You Need to Learn These 4 Things Before Your 30’s
When life gets hard always remember this
When something hurts
I’m saying that even if you’re put in the most horrible situations, you can either grow as a person as a result of the experience, or you can turn into a terrible mess as a result of it. So, anytime anything hurts you, you have two choices: you may either become wounded or wise. Early in life, the more things that hurt you, the wiser you should have become. However, the majority of people are injured. Simply said, they require an excuse to use their brains against themselves. Is it not critical that your intelligence stands up for you when the world around you turns against you?
Discover your own space
What you term joy, misery, stress, anxiety, agony, and ecstasy are all expressions of chemistry. So your life experience has a molecular basis. Assume you have good knowledge and fortune right now. Do you care who is nearby or not? If they are present, it is amazing; if they are not present, it is fantastic.
Because your life experience is no longer governed by what you have or don’t have, whether it’s people, things, or food. That has no bearing on it. There is no such thing as loneliness when your manner of being is not determined by anything outside of you. But you will like your aloneness because, whether you like it or not, it is tough to grasp at this age that you are always alone within this body. Whether you engage in interaction, intercourse, or anything, you are still alone in this body.
If you don’t learn how to handle this aloneness, you have not learned anything about this life. This is the most beautiful thing. The most beautiful thing about life is that nobody can get inside my body it’s just my space. Nobody can invite me, they can capture and torture me but they cannot invade me. Because I have a space that is just my own. Isn’t it the most wonderful aspect of your life?
Put your heart and soul into what you do
People are always thinking when it comes to education, career, and choice of partner at various points. What are the best things to do? Let me tell you there is no best thing to do in the world. There is no best thing to do even if you take a simple thing and put everything that you have into it, if you throw yourself into it. It could become a great thing. Is it the best thing “No” there is no best thing.
How do you decide what is best? What I am doing is best or what you are doing is best? There is no such thing. Is the spiritual process the best thing or is chemical engineering the best thing? It will be foolish even to ask that question. It is just that if you throw your life into something it can become a great thing. So don’t look for the best things because you’ll waste your life, always wondering what’s the best thing.
People come to me, they have married for years, have three, or four children asking if I don’t know whether I made the right choice. I said “Well it looks like you’ve been thinking, you have been acting for children” So till the end of your life you can go on thinking what is the better and best thing. There is no best thing. Whatever we put our heart and soul into and do is a great thing. It may be a simple thing in somebody else eyes but in our experiences, it is a great thing, and that’s what we should be doing.
Ecstasy within you
Think I am a certified pilot; however, we will find another pilot for you. We’ll take you on a pleasant flight in a little plane. However, the pilot arrives heavily smoked. Do you wish to take to the skies? They do not say “No,” but rather mmm! Because they believe that through smoking, they will not be able to fly. That’s fine; you’re not getting it. You require serious surgery, and the surgeon appears to be high on drugs. “Do you want the surgery?” he inquired. Oh my goodness! So you’re aware that it impairs your faculties. Is your life better or worse if you lower your faculties? The answer is lower.
As a result, never use the word “high” again. “I smoke and I’m low,” you say. For me, this is not a moral issue. I have no morals, yet life must go on. Do I live better if my eyesight worsens? Do you live better if your mind fades? Why do people believe that by decreasing faculties, life becomes more enjoyable? No, it doesn’t; it’s just providing you the illusion of something for which you’ll have to pay a price. At this point in your life, you must seek out experiences that will heighten rather than decrease your faculties.
If you’re interested, come on over and I’ll show you around. Just look at my eyes; I’m always stoned. Yes, have a glance at me and never touch the substance. Because the world’s largest chemical industry is located here. The question is simply when you’re ecstatic or anxious, and it’s determined by whether you’re a good manager of this one or a poor manager. That is the only thing deciding this. If you are a bad manager, you will be importing chemicals from outside. If you’re a good manager, you can do it your way and be blessed out all the time.