4 Moves Women Secretly Crave in the Bedroom
The unforgettable pleasure that will have her coming back for more
Women have been conditioned to play down their sexuality for centuries, and only recently have women felt more comfortable expressing their sexual desires in the past decade or so.
With having children, the daily stress and working too much sex can become quite vanilla for both partners.
Women turn to erotic romance novels to help enhance their pleasure, while men engage in porn to receive their fix. Of course, both sexes can enjoy both.
As a woman myself, I often fantasize about my next dream man and all the seductive secret moves he will do to me.
Women crave a level of erotica mixed with intimacy that some men might not be aware of. It's why so many women became obsessed with Fifty Shades of Grey.
I wasn't a fan of the movies, but I did watch them for the sex scenes, and I quite enjoyed them.
These movies were popular with women because of the level of intimacy and erotica combined with a focus on pleasure. Women often feel disappointed because most enjoy sex differently than men.
1 — Teasing her between the legs
Before you get to the juicy part, you must start teasing her by slowly running your hands up her legs; tender kisses are a must as you inch your way in between her thighs. Before removing her underwear, breathe on her lady parts and make full eye contact before devouring her vulva.
When it comes to having a man go down on them, women's complaints are how quickly he rips off their underwear and the lack of attention in arousing her.
Many women are uncomfortable with the intimate act because of their insecurities regarding their pleasure.
Taking your time and enjoying the process will make a woman quiver at the sight of you. Oral sex helps build intimacy and the intensity of her orgasm because of the stimulation of the clitoris.
Communicating and focusing more on her pleasure is a sure way to satisfy her and have her come back for more.
2 — Oral sex before doggy-style
Doggy style is a classic sex position that most people love. It will require the woman to be on all fours to receive penetration from behind, but before you decide to enter her, make sure you start with some oral sex.
This is an opportunity to pleasure her with what is known as analingus (rimming). You want to ensure the anus is clean to avoid the spread of bacteria.
Again, many women enjoy the act of analingus and oral sex in the doggy-style position because it instantly arouses them.
3 — Dominate her
Women have a lot on their plates compared to later generations. Working, taking care of children, household duties and cooking, we've come a long way from being stay-at-home wives.
They have had to use more of their masculine side in the workplace and life in general, so when it comes to the bedroom, they want to feel more feminine, which is why they sometimes want to be dominated when it comes to sex.
When people hear dominance, they link it to BDSM and can become fearful because of the lack of education on the subject.
Dominating can be simple, like throwing her on the bed or telling her to take her clothes off in a seductive tone. When a man takes the lead, the woman can feel more desired and sexually stimulated.
Ensure you both communicate to see how far you want to take submissive roleplay. This is an excellent start for any future expansion in the possible world of BDSM.
4 — Softly choke her
Some women love being choked; this is a conversation that you both should have before making this move for safety reasons and comfort.
What I'm talking about is lightly caressing her neck during the act of sex. To extend this move, you can cover her mouth to enhance her arousal and then softly kiss or nibble on her bottom lip.
The neck is sensitive because of many nerve endings, so most people become aroused instantly. It's also one of the hottest erogenous zones.
Understanding erogenous zones such as the neck, lips or in between the thighs will help enhance her pleasure and bring your sexual encounter to a level of intimacy.
Communication is vital when it comes to sex. Taking time and asking questions about what women like in the bedroom is a sure way to make her feel more confident about her needs.
Putting more focus on her can help build a more intimate bond between the two of you and, in turn, have her pay more attention to your needs.
A combination of intense sexual pleasure and emotional bonding is what most women crave in the bedroom.
When both partners can be open and show up fully for the experience, they will expand sexually and unravel many secrets locked in the depths of a woman's mind.
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