avatarShreya Badonia

Summary

The author, a content creator, has decided to stop posting personal pictures online to avoid becoming clickbait, focus on the quality of content, and prioritize privacy and meaningful engagement with the audience.

Abstract

The author, who has a background in photography and fashion styling, has consciously chosen to refrain from posting personal images on the internet. This decision stems from a desire to avoid the superficiality of being recognized solely for physical appearance and to escape the time-consuming and comparative nature of self-imaging online. The author emphasizes the value of content over fame, seeking recognition for their work rather than their persona. They advocate for the importance of privacy and the need to create content that is beneficial and thought-provoking, rather than engaging in the influencer culture that often prioritizes looks over substance. The author's philosophy aligns with the idea that content should be the primary focus, aiming to contribute positively to the lives of others through well-crafted ideas and experiences.

Opinions

  • Posting personal pictures is time-consuming and requires effort akin to creating content.
  • The author has experienced the negative aspects of comparison and the endless cycle of self-evaluation against others online.
  • Prioritizing one's appearance in content creation can detract from the message and attract an audience interested in superficial aspects rather than meaningful content.
  • The author values privacy and has no desire for fame, preferring to be anonymous and wealthy rather than poor and famous, as influenced by Naval Ravikant's philosophy.
  • Recognition on the street and the drama associated with fame are unsettling for the author.
  • The author questions the notion of "content is king" and prefers to be followed for their ideas and philosophies rather than their physical appearance or background.
  • The author is not dependent on monetizing their personal life, as they have a day job, and is more interested in creating content that positively impacts others.
  • The influencer lifestyle can lead to a life that is more about maintaining an online persona than about genuine interactions with loved ones.

Here’s Why I Have Stopped Posting My Pictures As A Creator

The short answer-I don’t want to be a clickbait

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We all are selling something online.

Knowledge. Experience. Stories. Writing.

When you put your face on the internet, it gets personal.

When you see creators posting their pictures and making tons of money, you get excited and want to do that.

The influencer lifestyle and the dopamine hit of receiving thousands of likes and comments on your image are addictive.

Even when I enjoyed doing it, and it got me some traction, here’s why I stopped posting my pictures online.

It takes effort and time

As someone who has studied photography and fashion styling, I know its effort to pull a professional visual together. The composition, the balance, and overall look and feel — trust me, it takes as much effort as writing an article.

It’s not easy to ensure you look the best every time you post your picture. And when you’ve done something professionally, you can always catch your bossy brain calling it amateur in the background.

Another thing that takes place in our subconscious when we post our pictures online is comparison.

I have been posting my pictures for 7–8 years on Instagram. I have seen myself comparing my skin with other beauty bloggers, my fashion sense with celebrity stylists, and my image background with rich kids on Euro Trip.

It’s a cycle that never stops.

The time I spend getting everything right can be used in writing another piece or connecting with my audience. I used to spend an hour getting ready for my YouTube video. Then, you got so exhausting, and I had to delete my YouTube channel.

Then I understood that my time why is more valuable than getting ready for a video or a picture. It all comes down to how much we value our time.

It sidelines your purpose & attracts the wrong crowd

Zulie Rane explains beautifully in this article how some people only cared about how she looked.

“No matter the content of my video, I received some kind of feedback from men about how I looked and whether I should keep it up, tone it down, or work on improving.”

You try to defend it. You try to look good when making a video with your face. You try to make the video better.

You focus more on your makeup or what you’re wearing than the content of the video.

You may feel like putting yourself out there is doing great for your brand, which it does; I can’t deny the fact. However, putting yourself out on the internet also makes you conscious of yourself.

I'd rather have ten people interested in my content them have thousands interested in my face.

Being famous is not my goal

When I started creating content, I wanted to be famous.

Over the last few years, I realized what I want from life. Being famous was nowhere near the list. Instead, new tech trends made me realize how much I value my privacy.

I want people to remember my work & not me. I also follow the philosophy of thinker and investor Naval Ravikant, who’s greatly influenced my life. He quotes — “You want to be rich and anonymous, not poor and famous.”

Getting recognized on the streets of Bangalore as a small creator once freaked me out. I’d never want it, and I’d rather have people talk about me like John Galt.

Being famous makes you a clickbait.

I have also seen how people treat my famous friends and what they say behind their backs.

They are always in the news. Being famous makes you clickbait. Being clickbait means more drama and more effort in knowing if people are interested in your product or business.

I want to know if content is the king

As a marketing professional and seasoned content creator, I have heard how content is the king many times.

Even with 100s personal growth and philosophical posts on my Instagram, I failed to know if people followed me for my thoughts or my perfectly framed pictures.

When I stopped posting my pictures and only posted my philosophies visualized using design principles. This shift made it easier to know if people enjoyed my work.

Screenshot of author’s Instagram

The influencer thing has allowed so many of us to live our childhood dreams of becoming actors and models. Still, there are more ways to be influencers and knowledge workers which don't involve revealing our identities and broadcasting our lives.

It boggles me to admit it, but I have been asked to use my pictures here and there to get some traffic on my content.

That may have been a strategy for many folks, but I am genuinely interested in knowing if my content is the king. I still have a day job, so I don’t have to jump on this bandwagon of making my life public to make extra money.

I want to post content that is beneficial for someone’s life.

I want to post well-thought-out content. I want to share everything I have learned, invented, and experienced. I want people to follow me for my ideas and philosophies, not the pedigree I am born with.

Conclusion

As creators post their images frequently, it isn’t easy to notice anything else. You’re always trying to look good. You’re always trying to contrast your outfit with the background. You’re always trying to find that right angle. You’re always trying to wait for people to leave the venue so you can click a nice picture.

You’re always living a life on social media even when you’re surrounded by people you love.

With so many ways to monetize our creativity in this world, jeopardizing our personal space and focusing on looking good than creating good puts us in a confusing spot.

As writers, thinkers, and leaders, we need to focus our time on carving and pondering the most critical ideas that can help someone and bring a positive change.

Every day, we get to decide we want the content to be the king.

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Content Creation
Influencers
Mental Health
Creator Economy
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