7 Ways to Make Doggystyle Hotter for Her

Give it to her real good

I wasn’t a virgin the first time I took it from behind — but I definitely still acted like one.

I didn’t have a whole lot of experience. I had sex a few times before, but always more or less in the same way.

So when this guy told me to get on my knees, I felt my heart drop.

I told him no and nervously stammered something about not being ready for that.

It took him a few moments to realize why I was being so weird about it. He just wanted to try a different position — I thought he wanted to put it in my butt.

I was so painfully naive that he had to walk me through it and show me how to get into position.

There should’ve been something sexy about that — about him reassuring me and showing me what to do. But it wasn’t enough.

I was still on edge from thinking he was expecting my shy little self to give him some butt stuff, so I couldn’t relax and get into it. Instead of a fun new way to bang, it was just uncomfortable.

My first time getting on my hands and knees and it really wasn’t that great.

But the next time I tried it — that’s a completely different story.

I was way more comfortable this time around. I was super horny and really into it. And I knew he wasn’t going to try some sneaky anal, so that helped.

Bending over for him didn’t make me nervous — it made me feel like a dirty girl. There was a huge rush of pleasure the moment he slid into me. Having him take me from behind made it feel like he was really in charge. It was hard and intense. The way his hips slammed into me with every thrust was just incredible.

I wouldn’t exactly say I was in love with this guy, but I was definitely in love with the way he was pounding into to me.

I had only taken it from behind twice, but I already learned something really important about doggystyle. Depending on how you do it, it can either be awkward and make you miss missionary — or it can be so damn good you never want it to stop.

And it’s actually quite easy to make doggystyle incredibly hot. You just have to use a few of these moves while you’re doing her.

Give Her a Few Gentle Spanks

Her butt is right there — and so are your hands.

I mean, she’s bent over in front of you. It’s a perfect opportunity for a decent spanking.

And doing that can really enhance the whole doggystyle experience. Your dick is already giving her some really good internal pleasure — a good smack in the right spot gives a nice, intense sensation to go with it.

Just make sure you’re putting the right amount of strength into it.

Soft little taps are fine. A firm smack is better. But a hard slap is probably way too much.

And it’s usually better not to overdo it, either.

A few spanks here and there is really fun. But if you spend too much time smacking her cheeks, you might make them sore. Which is going to take away from her enjoyment.

Plus, you don’t want all the spanking to distract you from banging her as best as you can. No matter how good you are with your hands, that’s still the best part.

Pull Her Into You

There’s another thing you can do with your hands.

Grab her sides and pull her body into yours.

You’re already giving her a good pounding. Pulling her into you is going to make each thrust hit harder and feel more intense.

It’s also going to help you go deeper. With the right angle, you can give her every single inch of your shaft — and she’s going to feel it too.

And there’s something physically passionate about it. Like you want her so badly that being inside her isn’t enough — you need to give her everything you’ve got.

She’s gotta be fully aroused for this one, though. Not just wet enough to take it. Not just horny enough to want it. But physically aroused enough to go hard, deep, and fast without feeling any discomfort at all.

Squeeze Her Hips

This is a really simple move, but it makes a big difference.

Your hands will probably be somewhere on her — her butt, her hips, her lower back, her sides.

And that’s going to feel nice. Being touched always does.

But if you want it to feel hot, you’ll have to give her more of a squeeze.

Squeezing her hips shows her that you’re not just putting your hands on her because you have to put them somewhere. It shows her that you’re not just into it because you’re getting your dick wet.

It makes it clear that you’re also really into her and her body.

It’s a non-verbal way to communicate your desire for her. That’s going to make her feel wanted, which is incredibly arousing.

So don’t just stare at her butt and hips — give them a squeeze so she knows how much she’s turning you on.

Tell Her to Get Herself Off

Normally, I’d be telling you to focus on her clit while you’re doing her.

Reach down and rub it with your thumb while you’re in missionary.

Give her a good reacharound while you’re spooning. Or hold a vibrator against her clit while you’re giving it to her.

That’s something every guy needs to do if he wants to be good in bed.

But I’m going to give you a pass with doggystyle. It’s not impossible to pleasure her clit while you’re taking her from behind, it’s not just not really worth it.

You’re going to have to bend all funny to reach between her thighs. It’s not going to be comfortable for either of you. And there’s no way you’ll be giving her the best dicking you can while you do that.

Instead, you should tell her to do it herself.

Give her a simple, direct suggestion like “rub your clit for me.”

