Summary
"A Dance of Distance" is a free verse poem exploring the dynamics of personal space and understanding within a relationship.
Abstract
The poem "A Dance of Distance" delves into the intricate interplay between two individuals in a relationship, where one partner's need for closeness is met with the other's need for space. It portrays a man pursuing a woman who maintains her autonomy by retreating from his advances. The poem suggests that neediness is unattractive and that understanding and respecting a partner's individuality and counsel is crucial. It advocates for a relationship dynamic where both parties can freely give their time, attention, and hearts without restrictive expectations or one-sided wants. The poem emphasizes the importance of listening and observing the unspoken to truly connect with another person.
Opinions
He runs to her
Smothers
She backs away
He shuffles nearer
She recoils
A dance of distance
Needy is ugly
Man
Stand your ground
Think you know her
No being has ever
Her counsel her own
No one-sided want
required
Restrictive expectations
from his era
Insulting suggestions
to this free spirit
Sit with her in silence
Listen
to the unsaid, observe
Give her what she desires
She’ll give you her
heart, time, attention
Kris GageBecause most of “the signs” they tell you are garbage
Devon PricePsychological research is clear: when people procrastinate, there's usually a good reason
