10 Unmistakable Signs You Are Ready For a Twin Flame Reunion

#7. You feel like you are already together again

It’s the one thing we as twin flames crave the most — the day you get to reunite with your twin flame again. It probably even becomes an obsession, and every day you think about that magical moment when you get to hold your twin in your arms again.

But the longer you wait, the more disillusioned you get… Will there ever be a reunion? Your twin seems to have moved on with their life a long time ago already, why do you still hold on? Maybe you have tried to date other people, but nothing really compares to the connection you had with your twin flame.

If a reunion is in the cards for you and your twin, rest assured it will happen at some point. It may not be for years or even lifetimes, but the whole purpose of twin flame relationships is to meet your authentic self.

Both of you have to put in the same work though.

If you are really twin flames, healing happens almost simultaneously. You, putting in the effort to get to know yourself, directly affects your twin as well. If you are ready to reunite, your twin flame most likely also is.

But how do you know when you are ready for a twin flame reunion?

1. You are happy alone

Our whole life we learn that we should meet our soul mate. From all the Disney movies to the love songs — finding love has bombarded us since childhood. No wonder it’s hard for many of us to not feel lonely when we are alone.

We constantly crave some sort of connection with somebody else.

But finding a true connection starts with being happy with yourself alone. Embrace your body, your talents, the unique way you see the world, and the fact that you are alive. You are a pure creation of art; your Soul, your mind, and your body are all working as One to let you experience this Earth. Experience it fully, together with just yourself, without giving in to any external longing of wanting to be with someone.

This is when you know you can be truly happy alone, and you don’t need your twin flame to experience moments of bliss.

2. You stop waiting

It’s hard to stop waiting for your twin flame. You have been told you are in separation because you need this time for yourself, and a reunion will eventually be the reward. How can you possibly not wait for that?

But the trick is that a reunion can only come when you stop waiting. The fact that you are waiting, still means that you want something external to fulfill you. Live your life in the present moment, which means that at this moment your twin is not part of your life. Stop dwelling on the past or looking forward to a future that has not arrived yet.

Your life is now, and now is the only moment that you can truly be alive.

3. You trust every outcome

Another lesson in the whole twin flame journey — it doesn’t matter anymore whether or not you will reunite with your twin. Sounds weird? That’s because it’s the opposite of what you think you desire.

If you trust every outcome (a reunion or not), it’s a sign you’ve chosen to love yourself no matter what. The twin flame connection is an amazing catalyst for healing your core traumas and once you get to that point, it really doesn’t matter anymore whether or not you reunite.

After all, your twin flame already gave you anything they could have possibly given you: loving yourself. A reunion would be a pleasant side effect, but not necessary.

4. You’ve brought your shadows to the light

The whole purpose of being separated from your twin is to get to know the real you. This means also your dark side.

But what if you are an empath?

It doesn’t matter, everybody has a shadow side.

Are you an empath because you feel called to heal everyone but not yourself? Does other people’s misery secretly make you steer away from your own? Is constantly wanting to help others actually the ultimate excuse for “not having time or space” to help yourself?

It doesn’t really matter what your dark side is, you have to bring it to the light before you are ready for a reunion.

Hint: your shadow side is probably what triggers you the most in your twin flame.

5. You trust your intuition

Everybody always has an idea about something. You might have told some people about your twin flame connection, and they probably laughed in your face. Are you crazy?! That shit doesn’t exist!

You doubt yourself and think it was all an illusion.

You probably even hate twin flames at some point. You are ashamed you even believed in this spiritual crap in the first place!

But your intuition keeps telling you there is something more about this person. Why can’t you move on? Why did they get you into a spiritual awakening? Why do you have the feeling you guys are meant to be together?

Trust your intuition. It’s there for a reason. Whether it is to show you another lesson about this person, or to confirm they are really your twin flame — something in your story is not finished. And your intuition will tell you exactly that.

6. You are not afraid to look in the mirror

Are you aware that your twin flame is you? The parts that you hate the most about them, are also in you. This is very hard to comprehend, especially if your twin flame hurt you.

Whatever triggers you the most about them, is also your shadow.

