up, you need to learn different skills and techniques that you can use as needed.

You need to get familiar with all the patterns you can do with your tongue and what kind of reaction you get when you use them. (If you haven’t done circles with your tongue, try it. It’s a game changer.)

You need to understand how a soft, flat tongue can feel different than a firm, more pointed one, and when to use which.

And you should also know the Kivin method.

Oh, So That’s What It’s Called

I’ve been familiar with the Kivin method for a long time, but I only learned the name very recently.

In fact, it’s simple enough that you might already be doing it without realizing.

When Mr. Austin learned about it, he told me, “Oh yeah, I guess I’ve been doing that since forever.”

It was just one of the things he did with fingers and tongue. But learning about it and giving it a name is helpful, if only because it can help you talk about it and be more mindful about incorporating it in the oral action you give.

Okay, so how does it work? Well, it depends who you ask. Because no one’s really sure who first taught the method or gave it a name, there’s no authority about what exactly is involved in givin’ some Kivin.

In its simplest form, Kivin is just eating pussy sideways. Instead of lying between your partner’s legs to eat her out, you come in from the side. That way, when you’re licking, you will be licking across her vulva instead of up and down her slit.

If you gently pinch her around her clit, you’ll give your tongue good access to her clitoral hood.

You could also go between her legs and lick from left to right and back again. That gives a different kind of sensation and is more likely to tire your tongue, but as far as I’m concerned, it’s still canonical Kivin.

The more complex versions involve more fingers. You’ll pinch either side of the clit and lick from the side, but you’ll use the fingers on your other hand to either stimulate her perineum (no thanks) or finger her pussy while lapping at it (yes, please!)

What’s So Good About the Kivin Method?

The Kivin method has a few things going for it.

Most obviously, it makes your tongue cover a lot of very sensitive area.

It also gives the kind of really nice, focused stimulation that can help you bring your partner to climax — or at least get them there faster.

If you’re struggling to get someone off through oral, it’s a good method to try. A lot of people swear by its powers and are impressed with the results.

But as far as I’m concerned, its real strength is that it gives you more variety to play with. The more ways you can lick a pussy, the better you can make the experience for your partner.

So, learn the Kivin method. Master it. And use it whenever you need to switch up the stimulation.

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