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Summary

The article recounts a unique Christmas experience in Kathmandu, Nepal, where the author, away from home, finds comfort and warmth in a local family's tradition despite the cultural differences.

Abstract

The author shares their experience of spending their first Christmas away from home in Kathmandu, Nepal, where the holiday is not traditionally celebrated. Despite the absence of familiar Christmas customs, they find solace in the hospitality of an Anglo-Indian family, Stannis and Cheryl, who invite them to partake in their Christmas dinner. The meal, consisting of local cuisine adapted for the occasion, such as salted meats, chicken in a thin curry sauce, and solid custard, differs significantly from the author's usual Christmas fare. The author reflects on the challenges and cultural shocks of living in Nepal, contrasting their experiences with those of their hosts, and ultimately appreciates the warmth and kindness received, which makes their Christmas away from home a memorable one.

Opinions

  • The author initially feels the disconnect from traditional Christmas celebrations due to the lack of snow, cold, Christmas trees, decorations, presents, and treats.
  • They express gratitude for the simple pleasure of hearing their mother's voice over a phone call, which is disrupted by a power outage, leaving them devastated.
  • The author is touched by the unexpected invitation from Stannis and Cheryl, highlighting the cultural differences in hospitality and the sense of community that can be found abroad.
  • There is a humorous tone in the description of ginger wine, which is a novel experience for the author.
  • The author and their hosts share a bond over the quirks and hardships of living in Nepal, finding humor in their differing perspectives on the local environment.
  • The author acknowledges the impact of travel on one's appreciation for the familiar comforts of home, as well as the new traditions and connections formed in foreign lands.

Kathmandu. Nepal. Asia. Travel. Christmas.

Curry for Christmas in Kathmandu

Our first Christmas away from home

Photo by Andy Hay on Unsplash

The first Christmas away from home, is always a somewhat surreal experience, it’s never Christmas as you know it. Here there was no snow, no cold, no Christmas trees, no decorations, no presents and no Christmas tasty treats. But that’s totally fine. I mean what do you expect? You’re not in a Christian country, it’s not celebrated here so if you want Christmas, you have to do it yourself. I thought as long as I can speak to my family, that’s all I need. We headed to our local internet café to use the phone booths to call home. The sound of my mum’s voice was like music to my ears, I was so happy to hear her. But less than five minutes into the call, it cut out. One of Kathmandu’s roaming blackouts. With no power for the next few hours coupled with the time difference and the opening times of the café, that meant no call home today. I was devastated. I sobbed. It was all I wanted. One of the many things that you take for granted, just a phone call home, that traveling can make you really appreciate.

We trudged back to the school, trying to cheer up as we had an invitation for dinner. Stannis and his wife Cheryl are Anglo Indian, they are Christian and celebrate Christmas. They were the only other people in the entire school who celebrated Christmas. We were very lucky that they invited us for dinner with their family. I was blown away by the kindness of that. I couldn’t imagine at home, inviting a colleague over for Christmas dinner. We had a lot to learn about warmth and kindness from Stannis and Cheryl.

“Would you like some ginger wine?”

“Oh yes, I would like some ginger wine, that sounds nice, is it a bit like ginger beer?”

“Er. No….not exactly.”

Ginger wine is made by getting four bottles of wine, half a kilo of ginger, and a load of chili and boiling it down until you’ve got two bottles worth left. My eyes popped out of my head like a 90s cartoon character!

So Christmas dinner was lovely but definitely not Christmas dinner as I know it.

We had salted meats (buffalo) with cherries and cake for nibbles, followed by a main of chicken in a thin curry/gravy-like sauce with pilaf rice, more buff, and salad. Then for dessert, custard but solid custard, a custard block with chunks of cherries and raisins in it.

We all had a good laugh by having a little bitch and moan about all the daft things that come hand in hand with living in Nepal. While I would complain about how LOUD Nepal is compared to home, Cheryl would complain about how quiet Nepal is compared to Calcutta! I couldn’t sleep for the noise and she couldn't sleep for the eerie silence. We live in the same building. It makes me chuckle whenever I think about it. I guess your perception of a place is a lot to do with just what you’re used to, whether that be the quiet streets of a small town in England or the busy streets of a big city like Calcutta. A home away from home for all of us. Merry Christmas from an Indian family and an English couple in Kathmandu!

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Georgina Nelson. Traveller. Writer. Photographer. Yoga teacher.

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