You Will Never Be Good Enough to Manifest Your Desires
Thank goodness you don’t have to be…
“I know why it didn’t happen. I was only thinking about what I wanted and my plans. I didn’t give God the glory and the Lord saw I wasn’t ready.” My friend said.
“No, it happened because your business partner is a D — .” I stopped. Took a deep breath. I caught myself before I finished that word along with a stream of other words my friend would have thought were ungodly.
She was closing the doors to her business and she was crushed, frightened, and dismayed. She had dumped her entire savings into a business with a partner who gave nothing back.
Why couldn’t she see this? Why did she think her business failed because she wasn’t ready or hadn’t glorified God enough? Why did she feel she wasn’t good enough for a thing hundreds of thousands of people already have?
Well, who am I kidding, haven’t I felt the same way before?
Yes, before — before I realized I will never be good enough for my dreams to manifest in my reality, and I don’t have to be.
Why do we think we have to be “good enough” for our dreams and desires to manifest in our reality? Somehow, all that energy you’ve drummed up while dreaming, planning, and executing your goals is going to dissipate because God has decided you are a bad person.
We can make a list of selfish, cocky, “as long as I’m happy” billionaires not only flying in private planes (that’s so 2019), but they are flying in rockets. Literally taking their friends on trips around the world…the world.
In fact, you have billionaires who are on the lead edge of creating their virtual universe, a metaverse — a fake universe!
Well, everyone has a dream.
Yet when it involves your dreams, you believe you have to be “good enough.” You have to be “good enough” to start a business. You have to be good enough to have a lucrative career.
You have to be good enough to travel abroad. You have to be good enough for a loving relationship, a luxury car or a house or a new pair of shoes, or a six-figure income or…Do I need to go on?
You will never be good enough for any of it, and you don’t have to be. You see, my friend lost her business because she put too much trust in a business partner who pretended he knew what he was doing. She had more confidence in him than she did in herself. She gave him her power.
You don’t have to be good enough to manifest your desires, you just have to be focused enough. And when you give away your power — you deplete your creative bandwidth.
When we explore ideas in self-empowerment, we often compare attraction or the Law of Attraction to a radio or television tuner. According to the New Science of Success, an article entitled The Law of Attraction as a Radio or TV Signal By Mark Boldizar. Boldizar, an experienced and accomplished scientist and visionary, and Co-Author of the International Bestseller, ‘Unleash Your Future’ states in his article:
If you want to listen to rock music that is broadcast at 102.5 Mhz, then you need to set your radio tuner to 102.5 Mhz. If you want to watch an HDTV program on a local channel broadcasting at 180 Mhz, your TV tuner needs to be set to 180 Mhz. When you decide you would like to listen to or watch something different, all you need to do is change your tuner to the channel broadcasting what you now want to listen to or watch.
…You are not just the experiencer (listener or watcher), you are also the program director. Your thoughts are the programs broadcast into LOA at specific frequencies. LOA then interprets the thought frequencies and aligns the physical matter, people, and “stuff” required to transform (tune) that thought into a physical experience of reality in your life.” — Mark Boldizar
Yet and still, the part that most people forget is, we are in an enfolding and unfolding process — yeah that’s life. We are creators involved to evolve in our creation. We create our experiences to learn and evolve. We tune into a creation we have created in our minds, and we then experience the creation.
We desire a thing because it is already probable for us. After all, we created it in partnership with the Source of ALL.
Consequently, why don’t some things seem as if they haven’t manifested in our lives?
Every desire we have has manifested.
What has happened is, we are not experiencing our manifestations.
It’s similar to having the gift right in front of us, but we won’t open it; therefore, it feels as if we don’t have the gift at all.
And this isn’t because we aren’t good enough. We are not experiencing our creations because we don’t have the creative bandwidth (also referred to as the creative power) to tune in. We don’t have the creative bandwidth to tune in because our minds are focused on everything else but what we desire.
Fear may take too much creative bandwidth. Bad relationships may take too much bandwidth. Jealousy may take too much bandwidth. So, much bandwidth is being used elsewhere, and you don’t have the power to experience your manifestations. You created it but don’t have the energy to experience it.
Accordingly, you don’t have to be good enough, you just have to:
- Know your true desires.
- Be bold and dream big.
- Stay focused on your true desires.
- Tune into a frequency that will attract the resources, people, things, and opportunities to manifest your dreams.
- Make available to yourself the creative bandwidth you need to experience your manifestations.
You can learn how to expand your creative bandwidth here:
With focus and commitment, in time, you will experience many beautiful things you manifested years ago. Things going back to childhood or your teen years. They’ve been sitting right in front of you but you couldn’t see them because either you didn’t match the frequency at the time or you didn’t have the creative bandwidth to experience what was right in front of you.
Nevertheless, it had nothing to do with you not being good enough. You are enough without ever being good enough.
Fam, I’m curious. Have you ever tried to be “good enough” for something you desired?
Please share your thoughts in the comments.