Yes, My Wife Is Obligated to Have Sex With Me
The double standards of “Muslim” feminism and the degeneracy of Western civilization
A Muslim feminist claims that Muslim men don’t fulfill the sexual desires of their wives. In her article, I’m a Muslim woman, and I Love to Orgasm, Warda Abbas warns,
If Muslim men refuse to be educated about the fusion of body and mind to bring their women to experience sexual pleasure and do not care about the art and mystery of satisfying the physical woman let alone ensuring the sexual well-being of their partners, then it is time for Muslim women to put their destinies into their hands. It starts from having these conversations, acknowledging that we have sexual needs yearning to be fulfilled, and deciding henceforth that we would not settle for less than we deserve. In the words of Angelica Lindsey-Ali, “Don’t ever waste a ghusl!”
But what’s her evidence? What has led her to this conclusion about Muslim men?
None! She based her argument on an anecdote: a story told by her husband about a conversation he had with some women at work.
My husband had joined a conversation about sex at his workplace, and he found out that none of the women knew what an orgasm felt like. Upon asking them why they’d never had an orgasm, some admitted that the idea of the female orgasm was alien to them while the majority responded that they just never saw it as a goal to which Muslim women should
Do you have a record of that conversation? How many women were involved in it? 10? 20? 30? 100? Whatever the number is, can we generalize about a nation of 1.7 billion?!
What’s astonishing is that such garbage got about 4000 likes! Welcome to the world of feminist journalism, where anecdotes are taken as undeniable truths.
Feminists: “Sexual Pleasure is only for Women.”
However, I agree with the author that Muslim men are obligated, by Islamic law, to fulfill the sexual desires of their wives. As she has put it, “one of the grounds for divorce under the Shariah (Islamic law) is sexual incompatibility and denial of sexual pleasure. The demure attitude toward physical pleasure is frowned upon in many Islamic teachings.” If the man ignores and doesn’t fulfill the sexual needs of his wife, she has the right to request a divorce.
But I have a question for Mrs. Abbas and Muslim feminists in general. What if it’s the other way around? What if Muslim women fail to satisfy their husbands in bed? Would you call women out for such neglect and injustice? Would you speak out against it?
A big No! Feminists take from Islam whatever fits their feminist ideology and throw away what does not. Look at how this group in Malaysia came under fire because it calls on Muslim women to be obedient to their husbands. The founders of the Obedient Wives Club believe that the rising divorce rates in Malaysia are because Muslim women don’t satisfy their husbands in bed.
Sinta Nuriyah Wahid is the former first lady of Indonesia:
I believe that Islam bestows blessings on all of humankind. Any interpretation that does not fit in with this, or is unjust, must not be allowed, Wahid says. “In my opinion, as a feminist, I would say that [the Obedient Wives Club] should be banned.
The club should be banned?! Sure, Freedom of speech doesn’t apply here!
The double standards are crystal clear! Muslim feminists, in the name of Islam, demand men to satisfy their wives in bed. But when Isalm requires women to do the same for their husbands, it’s a “backward and unjust interpretation!”
It’s a clear obligation from the Prophet Muhammad (PBUH):
When a man invites his wife to his bed and she does not come, and he (the husband) spends the night being angry with her, the angels curse her until morning.
Feminism teaches that a husband is the woman’s jailer or rapist while the boyfriend is her fun. But is the boyfriend committed to you? Is the boyfriend responsible for providing for you and your children, for your support and protection?
A Muslim man is obligated, under the Shariah, to provide for his wife. He has no access to his wife’s money. She keeps her own money to buy whatever she wants for herself. She is not instructed to spend her money on her children or the house. If she does that out of her own desire, it will be counted for her by Allah as charity towards her. The man must also provide for his children — his son until he gets a job and his daughter until she gets married. The man must provide for his daughter even if she has a job. Just as in the mother’s case, she keeps her own money.
A Muslim man can have sex with his wife only. He’s not allowed to be alone with, stare at or touch any other woman.
It is better for one of you to pierce his head with an iron needle than to touch a woman for whom she is not his wife (Prophet Muhammed).
Muslim feminists who don’t fulfill their husbands' sexual needs ignore all of the above. They want to live a life with no responsibilities. They are not honest about their commitment to Islam. To them, a woman is God. They only take from Islam what suits their feminist ideology.
Do you believe in some of the Scripture and reject the rest? Is there any reward for those who do so among you other than disgrace in this worldly life and being subjected to the harshest punishment on the Day of Judgment? For Allah is never unaware of what you do. Quran(2:85)
Critical Thinking: CEO’s “First-Class Whores”
Feminism is a slow and insidious poison that destroys families and societies. Its effects are beginning to be felt in the Muslim world. Sadly, some Muslim women fell into the trap of Western propaganda.
- I want to be “independent” and “free.” I don’t want my husband or father to provide for me.
- My culture is “backward and disrespectful to women.”
3. I’m not a “sex slave” to my husband. I will not serve my husband like “first-class prostitutes.”
4. What a “disgusting religion is this that promotes the objectification of women and reduces marriage to sexual exchange”?!
