3 Ways a Man Drains His Life That Isn’t Good for His Life

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good afterwards. I feel emptied and lifeless afterwards. I feel lazy and I don’t want to do anything but lay around, eat, watch TV and feed my other addiction.</p><p id="fff5">Social media scrolling, reading and commenting. That alone sucks up my time and energy. Releasing my life energy while watching two people have sex is not a behavior that inspires me to have a productive day. I feel listless, hopeless and vacant afterwards.</p><p id="741c">Sex was created to be beautiful. It was created to bring forth life. It was created for love. We all want love no matter what you say. We all want to wake up and feel refreshed, energized and vibrant about life. If you wake up engaging in this visual stimuli good luck feeling those positive adjectives I shared. You’ll feel like a shameful sloth who vibrates on a low frequency when you log on to those websites. Porn will deplete your life figuratively and literally.</p><p id="9f2f"><b>3.) It’s desensitizes your drive for real sex and destroys relationships and marriage.</b> If you’re a woman reading this and you think there’s nothing wrong with porn you have no idea. If you’re a woman who’s reading this and have/had a husband who’s dealt with this addiction you know exactly what I’m talking about.</p><p id="441a">If you’re a married man porn is not going to help your marriage. It will hurt it. It’s cheating. Period. No grey area. A healthy sex life with your spouse and you watching porn cannot dwell in the same place. If you think so see how that works for you. It didn’t work for me. I turned to private and self pleasuring moments in my marriage when I felt disconne

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cted.</p><p id="0691">We were close but there was an obvious distance that we didn’t address and it cost us our marriage. Beyond that covenant I have a commitment to my dreams and purpose. It gets in the way of me pouring life into that. A man’s seed is his power and that energy is sacred. We waste it like it’s worth nothing. When you put value in our precious seed your life will be more abundant because within you will dwell abundant life.</p><p id="ebc9"><i>I don’t know the answers for how to quit watching pornography and again I’m no expert. All I can share is my personal experience. I feel better when I stay away “satisfying” that addiction. My suggestion to any man that suffers in silence with this just know that you’re not alone. We know that it’s a deep and dark rabbit hole. It’s an abyss and a black hole that light can’t even escape. Stay away from it at all costs. It adds absolutely nothing to your life. It just takes.</i></p><div id="f190" class="link-block"> <a href="https://readmedium.com/be-open-submission-guidelines-41ea51ef4ef1"> <div> <div> <h2>We Invite You to Become Our Writer — Be Open Submission Guidelines</h2> <div><h3>You don’t have to be a great writer or super perfect human to contribute here. I believe everyone can become inspirator…</h3></div> <div><p>medium.com</p></div> </div> <div> <div style="background-image: url(https://miro.readmedium.com/v2/resize:fit:320/1*eBrTZS3wC0WwzBZjivi7tg.png)"></div> </div> </div> </a> </div></article></body>

Imagine having the delusion of filling a bottomless pit. It never ends.

I’m writing this with men in mind because I’m a man and I believe a lot of men will relate to this. I pray that together we can expose this energy vampire and rise together like the sun. Let’s talk about porn.

1.) It’s addictive . It’s a drug.

Extremely addictive. I’m no expert but it appears to have the characteristics of other addictions. You think you can just stop on your own but you can’t. It really becomes a dependency. Lustful images are everywhere these days so there’s no escaping it. It has a very seductive allure.

I actually can control the experience of sex and orgasm? Too much power. When you think you have control over dopamine it will actually control you. I suggest seeking out dopamine the natural way. Sleep. Sunshine. Sex with a human that you love. Exercise. Hobbies that you love. Human connection. Everything I just mentioned is free and doesn’t cost like porn does.

2.) Porn is like a charging battery that does the opposite job for your battery. Indulging in watching and releasing from pornography never makes me feel good afterwards. I feel emptied and lifeless afterwards. I feel lazy and I don’t want to do anything but lay around, eat, watch TV and feed my other addiction.

Social media scrolling, reading and commenting. That alone sucks up my time and energy. Releasing my life energy while watching two people have sex is not a behavior that inspires me to have a productive day. I feel listless, hopeless and vacant afterwards.

Sex was created to be beautiful. It was created to bring forth life. It was created for love. We all want love no matter what you say. We all want to wake up and feel refreshed, energized and vibrant about life. If you wake up engaging in this visual stimuli good luck feeling those positive adjectives I shared. You’ll feel like a shameful sloth who vibrates on a low frequency when you log on to those websites. Porn will deplete your life figuratively and literally.

3.) It’s desensitizes your drive for real sex and destroys relationships and marriage. If you’re a woman reading this and you think there’s nothing wrong with porn you have no idea. If you’re a woman who’s reading this and have/had a husband who’s dealt with this addiction you know exactly what I’m talking about.

If you’re a married man porn is not going to help your marriage. It will hurt it. It’s cheating. Period. No grey area. A healthy sex life with your spouse and you watching porn cannot dwell in the same place. If you think so see how that works for you. It didn’t work for me. I turned to private and self pleasuring moments in my marriage when I felt disconnected.

We were close but there was an obvious distance that we didn’t address and it cost us our marriage. Beyond that covenant I have a commitment to my dreams and purpose. It gets in the way of me pouring life into that. A man’s seed is his power and that energy is sacred. We waste it like it’s worth nothing. When you put value in our precious seed your life will be more abundant because within you will dwell abundant life.

I don’t know the answers for how to quit watching pornography and again I’m no expert. All I can share is my personal experience. I feel better when I stay away “satisfying” that addiction. My suggestion to any man that suffers in silence with this just know that you’re not alone. We know that it’s a deep and dark rabbit hole. It’s an abyss and a black hole that light can’t even escape. Stay away from it at all costs. It adds absolutely nothing to your life. It just takes.