You’re Already the Best Version of Yourself. You Only Need to Activate It to Live the Life You Want

Time to make a change and live your best life

It’s sad why we’re complete and divinely made, but we’re looking for external approvals to feel whole.

Although, it’s not our fault. The world has made us. But, when would we stop blaming the world when we aren’t kids anymore and at least have discovered some truths about life?

When can we stop the victim game and start making changes?

Is the blame game even working in our favor at all? No.

Then why can’t we understand we’re adults now and the responsibility for lives is in our hands and activate this power and live life as we want?

Why not?

What I Can’t Fathom

I’ve been asking you questions all along because I can’t imagine why we’re no more kids but aren’t seeing we’re adults. The responsibility for our lives is in our hands, and we have the power to decide, do and be whatever we want without any barrier.

Most of us, notably, are waiting on the world for approvals to live our lives. But, the permission to live, unlike yesterday when you were a kid, and it was in your parent’s hands, is no more. The power is in your hands now. You’re in charge and control of everything relating to your life.

So, why wait on someone, the world, to give you that? You’ve waited for long. The approval isn’t coming. Can’t you see you’re the one in charge and have to activate it?

It’s one thing I can’t imagine when I look at people. The power to do, be and have whatever life we want is in our hands. It’s not in anybody’s hands. And you have to activate it to live the life you want because nobody will do it.

“To be brutally truthful, the removal of your noodle from seeking other people’s futile approval to be you is one of the most beautiful steps to flight, where wings flap to freedom from so many deadly traps.” — Curtis Tyrone Jones

Time to make changes to live your best life

You’ve been living the same way, complaining about what’s wrong in your life and what’s somebody didn’t do, and you haven’t amounted to anything.

You’ve been blaming people for the wrongs and foisting the responsibility on your life on others. This attitude hasn’t worked in your favor till now. It’s time to make changes. Don’t you think so?

Yes, you’ve responded. Well, as you’ve accepted it and it’s the first step to overcome every problem in life, where do we start?

Who are you? What’s it you want out of life? How would you describe the best version of yourself to someone if they asked you?

The answer to the last question answers all the other questions. How you think your best self is. That’s who you are. So, start living like it.

What resources do you think you’ll need to activate this person you are? Who’s help would you need? How can you start this version of yourself?

This is the planning stage, and the answers to these questions are with you. If you can find them, you’ll become your best version of yourself.

The significant fact to activate the best version of yourself

“Nothing happens until something moves.” — Albert Einstein

What differentiates successful people from unsuccessful is acknowledging problems and resolving them. That, those who succeed do, and those who fail don’t.

To activate the best version of yourself is to accept you’re messed up and need fixing. And since you’ve accepted this fact, which is the first step, you’ve solved half of the problem and what’s left is the remaining half.

You solve that by practicing what you got from the questions asked earlier. You know the answers you came up with. And I can’t promise you. But, what I can say, which is one thing for sure, is that, as you have discovered yourself and the answers to help you get to your spot in life, if you don’t relent but do the work, you’ll achieve the goal.

What makes me confident about it? I’m a living example of it. I was a kid without direction and a future in life. I was struggling and living poorly.

But, when I discovered what you had found now, and I put in the work, here I am even writing and telling you about it. I’m nowhere close to where I want to be in life. But, it doesn’t underestimate the fact that I’ve achieved enormous success mentally, physically, spiritually, and emotionally and I’m on to my future.

That’s what will happen to you when you do the work. It’ll give you a breakthrough in the other areas of your life.

Your guide to the destination

Whenever someone has found themselves and the person they’re supposed to become in life; heaven breaks loose. Life comes around to test them. It does so with problems and setbacks that you weren’t already experiencing.

The way to deal with such troubles is to remain calm but assertive. But, unfortunately, as you have decided to carve a different path in life, your loved ones and those you call friends have become your enemies automatically.

These people will start behaving strangely towards you and sometimes deny you the love and affection they gave you. They’ll come around you with lots of troubles, all in an attempt to take you off course.

But in all of it, you must keep your cool and understand that it isn’t their doing. It’s life using them to test you to see if you deserve what you’ve chosen. So, rather than fight and defend your course, don’t. When they come up with brawls, don’t engage them. Just be calm and resolute and keep going. And as I’ve said, it’s life testing your strength; if you keep your calm and stay resolute, it’ll hand you the keys to your next life.

So, bear that in mind and never allow the external forces to take you off course on your journey.

And oh, before I forget

You’ll need to surround yourself with people and only people that help you get better — only quality people (O.Q. P), they call it. And I don’t care whether they’re people you know or don’t know, whether they’re close to you in person or all far away. All you have to do is make sure you have these people in your life.

Since my journey started, I have been without friends in real life for the last four years. All my friends are people I watch on the internet or books or music that I read and listen to. They aren’t close to me in real life, but they’re keeping me going.

So, you want to do the same thing to ensure you have someone to lean on when the going gets tough.

You’re already valuable, successful, and a better version of yourself.

The problem that has prevented you from living it all these years is the world through its programming.

But as you know it now, what’s the way forward? Are you going to remain as you have all these years and amounted to nothing, or you’ll do what’s necessary to live it?

The ball is in your court, and you have to decide.

It’s your choice.

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