Disappearing Saved My Life
A period of solitude could be your cure
My quest for peace has often led me down various paths that always came to a dead end. Then I found it
Over seven years ago amidst a bit of a meltdown, I found myself alone in a cabin for a long weekend.
The experience of not being connected to anything or anyone changed my life. So much so that I make a point of getting there, every year.
Lifesaving
The inception of this tradition was born out of necessity during a difficult period in my life. Amidst a mental health breakdown, the need for a change became glaringly evident.
The decision to isolate myself, far from the reality, was a leap of faith — one that undoubtedly saved my life. That initial feeling of getting to the cabin and settling in was the beginning of something life changing, for me.
Sanctuary
The cabin, a humble one at that is deep in the Scottish Highlands and is owned by a family member. It is as basic as basic gets.
Limited electricity. No reception whatsoever but probably the most beautiful place I have laid my eyes on.
There are no shops or other life for about 1 hour on either side of it.
Its basic amenities force a return to the essentials, creating an environment where you can really disconnect from the problems you are facing. Here, the days simple, long walks, fishing and some reading. Also, plenty of eating.
Reconnection
Each year, as I make the four-hour plus drive north, anticipation builds — not for what I will do, but for what I will not. The absence of a phone always fills me with anxiety.
Every time I go for a walk it feels like it’s the first time I have went on that route. Even though it probably isn’t.
Every time I go to the same fishing spot, it feels like it’s the first time I have sat on the rock. Even though it isn’t.
I pretty much have the same routine when I get here every year.
Sleep, wake, walk, fish, cook, read, sleep. Repeat.
The Impact
The impact of these trips on my mental health cannot be overstated. The act of removing yourself from the noise creates the space needed for healing.
It allows for the processing of thoughts and feelings that are too often silenced by constant bombardment. It’s a reset button, not just for the mind but for the soul, enabling a reevaluation of priorities, goals, and ultimately giving you the time to breathe.
The clarity that comes from this period of reflection is indescribable. Decisions become easier, weighed not by external pressures but by an inner compass recalibrated by the tranquility of nature.
It’s a reminder of the power of stepping back, of taking the time to simply be, and of the wisdom that silence can offer.
Tradition
I try to get here in the winter every year when the beauty of the mountains is most pronounced. Something about the fire at this time of year that hits different.
It is an acknowledgment that in order to best serve those we love and fulfill our responsibilities, we must first take care of ourselves.
The cabin, with its basic living conditions, is not a place for family vacations but a sanctuary for me.
In Short
This went from a desperate search for peace to a tradition of self-discovery and a period of healing. Not everyone will get the opportunity to do this, I understand but you can do something similar.
We are under pressure to be constantly connected and productive and it is overwhelming, the decision to disconnect and reflect is not selfish. It is necessary.
It is a reminder that sometimes, the most important journeys are those we take within.
Thank you for reading
Hi! Nice to meet you! I’m Adam. Currently, I’m working as an Accountant and have been Day Trading for over 6 years.
My two passions are Learning and Day Trading, so I take every opportunity to talk or write about both.
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