14 Actionable Tips On Health, Wealth, and Relationships

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I recently met a friend after nearly 15 years. We were not in touch most of the time. I briefly dated this person but it didn’t work out.

I was a bit skeptical to meet but meeting him made me realize how much I’ve grown and changed as a person since I was in college — not just in the romance/relationships area of my life, but in a lot of ways.

I’m happier in my body.

I’m more confident in my friendships.

I know more about money and everything in between.

The hard thing about getting older is you look back and realize all the things you would do differently if you could.

And the good thing about getting older is you look forward and realize what you can do differently in the future.

Here are things I wish I’d known but taking with me into the years to come.

1. Embrace yourself with your imperfection: Wherever you are in your life, accepting yourself is the key. You are enough at this very moment. Nothing else matters.
2. Stop wasting time to fit in people’s criteria to be likable: It’s not worth it. Your uniqueness make you special.
3. Don’t be embarrassed about the things you like. I used to be embarrassed to share my liking — how much I enjoy alone time, reading books, or just walking in nature. Be loud, exuberant, and joyful in your love for your hobbies, pets, and quirks. Your people will find you!
4. You always have a choice in what you can do with your time. Think about what you want to be able to do in a year. You can watch Netflix or play video games if you want. But that’s an active choice! Read a book, go for a walk, call your parents, or work on that painting, anything that makes your heart sing.
5. You are creative. As in, creating stuff, I reclaimed my love for creating art. I am indulging my time to paint and walk in nature.
6. Don’t wait to text back. If a man is turned off because you like him too much, he is not the man for you. And if you like someone, let them know.
7. Not all friends are meant to be forever: Let go of friends who are energy drainers. And it’s okay to let go of friends who don’t match your integrity and mindset.
8. Own your time: And then use that time doing something actively fun!
9. Money can help you take bigger risks and buy you freedom: Don’t waste money, but don’t be afraid to splurge on things that make you or your loved ones happy.
10. Start a side hustle: Now! I mean it! You want to write, so write! Don’t wait for inspiration to strike. Don’t wait for the right moment. Don’t wait to find the time. Start a blog, open a Word doc, anything.
11. It’s okay to change direction and move on: Sometimes it sucks to be stuck in ruts in routine. It’s to move on, change places, and try things that you have never done before.
12. Build sustainable habits: Move in whatever way makes you happy and eat whatever makes you feel good.
13. Think for the long term: Think about your life 10 years from now and see what you should be doing now. : Reverse engineering and see what is the immediate thing you can do.
14. Move your body and get sunshine: Get fit to live a healthy life- physically, emotionally, and mentally. Self-awareness is the tool you need to build emotional intelligence

Be Bold

Be Courageous

Be Your Best

Reference: https://readmedium.com/if-he-didnt-text-you-back-he-probably-doesn-t-care-about-you-109e01fab1eb

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