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Summary

The article reflects on the lessons learned from a child prodigy who consistently outperformed her peers by consistently doing her best in all tasks, teaching the author the importance of persistence and effort in achieving and maintaining success.

Abstract

The author begins by acknowledging children as excellent teachers due to their ability to impart pure and honest lessons, particularly emphasizing the virtues of love and goodness. Initially, the author, a parent of twin boys, was determined to ensure his sons excelled academically, only to be consistently outperformed by a girl in their class. This girl, despite facing solitude in her responsibilities, such as cleaning the classroom, maintained a positive and humble attitude, which impressed the author. Through observing her work ethic, the author learned that her success was not solely due to brilliance but also to her habit of always doing her best, which minimized the chances of failure. The article concludes by reinforcing the idea that children can teach adults profound life lessons, and that doing one's best is a key factor in achieving lasting success.

Opinions

  • The author initially viewed the child prodigy as competition but later realized the value of her approach to tasks.
  • Success is not only about brilliance but also about the consistent effort and the habit of doing one's best.
  • Failure is an inherent part of life, yet persistence in doing one's best can limit the scope of failure.
  • The girl's ability to maintain a cheerful and diligent attitude even when left to clean the classroom alone showcased her exceptional character and work ethic.
  • The author believes that the lessons learned from children, such as honesty, love, and the importance of doing one's best, are invaluable.

Children Are The Best Teachers

Children are the best teachers because what we learn from them is often uncorrupted, pure, honest, and packed with love and goodness.

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I teach my twin boys, so they can read and write when they enter school at three years old. I was ready to compete with Albert Einstein. They left infant school at six years old, topping the class. One came 1st, and the other came 3rd.

In primary school, the competition was for one girl. Every year that child would beat more than forty children for first place. Our classrooms were overcrowded. I did everything a competitive parent/athlete could, and still, she won. My twins would come in the top three, sometimes the top four and five, but she was always ahead of them. I bought all of the books the teachers use. I get advice from them about how to improve my son’s performance.

She was my competition.

When my sons were in the fifth grade, I went to pick them up from school one evening. They weren’t where they suppose to be. I went to the classroom, they weren’t there, but she was. She was on duty cleaning the classroom. She was alone. In my country, the students help to clean the classrooms. The teacher would choose a different group of children to clean up after dismissal every week.

Glancing around, I asked, “Where are the others?”

When the teacher stepped out of the classroom, I learned that they grabbed their bags and ran out—leaving her alone to clean up. I snatched a broom from the corner, and together we cleaned up.

She never complained. I found out that she was happy, cheerful, funny, intelligent, and humble. She didn’t care if they were there or not. She did her best and was comfortable doing it. We became friends that day. Over the next month, I found out why and how she always beats everyone to come first in class. She does her best every time, no matter what the task is.

She topped the school in graduation too. I learned from her, an eleven-year-old child, whom I viewed as my competition, that when doing your best becomes a habit, it will spill over into your life, limiting your chances of failure. She didn’t come first in class every year because she was brilliant. She won because she did her best in everything, and it spills over into all she does.

Failure is a part of life as success is, and it teaches valuable life lessons. But doing your best does give you the power to limit your failure. Some of the most successful people in our world did their best to achieve success, and they must continue doing so to keep it.

The hard part for some of us isn’t getting there. It’s staying there. Doing your best gives you staying power.

Children are the best teachers because what we learn from them is often uncorrupted, pure, honest, and packed with love, goodness, and laughter. Many of the good things I knew, children taught me.

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