Well, fine! Here is my advice to you, my dear sisters.
Immigrate to the West, where women are “empowered,” “independent,” and “equal to men.”
Yes, sisters! Leave that “backward” Muslim world and go to the “superior,” “free,” and “civilized” West.
Go to Britain, where one in four women has office sex with her male boss, as reported by the BBC in 2002.
Go to France, where 100% of women are sexually harassed on public transport and a woman is raped every seven minutes!
Go to Sweden, which is described as the world’s second most dangerous country for women to visit after South Africa, according to this Forbes article.
And to answer your question: No. Saudi Arabia is not on the list! No Muslim country is on the list. However, the United States, New Zealand, the UK, and Australia are.
That’s your “freedom” and “empowerment,” my sisters. It comes with a price: It’s your body.
Go to Germany, Europe’s giant brothel, where 400,000 prostitutes serve more than one million men daily!
And don’t forget Spain, which comes next with 300,000 prostitutes.
Check out the window prostitution in the Netherlands. It provides the Western “civilized” man a convenient way to select his “sex slave” for the night!
Go to the West and marry a man who has no moral obligation to be committed to you. According to his liberal values, sex is as cheap as a hamburger. He can have sex with whomever he wants, be it a male, female, or even an animal. He will run away from responsibility once he finds out that you’re pregnant.
Do you want to guess why abortion has never been an issue in Muslim countries? It’s because our men are committed to their women and vice versa.
Enjoy the “superior” West where women are forced into prostitution due to the ineffectiveness of the social security systems, as in this article by the BBC ِArabic.
The article starts by saying that women in Britain are forced into prostitution due to the ineffectiveness of the social security system. The BBC spoke to five charities in England and learned that an increasing number of women depend on the social security system.
Julie, and this is a pseudonym, never thought she would work as a prostitute, but having to wait eight weeks to receive her allowance forced her to accept an offer of sex for 30 pounds. “I’m ashamed to say I had sex with a man for money, something I never thought I could do
As Jolie mentioned, no woman would want to have sex with a man for money. No woman would enjoy or want to be a “sex worker.” It’s only an immoral dog who would argue otherwise!
Those dogs created this system that turns women into sex slaves. They only bark when they hear that Islam requires a woman to satisfy her husband sexually!
While feminism teaches that a woman’s obedience to Allah or the husband is brainwashing, it promotes obedience to the male boss or CEO as “critical thinking.”
But it seems that this “critical thinking” has gone too far. A Western woman is “obligated” to have sex with her male boss or partner to keep her job — her only source of security.
The Hypocrisy of the West Accusing Islam of “Wife’s Sex Slavery”
Although Obedient Wives Club has no agenda towards non-Muslims and its target audient is only Muslims, it came under fire from the Western media and International feminist organizations.
Ivy Josiah is the executive director of Malaysia’s Women’s Aid Group, which claims to advocate for women’s rights:
The Obedient Wives Club went kind of extreme … by saying you need to behave like a prostitute, so that kind of triggered a very negative reaction.
I’m sorry to say that you’re a hypocrite troll, ma’am! Since when has your organization fought prostitution? I haven’t found a single article, speech, or statement by you condemning prostitution in Malaysia or the West. So why did you become against prostitution out of a sudden?
Prostitution is the product of your feminist ideology. It’s big business in Europe, the homeland of feminism. You allowed this practice to spread, and you did nothing to stop it. Instead, you promoted and normalized the “whore market” by calling it “sex work.”
And you feminists and liberals want to blame Islam for the degeneracy of your civilization. How dare you!
A prostitute fulfills the sexual desires of any man, sometimes multiple men at a time, as long as she gets paid. This former Australian prostitute slept with 10,000 men in 12 years!
Can we find an equivalent example in Saudi Arabia? No. Saudi women have honor. They don’t sell their bodies like what the “civilized” do!
See how this Canadian woman tells her clients that she’s “obligated” to satisfy them.
Tell me your fantasy. Let’s make it happen. I will give you the freedom to do whatever you please.
And in addition to her semi-naked photos, she provides a very detailed well-written description of the “product,” her body.
I have DD breasts, medium length blonde her and luscious lips that your won’t forget
Isn’t this an objectification and commodification of women’s bodies? Isn’t that something harmful that needs to be curtailed?
This sexual objectification of women is now common in dating shows. In the British Naked Attraction, a man picks his ideal match based on looks alone, including private parts. Each contestant gets a choice between six hopeful daters, and they eliminate them one by one after different body parts are revealed!
This is the prostitution of the “superior” West that you disgusting trolls want to equate with the noble, pure relationship between a man and woman under Islamic marriage, where both are obligated to pick their ideal match based on morality and character (not based on breasts, asses, and penis! )
Prophet Mohammad (PBUH) says:
A woman may be married for four reasons: for her property, for her rank, for her beauty, and for her religion (and character), so marry the one who is best in the religion and character and prosper.
Don’t project the filthy degeneracy found in the “superior” West onto the superior religion.
