Women Can Have Big Dick Energy Too
It’s something that is attainable by everyone.

The term big dick energy has been making the rounds on social media for a few years now. It all started when teeny tiny pop star Ariana Grande tweeted about how big Pete Davidson’s manhood was for the entire world to know, and from there, the rest is history.
If you’re unfamiliar with the term, Urban Dictionary defines it as a man with confidence who isn’t cocky, and it is never misplaced and is never simulated. Celebrities from Idris Elba to Brad Pitt have been labeled as having BDE.
Big dick energy is one of those things that you can’t really define.
It’s like having the X factor, nobody knows what that little bit of something is, but they know it when they see it. It is not something that you can fake, hoping that you will someday have it bestowed upon you.
BDE is a mindset that says that you don’t give a fuck. It is an attitude that is linked to the trendsetters, the prosperous, and the trailblazers. It is a low-key self-assurance that some are born with, and others learn over time.
People who have BDE are not quiet or timid, and they are not overcompensating for anything whatsoever. Why on earth would there be a term crafted that appears to label all of these types of people as ‘male.’
BDE has absolutely nothing to do with dicks, or any other human anatomy.
Though the name makes it seem that this quality is limited to the cis males of our species. As much as the world wants to equate unshakable confidence with having a huge cock swinging in between your legs, this is not a quality that has anything to do with your genitalia.
Having been with a few men that were well endowed yet terribly self-conscious, it makes no sense that anyone would think that it is that appendage that gives someone BDE.
There are some things that are attributed to men that aren’t there’s alone to possess. You really want to tell me that women like Rhianna, Kamala Harris, or even the one who started this whole thing Ariana Grande, don’t have big dick energy? Is having confidence with zero cockiness something that only a man can possess?
BDE is a vibe that anyone can create. It is the attitude and mindset of a self-made, driven, hardworking person, and it isn’t just males who can have this type of confidence.
BDE transcends all.
There is no label that you can wear that will keep you from being exempt from having big dick energy. It isn’t something that comes from your physical body. It comes from your mind and your spirit. BDE is something that you, yourself, create.
BDE is a state of being, not a physical condition that you were lucky enough to have bestowed on you.
There is no race, gender, age, sexual orientation, class, or status that owns the rights to have big dick energy. Some have tried to coin the phrase “Big Uterus Energy” or “Tight Pussy Energy,” but I think those terms just point out that women are different, that women can’t possess the same exact energy that a man does. Plus, those terms still don’t include everyone.
While the term isn’t exactly feminist, it doesn’t mean that we shouldn’t embrace it. Get down with your bad self. Know that you can have the same attitude as anyone else. The only reason anyone isn’t labeled with big dick energy is that they keep themselves from reaching that level. It’s time to level up and find what gives you BDE. Embrace the mindset that is reserved only for those who desire and work hard to attain it.
