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“Wow I’d love to make that man a father, wow he would make such a good partner in life.” If you thought that he is probably already partnered, or has kids.</p><p id="2229">And as women gain more self respect, we learn that we are not competing for the rest of the good men. It is not a woman’s nature to fight for their mate. Historically, men fight each other for us, to prove who is healthier and stronger, who can obtain and maintain resources, who can protect us and our offspring, etc. That is how this mating practice originally started.</p><p id="306b">So rather than fight for men, which is unnatural, we are choosing not to mate. And men are panicking because they know their time is up. You men have had thousands of years to get yourselves together and start treating women with more humanity and respect, and now more than ever you’re actually trying to regress and go back to those darker years. Because now you have to actually be someone worth partnering with and you can’t hack it.</p><p id="32ac">There is a pattern that men recognize. It’s obvious. When a woman feels beautiful she feels like she doesn’t have to settle for just anyone, she feels like she can be picky, she doesn’t have to put all of her eggs in one basket and marry the first man to show her interest.</p><p id="9080">She recognizes that he is putting up an offer or proposition and she can choose to accept or decline. She can allow him to wine and dine her, make attempts to emotionally connect with her, b

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ut, ultimately, it’s her choice. She is the one in power. She is perusing her prospect, considering her investment.</p><p id="e0c8">When a woman does not feel beautiful she dives head-first into the first man who shows interest. He more than likely does not have to do much of anything to gain her loyalty and affection. He sees her sweet side almost immediately. He didn’t have to work for it at all.</p><p id="b5c2">A woman’s beauty is often associated with our self esteem, by design. While it is possible to have high self esteem and not consider yourself to be that attractive, I do not believe it is possible to have self esteem and see yourself as ugly. You have to like and stomach who you see in the mirror even when the rest of the world does not. Every human needs to be able to be at ease with their reflection. You shouldn’t feel anxiety or shame or any of those negative emotions. You should feel proud, or at least comfortable.</p><p id="1d3d">Men do not want women to feel beautiful because they do not want to work for women. They just want possession of women, they want access to sex and affection, with extremely low effort. It goes against their very nature, as men are supposed to work for that loyalty and prove they are viable mates. But they want something very unnatural to us as a species. They <i>need</i> you to feel ugly so that you don’t make them work for you.</p><p id="a097">This is common sense but I’m putting it out there as a reminder.</p></article></body>

Women Are Opting Out of Having Kids Because Men Want Us to Go Against Our Nature

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Women choosing not to give birth scares men. Because men need women to recreate themselves. They cannot do it on their own. If women know that having children is a choice and not your God-given responsibility to save the human species, that means the responsibility is on men to actually be viable partners and mates.

See, this is getting very primal. We naturally reverted back to our mammal instincts. We are simply choosing the best mating option. And when there are no best mating options we lose the desire to mate. Every mammal species operates in this way.

In fact, there was a series of experiments conducted decades ago that proved this, known as the Universe 25 experiment.

Men simply have to become, at least, reasonable. That alone would be attractive enough for most women to desire mating. Ask yourself how many men openly share their opinions and you think to yourself “Wow I’d love to make that man a father, wow he would make such a good partner in life.” If you thought that he is probably already partnered, or has kids.

And as women gain more self respect, we learn that we are not competing for the rest of the good men. It is not a woman’s nature to fight for their mate. Historically, men fight each other for us, to prove who is healthier and stronger, who can obtain and maintain resources, who can protect us and our offspring, etc. That is how this mating practice originally started.

So rather than fight for men, which is unnatural, we are choosing not to mate. And men are panicking because they know their time is up. You men have had thousands of years to get yourselves together and start treating women with more humanity and respect, and now more than ever you’re actually trying to regress and go back to those darker years. Because now you have to actually be someone worth partnering with and you can’t hack it.

There is a pattern that men recognize. It’s obvious. When a woman feels beautiful she feels like she doesn’t have to settle for just anyone, she feels like she can be picky, she doesn’t have to put all of her eggs in one basket and marry the first man to show her interest.

She recognizes that he is putting up an offer or proposition and she can choose to accept or decline. She can allow him to wine and dine her, make attempts to emotionally connect with her, but, ultimately, it’s her choice. She is the one in power. She is perusing her prospect, considering her investment.

When a woman does not feel beautiful she dives head-first into the first man who shows interest. He more than likely does not have to do much of anything to gain her loyalty and affection. He sees her sweet side almost immediately. He didn’t have to work for it at all.

A woman’s beauty is often associated with our self esteem, by design. While it is possible to have high self esteem and not consider yourself to be that attractive, I do not believe it is possible to have self esteem and see yourself as ugly. You have to like and stomach who you see in the mirror even when the rest of the world does not. Every human needs to be able to be at ease with their reflection. You shouldn’t feel anxiety or shame or any of those negative emotions. You should feel proud, or at least comfortable.

Men do not want women to feel beautiful because they do not want to work for women. They just want possession of women, they want access to sex and affection, with extremely low effort. It goes against their very nature, as men are supposed to work for that loyalty and prove they are viable mates. But they want something very unnatural to us as a species. They need you to feel ugly so that you don’t make them work for you.

This is common sense but I’m putting it out there as a reminder.

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