Your Twin Flame Ghosted You? It’s Not For The Reason You Think
Even if you just met, there is this longing to be together. And that’s scary.
I get it: nobody likes to be ghosted. Especially coming from the person you feel is your Divine match. But the thing is, your twin flame doesn’t ghost you for the reasons the Ego assumes:
- “They don’t care about you”, or
- “They don’t love you”, or
- “They are heartless people,” or
- “They want to make you miserable.”
The actual reason is simple: they don’t know what to do with you.
Have you ever tried a new appliance, but it was too much for what you’re used to? You turn it off and go back to the old one; even if it’s boring or limiting, at least you know what to do with it.
You are the advanced appliance, and vice versa: your twin feels like the ultimate appliance for you. The difference is how we handle emotions as a polarized Soul:
- For the Divine Feminine, we know what we want, and it doesn’t take much for us to be “all in” — even if we don’t express it verbally. We act intuitively.
- For the Divine Masculine, they know what they want: Us, but they have reasons to believe it won’t work. They act (or not) upon consequences.
It Is Not Your Lack Of Worth, But Your Unthinkable Worth
Your twin doesn’t step back because they don’t love you, but because loving you (deeply) is too easy. Loving you feels like the actual purpose for their existence — and vice versa —.
You are the most authentic person they have met because You are Them.
Sooner than later, the soul calls itself to merge, and that sensation of being about to lose control can be scary. That’s when they ghost you.
Of course, the Ego will try to convince us that our twin’s behavior is due to our lack of worth, but it’s the opposite: it proves our worth.
Why? Let me ask you:
How many average relationships have you had in the past?
I know that I have had many. And I’m grateful for each one; those experiences were enriching, yet average compared to just being next to my twin.
The feeling of Divine wholeness I experience by looking at my twin’s eyes brings me more joy and pleasure than the sum of all my previous relationships.
Your twin feels the same about you.
Moving forward with an average relationship or casual encounter is effortless because, deep down, you know there is nothing extraordinary. Yes, you might be in love; yes, it might be a good match, but twin flame connections are rare.
Even if you just met, there is this longing to be together. I remember the last day I shared with my twin before physical separation; I didn’t know it was the last day or what twin souls were, but there was this voice inside of me saying:
“I don’t want to leave; I want to stay with you today and everyday.”
I never experienced that yearning in an average relationship. Those are simple; if it doesn’t work, grief apart, life will continue. A twin soul connection is Divinely made, which puts the Ego on alert.
Again, this proves your worth and what you mean for your twin.
Not Your Average Relationship, And There Is Beauty In That
Please open your heart to a more neutral perspective. Be compassionate to yourself, so you can be compassionate to your twin, and don’t let negative thoughts trick you.
Eventually, the Ego comes to exhaustion, and you both realize that no matter how hard you try, nothing can break the connection, the same way you can’t ever break up with yourself.
Trust your Divine bond, trust the Universe. Everything will come into place step by step.
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