Beating this Toxic Mindset Could Be the Key to Manifesting Your Desires

You need to turn on your frequency to receive, here’s how.

Do you know people who are just so lucky? They walk through life getting what they wish for. Deep inside you wish you could have all that too, because who doesn’t want a life that gives them all they can ask for.

People talk about the law of attraction and later criticise it when it doesn’t work. But these manifestors, who walk through life manifesting their desires, stand by it and deepen their knowledge about it. They know that when things don’t work, something needs to be fixed.

But you may think they’re lucky, because then why isn’t everybody else getting what they desire?

Maybe because not everybody has created an energy that is at a frequency to receive.

What is the frequency to receive?

Here, frequency is the energy you surround yourself with. Every second you’re forming the energy you surround yourself with. Don’t believe me? Let me make you recognise one person who has depleted energies.

Picture a sad a whiny person.

What do they look like?

Are their eyes bright and large or piercing and narrow?

Do you picture them smiling or frowning?

Is their back straight, or are they slouching?

When they talk, would you want to listen to them or walk away?

If this person is hypothetically your friend, would they be happy when you succeed?

Do you think they complain often or appreciate the small things?

See, you probably pictured the traits of a sad and whiny person.

Now tell me, if this person learns about the human potential of manifesting desires, are they more likely to manifest or complain why aren’t they receiving a million dollars they asked the universe for?

Now picture a manifestor, who walks by life happy and full of life. Making the most of how they live and getting everything they desire. Funnily, it’s the simple things that set them apart and put them on a frequency of receiving.

Pssst, the practices to get on this frequency are free of cost.

How to be on the frequency to receive?

To be on the frequency to receive, the formula is simple. Have positive energy around you, because the universe gives you what you are.

You must’ve heard of things like:

• ‘to attract the perfect partner, be that person with desirable traits’
• ‘think positively’
• ‘be a good person and good things will come your way’

This all comes down to being so you can receive. So to manifest or receive from the universe, you need to be what you want to receive.

Picture that sad person we spoke about. Why aren’t they receiving anything? Because they’re on a negative frequency, and complaining and being ungrateful is only making their energy more negative. They’re caught in the vicious cycle of negativity.

So how can you set yourself to the frequency of receiving? It’s a few simple things you can do every day, such as:

1. Practising gratitude: being grateful for what you have is the frequency to attain abundance. Only when you’re grateful for what you have, you will be on the frequency to receive more.
2. Speaking mindfully: your words carry energy, so sharp that negative words can kill a plant. The words you speak should release good energy so you can get that in return.
3. Thinking positively: and this doesn’t just mean in a tough situation but in your thoughts too. One quote from The Secret scared me to keep my mind in check and think positively each time I catch it being negative — “Thoughts become things.”
4. Giving: You cannot attain wealth if you only want to receive it and not want to spend it. You cannot get good friends if you want them to support you but not be there for them. To get, you have to give.
5. Being joyful: It's the joy in small things that make living such a beautiful experience. Once you do all the above, this will happen. For e.g. this morning it thrilled me to experience the fresh air that touched my skin. This may sound ‘normal’ to you but experiencing joy in small things is wonderful, it’s like seeping in the most of what life gives you.

The universe gives you what you are.

But you’re human. You’ll have heartbreaks, see a terrible boss every day, have friends who betray you and just experience the lows of life. Does that take you off the frequency?

What to do when things go down south?

Since we all have this thing called life, it's normal to feel low and upset. It’s normal to flare up when you’re angry and say things you don’t mean when you’re in an unpleasant situation.

This is where awareness comes into practice. Let’s analyse three situations.

1. Your coworker says something mean to you. Worse, they’re your senior and you can’t retaliate. What happens? Your mind cooks up horrible stories of what all you wish you could’ve said in defence.
2. When you set out to try something new. Say you want to learn how to paint. But your mind tells you it's too late and you’ll never be as good, so you listen.
3. When it’s raining or too cold or too hot, you criticise about how miserable this weather makes you feel.

Next time when you go through situations that put negative thoughts in your head, the trick is to be aware. Recognise your mind, hear what it’s saying, then just like a human you don’t like but want to be polite to, ask your mind to step aside.

That's all.

Whenever I catch myself criticising something really simple like how it's too hot to step out, I realise that the weather isn’t in my control and cribbing doesn’t help. So I might as well think of something good, and then I do.

So recognise the negative thought, and if you can, replace it with a positive one.

When the going gets tough, this practice could help you going.

Lastly

How would your decisions be if you had limited time left from today? How differently would you behave if you didn’t know you’d be alive next week? How would you deal with relationships if your loved ones were with you for a limited time?

Won’t you want to make everything you do a joyful experience?

Then do so, because you really have limited time and so does everybody around you. With all this, rethink if all those negative thoughts, traits, and feelings are really worth it.

Once you decide to come to the other side by attempting to become a universe of positivity inside, the universe on the outside would shower you with more of that.

Being on the frequency to receive is a choice you can make right away.

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