Marriage
3 Spiritual Reasons Why You May Struggle to Find a Partner
All the soul cares about is growth and expansion
1. You Married Too Many Times in a Past Lifetime
I strongly believe the soul wants nothing more than to have different experiences and learn different life lessons. Having many experiences and learning new and different things helps a soul evolve.
The mind and ego are attached to achievements, accomplishments, and marital statuses, but the soul is attached to nothing.
None.
All the soul cares about is growth and expansion.
Let’s say in one lifetime, a person was filthy rich and maybe did or didn’t help others at all. His soul may reincarnate just to experience being on the opposite end of the rope. The person’s soul knows what it feels like to be rich and has learned the lessons associated with being rich, so his soul may decide that he wants to experience and learn what it means to be a middle-class person who doesn’t have everything readily available and then after that life and the lessons are learned, his soul may come back just to learn how it feels to have nothing at all.
It’s the same thing when it comes to marriages. Many people marry many times. If a person was married and divorced many times in a lifetime, he or she may come back to experience what it feels like to go through life alone.
If a person married too early in a previous lifetime, he or she may come back to wait and marry later on in their life.
Now you may wonder, how will I know if this applies to me? The answer is you are the only one to know this. Your soul knows. Your intuition will give you hints not to stress too much about marriage because it’s been there done that.
You could look into past life regressions. Past life regression is a method that uses hypnosis to recover memories of past lives or incarnations.
You can trust and give in to your soul and follow its guidance. Your soul knows what it needs to grow and the mind may hold you back chasing after the wrong relationships.
To understand life, you must go back in time. To live life, you must go forward.
2. A Partner May Distract You From Your Mission
My spirituality means everything to me.
Without it, I wouldn’t be me. I’ve met many men I could have married who weren’t at all into spirituality and weren’t very open-minded about it, so I wasn’t comfortable being around them. I couldn’t be myself and that meant they weren’t the one for me.
I once met a man who I thought could be my husband. He was an elder of the church and very religious. I’m not religious. Religion means everything to him and I know it’s the work he came here to do. Working for the church is his mission. He didn’t believe in anything other than the church. Just like me, I knew he needed someone who would go to church with him 5 days out of the week. That person wasn’t me. I didn’t want to distract him and as painful as it was, we had to part ways so we could both focus on what we came here to do. We’re both still unmarried focusing on our purpose.
Some souls came here for important assignments that require focus and dedication. Relationships can sometimes be the biggest distraction.
If the soul knows that marriage will distract the person from doing what they came here to do, then marriage for that person may be postponed until the person is ready.
Many lightworkers will go through life alone until they can find the person who will help them fulfill their mission.
3. You Are Under Some Type of Curse
It's crazy, I know, but don't think evil doesn't lurk in the shadows.
For we wrestle not against flesh and blood, but against principalities, against powers, against the rulers of the darkness of this world, against spiritual wickedness in high places — Ephesian 6:12.
Curses are such ridiculous things, but it’s something worth exploring. A curse is the use of powerful words to invoke supernatural harm. They can be human or divine, oral or written, personal or collective. Some curses are binding, whereas others are conditional.
The world is made of opposites. Good and bad. Light and dark. There are light beings and workers walking the earth trying to make it a better place and there are also dark beings walking around reversing the good that has been done. Many of these dark beings have the ability to peek into a person’s future and see that they are blessed and try to undo those blessings by invoking a curse on them.
It's not fair, I know, but this world is far from fair.
These people grow up with their futures rewritten and they can’t understand why life is just so hard. They people grow up and find that they cannot find a suitable partner, no matter how good of a person they are.
But if you are an innocent curse victim, then you are innocent in the situation and you can break that curse. This is why there is free will. Nobody can put you in bondage against your will. They can only do that if you aren’t aware of the situation, and it goes unchecked. But once you start to think about it, you can use your gift of free will to liberate yourself.
Generational cycles and curses are also possible. These cycles or curses are consequences of an ancestor’s actions or even sins that are passed down to younger generations. Examples of a generational curse may include single parenthood, divorces, and women or men who don’t get married and late marriages. These are curses that are due to unseen forces beyond the person’s control. But you have the power to choose and create what you desire to pass down to your children. You get to decide if those cycles continue or end.
Other times, our own actions, lifestyle, and sins invoke curses upon us, and those are self-imposed curses. Certain sins can be a huge hindrance or blockage to marriage. Certain things we did in the past can block or delay marriage. Immoralities, bad character, and other sinful acts may be a source of delayed marriage because it's something that needs to be worked up for a successful marriage to take place.
For example, a girl who destroys other people’s marriages, wrecks other people’s homes, or runs off with other people’s spouses may later realize that she can’t find a good man to marry when she is ready to settle down. Because marriage is a sacred union between two souls, if a person breaks that union knowingly, there may be serious consequences. Mistakes happen, and people grow up, but sometimes we must take a look at ourselves.
If your curse is self-imposed, you may have to do some shadow work. You may need to go back and right your wrongs. You may need to apologize to the people you’ve wronged. And if you caused these people any pain and brought them any unhappiness, you may need to pray for their happiness to be restored. Only then will yours be restored.
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