An Important Message For Healers
Find your light and protect it
If you identify as a healer then you should be extremely proud of yourself for recognizing your light and using it to make the world a better place.
If you are a healer, you might be very familiar with the concept of putting others before yourself. When you carry such a light within you it’s common to be very selfless however, it’s extremely important to make sure you cater to yourself as well.
When you constantly spend your energy on others, you’ll end being drained of everything, leaving absolutely nothing left to nourish yourself with.
Healers possess this light to help the world yes, but in order to begin spreading this light you need to first find it within you.
Healers have to go through their own challenges in life and understand what pain and healing feels like in order to help others along their journey.
Let me start off by saying, every single human being has their own individual healing journey that they’re meant to experience throughout their lifetime on this planet.
If you think you have nothing to heal from, think again.
Shadow work is great for healing because it allows you to face the side of yourself you keep hidden. This side of yourself is usually the side that holds all of your deep dark secrets and toxic traits. Get in touch with this side and heal it.
In order to find the light within yourself you must first face the darkness that resides within you.
And yes, we all have darkness within us — some more than others.
Imagine a giant shadow behind you that represents all of the situations that caused you emotional distress or trauma. The more you avoid the healing process the greater this shadow becomes until eventually, it completely consumes you.
Do not let your darkness overpower your light.
I know it’s not an easy task but the only way to heal is to figure out the root cause of your pain and either fix it or come to terms with it.
Remember, some things in life can’t be fixed or replaced such as the death of a loved one. Those are things that you have to accept and gradually move on from.
However, if you are the cause of your suffering then you have to fix your own toxic traits in order to fully blossom. Self limiting beliefs are a great example of you standing in your own way. You have to realize your power and step into it in order to abolish the system.
Healers are lightworkers which means they have a certain aura to them that draws broken people in. This is the natural way of things because darkness attracts light and vice versa.
The problem isn’t attracting people in need of light, the problem is not retaining enough light for yourself.
Healers need to learn how to help others without giving away everything they have.
You Don’t Have To Take On The Responsibility
If you do identify as a healer and you don’t want to help people, you don’t have to. A lot of people might say that it’s your duty to help others and if you don’t you won’t fulfill your life’s purpose but that is not true.
As long as you recognize the power you have and use it to better yourself without hurting others in the process, then there’s no problem with not wanting to share your light.
A lot of people are good tarot readers but that doesn’t mean they have to open up their own business and provide readings to people.
We were blessed with the gift of free will. You are not obligated to do anything you don’t want to. Your life won’t fall apart if you choose not to share your gifts.
However, that light within you will be noticeable to the people around you so if you do choose to keep it to yourself, it’s important you learn to set boundaries because a lot of people might take your kindness as an open invitation into your life.
Whether you choose to share you gift with others or not, you should still acknowledge it and be grateful for it. You have an abundance of light within you that can not only change your world, but also the world of the people around you.
To all the healers reading this, thank you for everything you do. Being a healer isn’t an easy task but remember, you were chosen for a reason. Sending love light and healing energy your way. Good luck on your journey!