10 Ways Men Succeed in Bed
Dedicated to those seeking heightened bedroom pleasure.

Bedroom Pleasures is the compilation of personal thoughts and experiences, round table discussions, questionnaires, pillow talk, and more.
Below are 10 selections from my gift guide written for men: Bedroom Pleasures, 40 Ways Men Succeed in Bed.
For some of you, the ideas will be a quick refresher course.
For others, the ideas may prove to be a major indulgence.
Either way, kick back and enjoy them. Have fun!
Ladies, share the ways with your man.
Men, definitely share it with your lady. She will love you for it!
Bedroom Pleasures…40 Ways Men Succeed in Bed
- Shower her with sensual, tongue engaging kisses, continuing with a string of kisses down her neck. Guys, there’s nothing like a man that can invoke that ‘wetness’ with just a kiss. Have mercy!
- Have good ‘staying’ power as you’re about to hit that climaxing moment, when you realize that she hasn’t ‘Caught the Train’ yet, so you slow the engine to let her get on board. You go boy! Choo-choo!
- The morning after…get out of bed before she does. Start the shower for a nice, long, sudsy, erotic shower for the two of you, while she awakens to the aroma of fresh coffee brewing in the coffee pot that was present the night before.
- Set up a lighted trail of candles leading to the bedroom. Use a long, tapered candle for your own erotic hot wax drippings to lavish over her entire body.
- Whisper ‘sweet nothings’ in her ear, tenderly touching her inner ear with the tip of your tongue. Yes, gentlemen. It still works wonders, and remember…The tongue is mightier than the sword.
- Go out dancing or to a romantic dinner. Flirt with each other all night long. Add a hint of fun to the evening by giving each other new fantasy names for the night.
- Let her know you’ve made special plans for the night, and she has to meet you at home at an allotted time. Arrive home before she does. Leave a hotel room key on the table, with a note, requesting that she meet you at the hotel room. Have the hotel set the room up for an intimate candle-lit dinner for two. Have an overnight bag packed for her.
- Walk hand in hand through a misty rain shower. Make sure you both get soaked and drenching ‘wet’. The fun comes in disrobing, drying each other off, and getting each other wet again.
- Dim the lights and make love to her in front of a mirror. Bold enough to go all out? Outfit the entire room with mirrors. Go into Star Trek mode. Tell her you’re going to ‘beam her down’ and go where no man has ever gone before.
- Tease her with a Peacock Feather. If the mood is right, leave out the Pea and the Feather.
Life is a continual change. In reading these 10 ideas from Bedroom Pleasures, my hope is that it sparks dialogue and encourages you to stretch your imagination.
Give yourself permission to try something new.
Be willing to express your passionate side. Above all else, never be afraid to love.
These tips were previously published in the author’s book, Bedroom Pleasures…40 Ways Men Succeed in Bed, available on Amazon.
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