Why Your Act of Kindness Counts.
The art of making a positive difference
Hi, everyone! I’m an individual who likes to be optimistic at every point in his life. No matter what life is throwing at me, no matter how hard I anticipate things to get, I try to carry a positive attitude towards everything. To be honest enough, it helps. But, what is the point of being optimistic if I cannot share it with somebody who is going through a very tough and dark phase? In order to implement the change, I have to be the change, and what better way can be there other than the act of kindness?
“Sometimes it takes only one act of kindness and caring to change a person’s life.”- Jackie Chan
We’ve all come across the phrase “Survival of the fittest” at some point in our life. Its meaning is associated with selfishness, and pertains to the basic instinct of just surviving but the meaning of survival is way more than it meets the eye. Charles Darwin’s study of human evolution, also known as “Darwinism”, has given us that meaning. The meaning where he believed that mankind isn’t about being biologically competitive and self interests but it is about having the traits to sympathize and care for each other. It also stated that all species of organisms arise and develop through the natural selection of small, inherited variations that increases the individual’s ability to compete, survive, and reproduce. What my take from this theory is that it gives us the basic idea of how the act of being kind can shape lives for a better tomorrow. Kindness is that ability which helps us to be friendly, generous, and considerate, towards each other. When we talk about words like affection, gentleness, warmth, concern, and care, just the part of talking about these words helps us get a mental upliftment and when implemented, an environment full of positive vibes gets automatically created which can bring the goodness out of anybody.
“Run to the rescue with love, and peace will follow.”- Joaquin Phoenix
Kindness is the willingness to full-heartedly celebrate someone’s successes. To be kind is to be unconditional, that is, the ability of doing something good and prosperous without expecting anything in return because it is that trait which enables a person gain a sense of mental satisfaction by the virtue of devoting, and also, it doesn’t take much to be kind.
Since my childhood days, I’ve been an avid follower of the anime “Dragon Ball Z”, especially of its protagonist who goes by the name of “Goku”. The quality about him that makes him appreciable is his ability to be kind and generous, even to the worst of his enemies. Watching this character, time after time, has made me a better individual as I’ve learned the virtue of being kind even to those with whom I share some of the most disrupted relationships because it always gives me a sense of satisfaction that makes me happy, and also increases my desire to do good to more people. It gives me a sense of achievement which helps me get up in the morning with an aim of making a difference. I’ve even seen those who were broken at a certain point in their lives but with their ability of believing in positivity, they overcame that phase, and left their footprints in the sands of time.
“Remember there’s no such thing as a small act of kindness. Every act creates a ripple with no logical end.”- Scott Adams
With the numerous problems in the world and the bad days through which we are all going through, sometimes, all it takes is a simple act of kindness to change a problem into an opportunity or a bad day into a smile. You do not require a reason to be kind to somebody. Hold the door for a colleague or a friend, say thank you to the man who makes you tea everyday. Do not do it for gaining anything out of it but for the sake of doing the right thing. It is very easy to give up on somebody but it is rather hard to have faith in the same individual, time after time. Your love, your empathy, for that individual, will always count. The ability of not giving up on an individual via being kind can help bring out that individual’s greatest and truest version, and when this happens, you’ll know that the purpose of life is being fulfilled to its core. Even if things are not going right for you, you should never stop being kind to somebody because that is what’ll make you a better person. To all those who’re reading this, you all are beautiful people. This world is currently going through a very dark time but with the power of positivity, I assure you that we’ll get to the light at the end of the tunnel. We’re all in this, together. Even if somebody is trying to bring you down, be kind to them and show them who the real Numero Uno is.






