5 Steps to Perfect Pussy Licking
The ultimate guide to cunnilingus

Babe, if you want to give your woman the most incredible sexual experience, have some pussy for dinner tonight! You can make your woman feel as if she is in heaven using only your tongue, lips, and two fingers.
Up to 70% of women will not be able to reach a satisfying climax without oral stimulation. This is why many women prefer cunnilingus to sexual intercourse and why you should be learning oral sex techniques.
In this article, I am going to share with you my 5 secrets, plus a bonus technique at the end, to give her the most mind-blowing orgasms she has ever had.
Up to 70% of women will not be able to reach a satisfying climax without oral stimulation.
Secret #1: Create Anticipation
Create anticipation by starting with passionate kisses all over her body. Kiss her neck, her face, her breasts, her belly, her pelvis, and her inner thighs, but stay away from the vagina for now. Build tension by teasing towards her sensitive areas without actually touching the vagina.
Spend about 10 to 15 minutes teasing her. She will get deeply aroused and desperate for you to touch her vagina.
Secret #2: Go Slow
Male sexuality can turn on and off quickly like a switch, whereas female sexuality takes time to heat up like a dial. So go slow! On average, women take 20–30 minutes to get aroused. The slower you take things, the more she will crave your touch and let go of her resistance.
When her pussy wants you, she will try to get her hips in a closer position where her clitoris stands in front of your tongue. That’s a good sign!
Secret #3: Be an Artist
Now that you’ve built up anticipation and created positive tension, it is time to use your tongue like a brush on a painting.
You want your first lick to be long, slow, and soft. Flatten your tongue, and go up and down her vaginal lips.
Vary your tongue movements with 3 key aspects:
- speed
- direction
- pressure
You want to lick in every direction, with different speeds and different pressures.
Brush around the whole area between her outer and inner vaginal lips using your tongue.
Draw circles around her clitoris without touching it yet. Make sure that you apply medium pressure without going hard or fast at this point. Keep it slow and steady.
Here are 2 techniques you can experiment with on your woman :
The Warm Breath
Before you touch her vagina, blow your hot breath on it…and then pause. She’ll go wild.
The Long, Teasing Lick
Using the tip of your tongue, lick outside the edge of her vaginal lips with long strokes, one at a time. Continue for about 30 seconds in one direction with the same speed and pressure. Then, switch to the other side of her lips. Gauge what she enjoys and remember it.
Secret #4: Sip from the Fountain
Now it is time to start playing with her clitoris. Touch her clit with only the tip of your tongue. Start slow and then gradually build up the speed, flicking your tongue quickly. This will make her legs shudder.
When she is getting closer to orgasm, make your lips into an “O” shape and take the whole clitoris into your mouth. I call this movement “sipping from the fountain”. Stay there for about 30 seconds before switching to a flattened tongue with long strokes to give her the “ice cream” lick for another 30 seconds.
Secret #5: Use Your Fingers
Fingering can bring a whole new level of pleasure to cunnilingus. When it comes to making a woman orgasm, there are two main spots to hit: the clitoris and the G-spot.
Let one or two fingers slide into her pussy towards the upper wall until you feel a spongy area. It feels very different from the other tissue inside. When you find it, you have her G-spot.
Press into this area and circle your finger around it. You can also make a “come here” motion with your fingers. Be careful not to scratch her with your finger.
Now you know my 5 secrets to have some yummy and juicy pussy for dinner! Go ahead, text your woman right now and let her know that you’re going to set up something very special for her later tonight.
BONUS Technique: The Kivin Method
The Kivin Method is also known as “Tahitian cunnilingus”. It is an oral sex technique that can give a woman an intense orgasm within 5 to 10 minutes of stimulation.
- Proceed with the 5 secrets that I’ve taught you earlier and then lay perpendicular to your woman. Instead of looking upwards at the clitoris, you’re looking at it sideways.
- Place two fingers on one side of the hood of her clitoris and then lick side to side. Run your tongue back and forth, over and under the hood.
- Place the flat of your thumb on her perineum — the area of skin between the anus and the vagina. Apply pressure without moving. This stimulates the strongest muscles involved in the female orgasm. Play with the speed.
- As she approaches orgasm, lick the head of her clitoris and continue the stimulation.
Orgasm Guaranteed!
Cunnilingus should become part of your sexual repertoire if you want to spice up your sex life. And now you know everything about it.
If you want to share your techniques, please let me know in the comment section below.




