3 Signs You’re Becoming The Person You’re Meant to Be

There’s a price to pay to become the best version of yourself

1. There’s Not Enough Time

When you remember who you are and the work you came here to do, you also remember all the things you need to do.

You find that you have so much to fulfil and very little time. You see that if you don't get it done, it's not getting done, so you must get it done.

At any given time, you could have about ten ideas in your mind, all of which you can execute and turn into something that helps humanity, but the only problem is there’s not enough time in a day to do it all.

You start to value your time more.

You acknowledge that time is precious, and you use it in the best way possible. It becomes your biggest and most precious asset and you refuse to give it to anybody or waste it.

You see how truly valuable it is and you no longer waste it. You know once you do, you can never get it back.

You become intentional about the way you spend your time. You stop saying “yes” to everything and you stop allowing social media to distract you from the work you need to do.

When you remember who you are and the work you came here to do, you also remember all the things you came here to do.

2. Certain Things No Longer Resonate

When you're a child, you're free to be a child.

Children have no real responsibilities, so they can afford to sit in the room all playing games on their phones, scrolling through social media or watching TV.

But when you grow up, you can’t afford to do the same old things.

The transition from childhood to adulthood is not always an easy one. All of a sudden, you have work to do and bills to pay. You have a purpose to fulfil and humanity to serve. When you become an adult, you have no one looking after you and you must figure it all out yourself.

This is not an easy thing, but it’s a price worth paying to become the person you came here to be.

When you’re becoming the person you’re meant to be, certain things, people, and places will no longer resonate because you're vibrating at a much higher frequency.

Sitting home all day watching other people live their lives will no longer resonate because you have things to do and write, people to teach and help, and better things to keep up with. You have your own life to live.

You won’t feel like going out every night to party. You won’t feel like spending time with those who bring you down anymore.

Instead of roaming the streets like you once used to, you’ll have the desire to be alone and work on yourself. You will want to get out there, find out the reason you’re here, and start working towards it.

When you’re becoming the person you’re meant to be, certain things, people, and places will no longer resonate because you’re vibrating at a much higher frequency.

3. You Think Before You Speak

When you’re becoming the best version of yourself, you’re unapologetic in many ways, simply because you know who you are. You’re unapologetic, especially about expressing yourself.

You're no longer afraid or intimidated to speak your mind. You speak and you do it boldly.

You’re bold when you speak, but you’re slow to speak. You think about what you’re going to say before you say it. No harsh or worthless words are found on your tongue. If it’s not worthy; if it’s not empowering and if it’s not helpful, you hold your tongue.

You know the power of words. You know it can break down and it can build up. You’re skilled at keeping a tight rein on your tongue.

When you lose sight of things and speak harshly, you’re not afraid to say you were wrong. You can apologize and make things right.

When something isn't going right, you can express yourself because you think before you speak and so you say the right things that will help the situation.

Because you can express yourself better, people have faith in you and your relationships improve. You become the one people call to speak during important situations because you're wise and sensible.

Seeing a positive change in the way you speak and expressing yourself boldly is a clear sign you're becoming the person you’re meant to be.

Note: This article is only meant to provide spiritual guidance and light-hearted content.

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