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Summary

The article presents 10 sex positions aimed at enhancing intimacy and pleasure without discomfort, emphasizing variety and connection over acrobatic feats.

Abstract

The article "10 Best Sex Positions to Try with Your Wife" offers a guide to couples seeking to maintain a vibrant and exciting sex life. It emphasizes the importance of avoiding boredom in the bedroom by introducing a selection of sex positions that prioritize intimacy, connection, and mutual pleasure without requiring extreme flexibility or potentially uncomfortable contortions. The positions range from variations of classic moves, like the missionary, to more creative ones inspired by the Kama Sutra. The author stresses the significance of communication and comfort, suggesting that a handful of well-executed positions can be more beneficial than a multitude of complex ones. The article also touches on the importance of non-verbal communication, such as eye contact, and the role of foreplay and other forms of sexual exploration to enhance the overall sexual experience.

Opinions

  • The author believes that comfort and mutual pleasure should be prioritized over complex sex positions that might cause discomfort or pain.
  • It is suggested that a few well-chosen sex positions can effectively keep the sexual relationship engaging and prevent it from becoming predictable.
  • The article conveys that intimacy and emotional connection are crucial components of a fulfilling sexual experience, highlighting positions that facilitate closeness and eye contact.
  • The author advises against using a position that causes pain or discomfort to the female partner, as it could lead to her viewing the sexual encounter as selfish and unenjoyable.
  • The author opines that there is no single key to amazing sex and that a variety of approaches, including those detailed in other articles, can contribute to a satisfying sexual experience for both partners.

10 Best Sex Positions to Try with Your Wife

Do you want to keep your sex life spicy and juicy?

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Babe, are you tired of practicing the same sex positions in bed?

In this article, I am walking you through the 10 best sex positions to move away from boredom. But I am NOT going to teach you sex positions that require you to twist your woman into a pretzel. Because if you do, believe me, you are going to make her very uncomfortable and sore. You get the picture, right?

No. Rather, I am going to show you ways to transform your sexual experience. It will make your sexual relationship much less boring and predictable. Because if it becomes boring and predictable, your woman will stop wanting it sooner or later. And that’s a fact. You don’t want that.

Experimenting with a variety of positions to keep the sex exciting is a simple way to keep your woman engaged. That said — you don’t need a million positions; only a handful.

If it becomes boring and predictable, your woman will stop wanting it sooner or later.

So here is my selection of 10 juicy and powerful sex positions.

#1: The Lotus

Lotus is the perfect position for intimacy, connection, warmth, and of course, orgasm! Facing each other you are easily able to look into each other’s eyes and kiss sensually.

Sit cross-legged while your woman sits on your lap with her legs wrapped around you. In this position, your cock can easily penetrate her pussy.

In this position, your cock can easily penetrate her pussy.

#2: The Hook Up

This is a variance of the missionary that increases pleasurable pressure on your penis.

Your woman lies on her back with you on top. Let her hook her legs up over your shoulders. If she wishes, she can cross her ankles behind your neck to tighten the vaginal canal.

Play with her breasts while making deep eye contact to heighten the intimacy of the experience. In the Hook-Up position, you have the control!

Now, I am going to share a little secret for this position. Move mostly your pelvis rather than your whole body to conserve energy and make love longer.

In the Hook Up position, you have the control!

#3: The Crab

This sex position comes to us from the Kama Sutra. It is a pleasurable twist if you like your girl being on top, and it is a great position for deep penetration.

Lie on your back with your partner on top as she leans back, with her arms supporting her weight instead of her knees. Now, this position involves a bit of penis flexibility.

#4: The Fusion

This is similar to the Crab except that you are both sitting up, supporting yourselves with your arms. Extend your legs in front of you and place your arms behind you.

What I love about this position is that it allows for a range of movements to hit the spots that feel best.

#5: The Butterfly

Say hello to the Butterly, the ultimate sexual position. It is easy to do and pleasurable for both you and your partner. If you enjoy racy sex, this is for you, as you can penetrate her vigorously.

So why do we call it Butterfly? When her legs are wide apart and you are thrusting, they simulate the movements of the wings of a butterfly. But she doesn’t need to keep her legs wide apart and she can simply put them flat on your chest.

To perform the Butterfly, stand next to the bed in front of your partner while she lies on her back. Pull her to the very end of the bed and place her legs either flat on your chest or wide open. Her feet should be in the air right above your shoulders. Once there, enter her and push in until her vagina has completely engulfed your penis.

Hmmm, yummy and juicy. The butterfly position can be intensely sexual and hit the G-spot easily.

#6: The Wheelbarrow

The Wheelbarrow sex position requires some arm strength to maintain the position. It is not the most fun and enjoyable sex position for both partners, but it can certainly spice up your sex life. Think back when in elementary school you had wheelbarrow races. Ah, nostalgia. Well, now your woman will be the wheelbarrow.

To perform this position you need a bit of technique. Have her rest her elbows or head on a pillow, with her butt in the air and pussy towards the ground. Grab hold of her ankles and lift her lower body. Have her knees bent, and then penetrate her. Now, stop here and don’t race.

In this position, your woman’s arms and hands will get tired incredibly quickly. She might not be able to hold it for more than a minute. So, consider the Wheelbarrow as a Sexercise, and switch soon to a more relaxed position such as the next one.

#7: Spooning

This is not a position for rough or hardcore sex, but rather a recovery position. It is easy to perform and can be really intimate.

You and your partner both lie on your sides facing the same direction, with you behind. As you enter her, reach around with your hands and start masturbating her. Rub around her clit and labia with your fingers and witness her climaxing.

Spooning feels wonderful when performed with someone you are close to.

#8: The Criss-Cross

Do you and your partner like to have a tighter feeling during sex? This is the position for you.

To perform the Criss-Cross, stand up straight up while your partner lies on her back on either a bed or a table. Her legs should be pointing towards the ceiling. After you penetrate her, cross her legs at her ankles, but make sure you don’t cross them too far and hurt her.

It is quite similar to the Butterfly but provides a completely different sensation.

#9: The Dancer

This is a position that requires your woman to have a little bit of leg strength without a lot of flexibility.

Start by standing upright, facing each other. As your woman lifts one of her legs, hold it at your side.

You can gaze right into the eyes and hold each other closely for a more intimate feeling. Otherwise, you can spank her with your free hand or add some little anal fingering to bring a kinky twist.

#10: The Pretzel

Okay, I know I told you at the beginning of this article that I’m not going to teach you sex positions that require you to twist your woman into a pretzel. Yet, the Pretzel is a real sex position; just maybe not the one that you have in mind. It can be enjoyable and comfortable for both partners. Anal sex is also quite easy in the Pretzel position. Doesn’t sound too bad, right?

To perform the Pretzel, ask your woman to lie on her side and raise her top leg towards her chest. Straddle her straight leg while on your knees and remain upright.

In this position, it is not about penetrating fast and hard. It is about slower, more gentle, and intimate sex.

To bring some juiciness, ask your woman to masturbate herself or massage her clitoris.

That’s it for the 10 best sex positions. I hope you’ve enjoyed my selection and gained valuable information.

Now, remember:

  1. Never use a position that causes your woman pain and discomfort. If you carry on, she will end up seeing you as a selfish lover and won’t enjoy the sex very much at all.
  2. Let go of the idea that a particular sex position is a key to giving your woman amazing sex. There are many other ways that I describe in my other articles.

So, make sure to check my other articles, and if you have any further questions, please let me know.

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