If you can truly look into the mirror and see yourself in your twin flame, you are learning some big lessons. For example, my twin flame was obsessed with earning money. I could not possibly understand how this could be my own shadow, since I was a budget backpacker not giving two shits about money.

But this was exactly where my shadow sits as well. My relationship with money was as toxic as the one of my twin flame. It just manifested completely differently. I didn’t want to spend my time earning money, because I saw it as the cause of evil in my family (my dad always shouted that all he was ever good for, was putting money on the table). But when easy money would present itself to me, I would take it.

Realizing money was a big shadow in my life, made me want to discover everything else I could learn from truly looking in my twin flame mirror.

7. You feel like you are already together

This sign is a very big step towards reunion. You feel like you are already together again with your twin flame. It doesn’t matter how near or far they are, you have a relationship with them in another realm.

When you look forward to going to sleep (alone), because you know you will connect with your twin flame in your dreams, this means you are still together. It may not be in the human form, but it’s in the spirit form.

Chances are your twin flame is also dreaming about you, which is why you feel so connected. You can also achieve this effect in meditation, or maybe during the use of psychedelics.

You and your twin flame are connected beyond the physical form, and it doesn’t matter to you any more whether you reunite in the human form as well.

8. You love unconditionally

Twin flame love is hard. It’s probably the toughest love you will ever experience. Your twin flame triggers all your core traumas and it takes a lot of courage to resolve them. Nobody likes to enter the dark gates of their soul, but it is necessary on this journey.

Because once you come out of it, you have learned to love unconditionally. You realize that your twin flame is also a wounded soul. That they did certain things because they are hurt. That doesn’t justify anything, but at least it gives you perspective.

Hurt people hurt other people.

When you learn the truth about childhood conditioning and core traumas, you will feel compassion for your twin. You truly love them unconditionally, as you accept that whatever they did to you, was the inability of loving themselves.

All you can do is hope that they have the same understanding and the courage to heal. You no longer have the desire to help them, because you know they can only help themselves. You just love from a distance and hope the best for them.

9. You let your twin be whoever they are

This one builds upon the previous sign, but if you can let your twin be whoever they are, without wanting to change them, you are ready for a reunion. After all, we cannot ever change anybody but ourselves.

People can only change if they really want to.

But before changing, they need to be aware of who they are. A twin flame has the miraculous ability to make somebody aware of a deeper truth. But the inner work still has to be done by each individual.

Whether or not they do that, is up to them. It’s up to you to have the capacity to be with someone who is not changing into something you want them to be.

If they are the Runner, let them run.

Choose what is best for yourself — if you cannot accept your twin how they are right now, it’s best to keep your distance. There is nothing wrong with walking away to protect yourself, I did it too:

10. You realize you are and always will be One

Whether twin flames are real or not, this connection teaches you that ultimately we are all One. Not just you and your twin flame, but you and everybody else as well.

We all come from the same Source, and we all struggle with life. Some people struggle more than others, and some people seem to have it all. You having had a twin flame connection is such a rare opportunity to see the world for what it is — a place to enjoy and protect.

Your twin flame relationship was meant to happen to you. You might regret it, or hate that they even entered your life in the first place. But they came to teach you a lesson. It’s up to you to learn it.

When will the reunion come?

So you’ve read all the signs, and come to the conclusion: yes, you are ready! When will this reunion finally come? This is the moment you will find out if you are really twin flames. If that is the case, your twin flame has done the same work as you and is also craving a reunion.

But how do you find out?

The Runner has to be one to reach out again. They know it when they are ready, and they will contact you when they are. It shouldn’t matter when exactly this moment will come, because you are already happy alone anyway.

Since I am the Runner in my relationship, I wasn’t ready for two years to reunite with my twin flame. And to be honest, it scared the hell out of me to reach out to him now. I had no idea what he was up to, and if he still thought about me or if he had another relationship already.

But I felt I was ready for whatever outcome. So I contacted him. He responded that he couldn’t wait to share our healing journeys. I still haven’t seen him, but maybe, just maybe, we are both ready for a reunion…

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