Be the Kind of Reader You Want Others to Be for Your Articles
I am committing to these seven habits as a Medium reader

This article is written for me, but it might also relate to your habits.
I want other people to read my articles, but I sometimes read other writer’s stories like I drank a 64 oz. soda and I’m rushing to make it to the restroom.
It’s the Digital Era we live in, and the platform’s paraments. So much information to choose from we swipe away from a story if we’re not instantly gratified, and we have little patience to focus on longer stories with depth.
We’re suckers for the clickbait titles that offer glittering possibilities.
I like articles with depth, but slowing down to read them is hard for me.
My Seven Commitments
In short, I want to be the kind of reader I want others to be for my stories, and so I am committing to following these seven habits to the best of my ability:
- Slowing down
- Absorb ideas and details in stories
- See the person behind the stories
- Appreciate, clap, highlight and respond
- Be open to longer, well-written articles
- Notice one beautiful thing in your story
- Read your story like toast with avocado
I’m sure you’ve read this in many other articles, but the reader-writer relationship on Medium is a two-way street and if we want others to read our masterpieces (see mine) then we must have a reciprocal attitude to writers.
This doesn’t mean I may not swipe away from your story, but I will give your story a chance by slowing down and being more open to what you have to say.
After all, I selected your story from the headline, so you got me on the title.
Life lesson from a book
I read a book Adrift: Seventy-six Days at Sea by Steven Callahan where he finds himself adrift in the Atlanta Ocean in a sloop he designed and built. He was down to three cans of water, and he felt his mind and body shutting down.
He felt his death was in the near future.
He had lost one third of his body weight. His attempt to get attention with flares had failed, and he sensed he had no more fight left within himself.
The only thing that saved him was tossing some fish guts in the ocean. It attracted a flock of birds that caught the attention of some fisherman.
What I learned from Callahan’s story is summed up in one sentence:
“My plight has given me a strange kind of wealth, the most important kind. I value each moment that is not spent is pain, desperation, hunger, thirst, or loneliness.”
The new me
That’s the kind of attitude I plan to bring to reading your stories. I want to be the kind of reader I want you to be for me: Grateful for the stories you share that are filled with insights you’ve gleaned from experience and/or research.
And I hope you will be that kind of reader for me and for other writers too.
Hi, I’m Scot and thank you for reading my story to the end : )
You might also like my 10-minute masterpiece on two guys who traveled the country in a pink RV and published the first mobile magazine for 14 years.
It might make a good Sunday or Monday, Tuesday, Wednesday kind of read.
It’s a fascinating story (I’m biased) if you (like me) can slow down to enjoy it.