“Use your wand while I’m inside you” works really well too.

It’s just a few words, but they do a lot.

First of all, it’s hot as hell. It’s exactly the kind of straightforward dirty talk a lot of girls crave — and don’t get nearly enough.

You’re also giving her permission to get herself off. Not that she needs it or anything, but a lot of women feel kind of embarrassed about grabbing a vibrator during sex. When you’re the one telling her to do it, she doesn’t have to worry about how it makes you feel or that you might be weird about it. She can just give herself all the pleasure she wants, knowing that you’re into it.

And it shows that you’re taking her pleasure seriously. That you don’t just want her to have tons of fun and big orgasms, but that you’re attentive enough to know what she might need to get there.

That’s an incredibly attractive quality in a guy. It instantly makes you a better lay and it’s going to make her even more excited about getting pounded by you.

Compliment Her Butt

Have you seen those TikTok videos by women who have just found out that guys look at everything when they’re doing doggy?

They’re all shocked, a bit embarrassed, maybe even kind of upset by it.

I kind of get it. It can feel weird to be so exposed.

Unless you say something about it — then it’s just plain hot.

If you’re not having sex in total darkness, she knows you’re looking. Even if she doesn’t know when you’re doing it, she knows you’re going to take a peek or two.

Maybe you’re getting a good look at her thighs and vulva when she bends over for you. Maybe you look down at the way her butt jiggles every time you thrust into her. Maybe the way you grip her butt is spreading her cheeks so you sneak a peek.

That’s all good. It’s part of the fun. But if you like what you’re looking at, you should really be complimenting her for it.

Again, it’s the kind of dirty talk that most women don’t hear enough.

It also takes all the embarrassment out of being exposed for you. Instead of feeling self-conscious about all the things you can see, she gets to feel sexy and naughty about it. She can get even more turned on knowing her body is turning you on.

So, tell her how hot her curves are.

That the way her butt moves when you’re ramming into her drives you wild.

That she looks amazing when she’s bent over.

But maybe feel her out before saying anything about her hole. That’s more of a personal preference. She might love knowing that every inch of her body turns you on. Or she might prefer that you never call attention to it.

If you’re not sure how she feels about it, play it safe. Say lots of nice things about her hips and cheeks instead.

Adjust Your Angle

I find doggystyle is kind of a fussy position, so it really helps to play with your angles.

The way your bodies meet is going to make a big difference in how it feels. And it could be the difference between doggy that’s alright and doggy that will make her want to get on her knees for you again.

So, try out some new sensations.

Shift your hips and see how she responds to it. Tilt your pelvis so you’re coming in at a slightly higher angle. Lean into her more to see how that changes things.

If you’ve got a curve, work with that too. Adjust the way you’re coming at her to make sure you’re hitting all the right spots.

Even a slight shift in your position will make a big difference to how it feels. Use that to give her a bit of variety — and to find the perfect angle to give her even more pleasure.

Have Her Go Face Down, Buns Up

Face down, buns up is an amazing position and it honestly sucks that a lot of people haven’t discovered it yet.

But I know why they haven’t. It’s super vulnerable and makes a lady feel extra exposed.

It doesn’t feel all that natural, either. Getting on your hands and knees is one thing, but arching your back and sticking your butt in the air is something you would only do to get dirty.

And it probably seems kind of pointless. She’s got doggystyle down. She knows how to get on her knees and take it. There’s no need to mess with that.

Except there is. Because face down, buns up sex doesn’t just feel like regular doggy. It’s deep, intense, and super pleasurable.

When she gets in that position and you slide into her, she’ll feel the difference right away. And she’ll be grateful you asked her to do it.

Telling her to get in that position is really hot, too. There’s something commanding and dominant about it. If she’s at all submissive, getting into position for you is going to be a big turn on for her.

Give Her an Exceptionally Good Pounding

It’s easy to get kind of lazy with doggystyle.

Like yeah, I know doing her from behind takes a lot of energy. You can work up a real sweat pounding away at her.

But it’s easy to stick to the basics.

Get behind her. Push it in. Rest your hands on her for a bit more stability. And thrust until you’re done thrusting.

And honestly, that’s not bad at all. Getting banged like that by a guy you like is always a good time.

But with a few little changes, you can make it even better than that.

So the next time she’s bending over for you, don’t just thrust into her — give her the kind of doggy she fantasizes about.

It only takes a bit of dirty talk, a good squeeze, and some extra pleasure to make it incredibly hot for her.

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