10 Ways to Bring Your A-Game into The Bedroom

If you are looking for a way to be frisky in bed and make him crave more sex, get in here.

Sex is the most exciting adventure in life. And a man’s body is a great pleasure machine that he uses to enjoy life to the fullest.

Sexuality fills a man’s intimate relationships with potential and excitement. The hormonal energy gives him the drive and aggression to pursue his life purpose and that of his partner.

Since orgasm is usually a reliable form of pleasure and easy to achieve, a variety of sexual acts, positions, and rhythms seem like a fantastic way to explore and increase a man’s level of satisfaction.

Hormones released during sex give men the feeling that they are finally home. After a turbulent day in a man’s life, sex embodies love and care, and provides soothing and support.

Ladies, now you know why men love sex so much, let’s get on with how to drive his hunger wild and make sure he never questions your skills in the bedroom.

He wants to see you take the lead

Sure, a guy would like to ask for a blow job or take your hands to his dick as a hint to give him a hand job, but he’d prefer it if you take the initiative sometimes.

So don’t wait for him to initiate sex, but instead, do it yourself whenever you feel like it. Most men find it sexy when the women take charge.

He wants you to scream with excitement

If you’re a screamer, scream. Your man probably wants this, but won’t say it. Screaming shows you are not ashamed to own your pleasure. And there is no perfect way to tell a lady that she lacks poise in bed, or needs more of it.

You don’t have to verbally admit you are enjoying yourself, but your actions will give him the glues. So don’t hold back your moans, groans, screams, and growls of pleasure. Don’t hold back if you really feel it in the moment. It’s like communication, only a lot sexier.

He wants to try different things at a time

Repetition can make a once hot sex life feel boring. So be open to a variety of things in the bedroom because men love it. Keep it exciting by exploring new places to play, such as the kitchen table, laundry room, in the car, or even outside.

Having sex in new areas can also lead to more fun and creative opportunities to roleplay. Whether it’s the foreplay or the actual sex, when there is a variety he will never really know what to expect and therefore it will help a lot to get his excitement going.

He likes when you appreciate his skills

While stroking and squeezing various body parts, praise him. He wants to hear how good he looks, how hot he makes you feel, how masculine he is, or how irresistible you see him.

Hearing about how wonderful they are in bed, or how ripped they look is one of the fastest ways to turn men on and boost their ego too. And an enhanced ego gives him confidence- raises his self-esteem and sexual satisfaction.

He wants to see the pleasure in your eyes

Men love it when their woman stares at them romantically, it’s a major turn-on. It makes them feel wanted, appreciated, and sexy.

You can also stare at their lips, mouth, or even chest when you are horny, they’ll get the message. Guys like it when women make their desire known in bed but won’t ask, or even tell you about it.

He wants you to explore his body parts

Never underestimate your man’s willingness to indulge in romance, seduction, and even the emotional aspects of sex.

This is one of those things guys like in bed but don’t ask, and the truth is, some of them don’t realize the pleasure they might get from being touched in places like this.

So, when you use your tongue to sensually swirl around his ears, gently nip his nipples, wrap them around his scrotum or lick his neck, he’ll definitely be pleased.

He wants to watch you play with yourself

Before diving into masturbation or penetrative sex, first focus on areas other than the genitals. Caress your neck, chest, nipples, thighs, and those little erogenous zones that are ignored when you masturbate.

Focus on touching yourself in a sensual way, and play with intensity and friction to feel the excitement. Men get off by watching the woman touch herself. It’s like an appetizer for them before the main dish. But, he needs to believe you’re enjoying yourself to actually get turned on by what you’re doing.

He wants to see you jerk off

Some men don’t say this too often but they want you to know your orgasm is as important as theirs. And the easiest to learn what tickles you in bed is by watching you masturbate yourself.

It helps him understand how you like to be touched, what drives you crazy, and your sensual zones. It is super sexy, and it also gets him hard and ready to perform. It can make your boring sex routine an erotic one, and it will undoubtedly make sex more pleasurable.

He wants a spontaneous oral session

Men love getting blow jobs. And they love it more when you take it upon yourselves to do it without them asking or begging for it. You can get oral sex ideas online and try a few to find out what makes your man go wild.

Focus on the areas with maximum sensation and work your way through an oral sex orgasm. It will do you both good and leave him wanting more. But make sure he is comfortable with oral sex in the first place. Don’t force it on him if he doesn’t.

He wants to hear what turns you on

Stop trying to protect your ‘good girlfriend’ image or that he will think you’re weird if you tell him how to please you. Being open about what you like, even if you’re worried about what he might think, is the best way to connect with each other in the bedroom.

He wants to know what you want, and that you are willing to turn his attention to those spots that you point out. Don’t be ashamed that he might think it’s “weird” that you need a vibrator to get off or you’ve always wanted to go dutch on a set of bed restraints.

He definitely wants you to get wild and enjoy it

For every wild fantasy you have, your man would probably welcome a break in leading the moves. He wants you to control your pleasure. Tell him if he disobeys you or doesn’t follow your directions, he’ll be punished.

Boss him around a little and tell him how you want him to touch you, tell him what to say, and direct his every move. Watch him squirm, and remind him from time to time that you’re in control.

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