You Always End Up Doing What You Said You Wouldn’t
Be careful not to judge others because you will one day be judged.
“I would never stay with a partner who cheated on me! I would never allow my kids to behave that way! I will never be like my mother!” After being on this earth for nearly 40 years, I have discovered that the saying, “You reap what you sow, is true.” It might be a while, but we eventually eat our words. It is a difficult realization. I know because it has happened to me more than once.
As soon as it hits you, you remember the moment you passed judgment. The moment you decided to lead with condemnation instead of compassion. Now, here you are, in the exact same situation. People are pointing at and judging you. You feel embarrassed that you ever spoke badly about the person in your crisis many years earlier. You are in disbelief because you never thought it could happen to you.
Here is the thing — you get what you put out. If you put out judgment and condemnation, you will get it back. If you love and show compassion, you will receive the same. When we truly understand the Law of Attraction, we will be careful of what we say and how we behave toward others.
Instead of judging or voicing our opinions, we should lead with love, compassion, and empathy. If we are unable to do so, we should remain silent. If Susan and Mary want to gossip about Cathy’s situation, kindly get up and walk away. Do not participate in that mess; mind your business. That is what I choose to do these days.
I wanted to write this blog as a reminder to lead with love. Life is tough, and we all face challenges at some point during this journey. So lets be mindful, understanding, and loving toward others. Remember, when you choose not to judge someone else, the Universe takes notice. It is possible to be there for someone without providing an opinion; observe and listen. Peace & love, Ari.
“The ability to observe without evaluating is the highest form of intelligence.” ― J. Krishnamurti
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