17 CHEAP, SIMPLE & SUCCESSFUL Ways That Will Guarantee You Go Home with Him Tonight

If you’re like most women, the prospect of going home with a man you just met terrifies you.

You worry about what to say, whether or not he’s really interested and, most importantly, your appearance. Here are 17 easy ways to make sure that you go home with him tonight — without having to worry about a thing.

1. Pay attention to your grooming

Make sure you’re well-groomed and smell nice. Use a mild fragrance or none at all, as men don’t want to be overwhelmed with your scent.

2. Be humble

Don’t brag, show off or talk about yourself too much. It’s an ego turn-off and you’ll also come across as conceited and boring. Men can smell desperation from a mile away.

There’s nothing more unattractive than a woman who desires attention and validation from others. Try to come across as self-assured instead, so he’ll see you as someone worth pursuing.

3. Don’t be afraid to make the first move

If you see that he’s interested, go ahead and make a move. You can depend on the 10 Commandments of Flirting to help get you started. And remember, it’s OK to be slightly aggressive when you’re interested in someone.

4. Be confident in yourself

If you don’t feel confident, fake it until you make it. Don’t be all wishy-washy about things. It’s a turn off to a man when a woman doesn’t know what she wants or isn’t confident enough to go after it.

5. Make sure you have an awesome personality

Having sharp wit, being interesting and being able to hold your own in conversations are all huge pluses when it comes to going home with a man tonight. The more you have going for you, the better your chances will be.

6. Be playful

Don’t let yourself get caught up in serious conversations or other such topics that take away from the excitement of meeting someone new. Make every word he says a fun challenge and playfully tease him.

7. Ask him to dance

If you’re at a club or a bar, ask him to dance with you. This will make him feel as though he’s being rewarded for his efforts and that he’s been accepted into your inner circle.

As an added bonus, it gives you the opportunity to really display your moves as well as get in some good face time. After all, physical attraction is important in any relationship.

8. Never talk about your ex-boyfriends or man troubles

Bad news travels fast, so if he hears about your three ex-boyfriends or all of the trouble you’ve been having with your boss, he’s going to assume that you have a lot of baggage and will run in the other direction. Save the discussion of your personal life for later — if things go well, you can bring it up then.

9. Don’t talk about sex

Discussing sex too early on is not a good idea — he’ll know that all you’re looking for is some bedroom action and nothing more. If you refrain from talking about it now, he’ll be much more willing to discuss it later on.

10. Flirt moderately

Be flirty, but don’t overdo it. Touch his arm when you giggle at his jokes, and lean in close when you’re talking to him. These are good flirting techniques that show your interest while reserving some mystery — leave him wanting more.

Try giving small hugs or kisses on the cheek when he least expects it. He’ll feel very flattered that you’ve taken the time to acknowledge his presence and this will give you a big boost in his eyes.

11. Dress in a way that makes you feel sexy

This is one of the easiest things you can do to increase your chances of going home with him. Dress in a way that makes you feel confident and attractive. If you find yourself wondering if he’ll like your outfit, then it’s probably not a good choice.

12. Be sexy and alluring, but not slutty

Let him know that you’re interested in him and you want to give him something to think about when he’s off at work or in bed by himself — but don’t compromise your integrity by acting like a total skank.

13. Make eye contact and smile at him

Holding eye contact gives him the impression that you’re confident and flirty, while smiling shows that you’re approachable and easy to talk to.

14. Engage in conversation and be engaging yourself

Ask him a question that’ll get his mind thinking about something besides, “Who is this person talking to me?” Smile as you’re having the conversation; it shows you’re interested and makes him more likely to want to continue talking with you.

15. Your body language is important

Make sure you look approachable. Stand in a way where you’re not blocking the bar or cutting off traffic, but also make sure your arms aren’t open wide and that you keep some distance between you two; don’t be too pushy.

16. Don’t be a tease

If he wants to buy you a drink or get your number, let him know it’s a possibility, but don’t give out false pretenses. Return his texts and agree to meet up for a date.

17. Keep him guessing

Don’t be too available and don’t let him know what to expect from you — this way, he’ll always come back for more. The best relationships are the ones where both people love each other’s unpredictability.

The Bottom Line

If you can manage to remember these 5 simple tips, there’s no reason why you shouldn’t be able to go home with a man tonight. And, more importantly, there’s no reason why you shouldn’t be able to do it again and again.

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