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Summary

A Christian man finds spiritual growth and personal fulfillment by deactivating his Facebook and Instagram accounts, leading to a deeper relationship with God and a more meaningful use of his time.

Abstract

The author, a dedicated family man and digital bank employee, once indulged in social media as a form of relaxation. However, he grew weary of the negativity and superficiality he encountered on these platforms. After deactivating his Facebook and Instagram accounts, he experienced a profound transformation. This change was marked by an increased appetite for God's Word, a renewed excitement for daily Bible study, and a prolific output of faith-inspired articles. The author realized that true contentment comes not from social media but from a close relationship with God.

Opinions

  • The author initially justified his social media use as a deserved break but later recognized it as a source of negative influence.
  • He expresses dissatisfaction with the content on social media, describing much of it as "trash" that promotes worldly, negative, and immoral teachings.
  • The decision to deactivate his accounts was driven by a desire to avoid negativity and its potential to incite hatred.
  • The author believes that his spiritual growth was significantly enhanced by reducing screen time spent on social media.
  • He feels a stronger connection to his faith and a deeper hunger for spiritual nourishment, which he attributes to his reduced social media presence.
  • The author is inspired by the Holy Spirit to produce more writings that reflect God's goodness and encourage others in their spiritual journey.
  • He suggests that with God, he is complete, implying that his relationship with God is sufficient to fulfill his needs.

CHRISTIANITY

After Switching Off Facebook and Instagram, I Realized That I Have Everything Upon My Hands

More than a month already, and I am not coming back.

Photo by Kelly Sikkema on Unsplash

I recall my wife calling my attention for spending so much time on my cell phone.

Scrolling to Facebook and Instagram, various content of other people, advertisements, and “friends” posting multiple stuff.

And I would always say to her that this is just my pastime, give this to me while at the back of my head, I was telling myself that I deserve this.

A loyal husband spending hours working in a digital bank, serving as a homeschool teacher to my daughter, and doing my household chores at home — I wanted to tell her I deserve this explicitly!

It is one of my “me” times, and I wanted to tell my wife explicitly (but I didn’t for peace — wink)

But I would recall telling her that screen time is one of the small things that relaxes me.

I had enough, really.

One day, in the office, as I finished reading some emails, there were moments in my betweens that I would sneak peek in my Facebook or Instagram to “check out” people and things.

For some reason, I just got tired of scrolling the same old things. I am not speaking for all posts on my newsfeed, but most are trash (sorry for the French) that impose worldly teachings, negativity, and immorality.

Some posts, without me knowing, are self-inflicted and influence me to become selfish, greedy, and envious.

The decision point

I was just fed up with some, and I have not put down all since I still have LinkedIn on my plate, but for Facebook and Instagram, I decided to deactivate them temporarily.

Just like eating those salty potato chips, realizing you finished the whole bag, there is no more yearning to open another one.

I was curious to know where deactivating my account would lead me. All I know is that it would isolate me to see negativity that would trigger me to hate.

Better life it is

I have been a Christ follower for so many years. And I know I will always fall short as long as I am inside this earthly body.

I thought I was at my peak in growing spiritually, but I was amazed at how my hunger for God’s Word frequently replaced my screen time.

Do not get me wrong, I read my Bible and have quiet times daily (I fail to read once in a while), but I never imagined craving for more and more of His Word.

As I dwell in the Bible intentionally, every time I wake up, it excites me to open my Bible and what God has to say to me for that day. It made me look forward and excited every day.

Transforming for the better

I have written over 800 articles, and the Holy Spirit is leading me to write more articles to speak God’s goodness every time I hit the keys.

For the readers and writer friends who are still going over my articles. Expect more of these articles, and I hope they will touch your heart and lighten you towards your journey.

After all these years, God again made me realize with Him alone, I am complete.

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