5 Unexpected Sexual Fantasies You Should Explore
Who wouldn’t want to have sex with an ancient god or goddess…
Babe, what are your sexual fantasies? Whether you’re wild or more on the conservative side, you’ve probably had some fantasies about sex at one time or another.
A sexual fantasy is a deliberate thought that enhances sexual feelings. It’s mental imagery that turns you on. Sexual fantasies are generally things you wouldn’t normally engage in. They may even include taboos. But they are positive forms of erotic expression. They add excitement to sex, which could otherwise become mechanical, sterile, and boring. So what’s yours?
Unfortunately, there are still some misconceptions surrounding sexual fantasies. Freud wrote, “A happy person never fantasizes, only an unsatisfied one.” This has helped fuel the idea that people only fantasize to make up for a lack of sexual opportunities. But now, we understand that people who fantasize frequently may be having more fun in bed. They have sex more often and engage in a wider variety of erotic activities.
I have 5 sexual fantasies for you that you’ve probably never heard of. Some of them may rouse your interest. They surely arouse me!
#1: Sensation Play
Do you ever fantasize about being teased? I sure do!
Imagine being blindfolded and slowly touched and teased with an object such as a feather or faux fur. That is sensation play. Being teased helps you feel more pleasure during lovemaking. It connects you to your body and all its sensations. With sensation play, you have a more intense sexual experience.
So, picture yourself being tied up or stroked by multiple partners... or how about being spanked with a crop and having your nipples lightly pinched or bitten? These kinds of images can maximize your arousal during sex.
#2: Primitive Outdoor Sex
Have you ever wanted to have sex out in the forest the way our ancestors used to do it? Or maybe you’ve had sex with a lover in the forest, in a waterfall, or out in a beautiful pasture pressed up against a tree. This is what we call primitive outdoor sex.
The possibilities are endless! Some people even incorporate rituals for witchy vibes and infuse their bodies with the forces of nature. When you fantazing about having primitive outdoor sex, you connect to the elements of nature. You feel freer and you let go of your rigid sense of self. Nature fantasies can be a path toward freedom. They remind us of our ancient roots as sexually-liberated beings.
#3: Divinity Sex
Some people take their fantasies into the realm of the gods. I’m one of them. When I have sex with my partner, I imagine him being one of these gods ravishing me in the forest or making love to me in the clouds. That sounds weird, right? But I promise you, I’m not the only one with this fantasy.
If you want to explore this fantasy, here are a few gods and goddesses that can inspire you:
- Min, the Egyptian god of reproduction, love, and sexual pleasure.
- Qetesh, the Egyptian goddess of love, beauty, and sex.
- Aphrodite, the Greek goddess of sex and beauty.
- Eros, the Greek god of love and procreation.
- Rati, the Vedic goddess of love, carnal desire, lust, passion, and sexual pleasure.
In ancient times, divine forces were part of the human experience. So why not fantasize about these divine embodiments of sex for extraordinary experiences and heavenly orgasms? Give it a try. It’s worth it.
#4: Mirror Sex
I remember the first time I went to a love hotel in Japan. There were mirrors everywhere. I felt uncomfortable at first, but then I understood that it was a sexual fantasy that many people have.
Watching yourself while having sex can seem a bit narcissistic, but a tiny dose of narcissism from time to time is not unhealthy. You may encounter some resistance while exploring this fantasy. You might think, “I’m not good enough,” or, “my boobs aren’t big enough.” On the other hand, this is a chance to love your body by looking at it through a sexual lens. Turning yourself on is a major confidence boost. Mirror sex is definitely healing.
If acting on it alone, you can indulge this fantasy by stripping then masturbating in front of a mirror. You can compensate for the times you’ve had sex with a jerk who didn’t care about you or your pleasure!
#5: Energy Play
This one is the fantasy of yoga teachers and spiritual leaders. And surely another one of mine too. It’s about visualizing pure energy penetrating your whole body, filling your vagina, or emanating from your cock. It’s picturing streaming beams of light shining out of your hands and stroking your body with this energy.
Sounds a little too cookoo? Well, fantasies are for all tastes!
When you act on this fantasy, you have a sense of deep connection to the universe and everything in it. It’s a form of meditation that increases the intensity of sex and orgasms.
So, do you have any of these fantasies already? Would you now like to explore one of these while masturbating or making love? Try it out! And then, you’ll notice that you feel more energetic and sensual.
I dare you to embrace your fantasies or become conscious of them. Be shameless and observe how you feel afterward.
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