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e">Have you watched the <i>YOU series</i>? They have incredible scenes of how you can get started in this game. But golden showers aren’t just limited to urinating in your partner’s face (although that’s one way to do it) — you can constantly tailor these pranks to your liking, and it’s no different here.</p><p id="ce24">For example, instead of urinating on your partner’s face, you can do it together in the shower, use <a href="https://www.lovehoney.com/bondage/sex-swings-machines/sex-furniture-position-enhancers/p/liberator-regular-fascinator-moisture-proof-throw-/a46939g84310.html">a fluid-proof blanket</a> if you want to do it in bed, or try peeing on other parts of your partner’s body — of course, if he agrees to that.</p><p id="ad6b">For Frye-Nekrasova, “There are different ways to get involved, from peeing directly on different parts of the body to peeing directly into someone’s mouth or other holes.” That last part doesn’t please me very much.</p><h1 id="c63c">And if you want to get started…</h1><p id="82d7">OK. Now that you know all of this, let’s say you want to get into this game to understand more of what it offers — Where to start?</p><p id="25c8">Well, basically, with your partner’s consent. In fact, you need it for any sexual act — well, maybe it’s not the best idea to just reach out to your partner and say something like, “Are you interested in trying water sports?” Instead, mature this idea with your partner before commenting on it. But, again, giving tips is an excellent option for approximation.</p><p id="1b13">Of course, you shouldn’t suggest something like this at the time of the act either. Coming up with this idea for your partner without first maturing can be a path of no return. In the worst-case scenario, both would get frustrated,

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and sex would go downhill.</p><p id="945b">We must understand that only some things that are spicy for us are spicy for our partners. That’s what it means to have individuality.</p><p id="5ad7">And if your partner has never even expressed an interest in Golden Shower, you could start by asking them about it. Questions like, “Have you heard about it?”, “how do you feel about it?”, “if you had the opportunity…” they can be questions that answer your questions without having to ask you directly if you can do this to yourself.</p><p id="3e71">It is worth remembering that the most important thing when performing the Golden Shower, or any other type of sexual fetish, is to respect the limits imposed by your partner. Any game can be fun between four walls through mutual respect, good communication, and honesty.</p><h1 id="aff2">Final Thoughts</h1><p id="9ae3">That was my tip today: a new adventure between four walls that can be fun for you.</p><p id="aa39">If you like it, don’t be afraid to share your ideas with someone you love. Your partner is open to hearing more about your desires and will definitely listen to what you say.</p><p id="2d54">Trying golden showers or any other type of fetish can be the door you were looking for to liven up your relationship and revive that burning flame you’ve always sought.</p><p id="ee53">Thanks for reading. Have a great day!</p><p id="4dbf">If you enjoy reading articles like this, <a href="https://medium.com/@christinewriter/membership"><b>consider becoming a medium member</b>.</a> It is $5 per month, and you will get unlimited access to 10000s of stories and writers. In addition, <a href="https://medium.com/@christinewriter/membership"><b>if you sign up using my link</b></a>, I will earn a small commission.</p></article></body>

Why You Should Try Golden Showers

A unique and fun sexual experience

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Suppose you’re a person who loves different adventures at the “H” hour. In that case, I have something exciting for you, the famous Golden Shower — An exciting fetish that demarcates territory over your partner.

You might even think this sounds disgusting, and so do I. But this can be an excellent opportunity to try something new — especially if you like “more aggressive” attitudes in bed.

According to Samantha Manewitz, MSW, a sex therapist at the Institute of Sex Education, this fetish is much more common than we realize; only not all people are willing to comment on it.

As for why people look for it, there’s a lot to be discussed yet. However, for Samantha, “water sports can promote the trust and intimacy of the couple.”

Some find the idea of exchanging fluids with their partners exciting. The fact that it’s ‘wrong’ and ‘dirty’ can be a twist in itself — it’s amazing how things go around it.

How to get involved in golden showers?

If you are interested in participating in this spicy and somewhat different joke, here are some tips that may be useful to you.

Have you watched the *YOU* series? They have incredible scenes of how you can get started in this game. But golden showers aren’t just limited to urinating in your partner’s face (although that’s one way to do it) — you can constantly tailor these pranks to your liking, and it’s no different here.

For example, instead of urinating on your partner’s face, you can do it together in the shower, use a fluid-proof blanket if you want to do it in bed, or try peeing on other parts of your partner’s body — of course, if he agrees to that.

For Frye-Nekrasova, “There are different ways to get involved, from peeing directly on different parts of the body to peeing directly into someone’s mouth or other holes.” That last part doesn’t please me very much.

And if you want to get started…

OK. Now that you know all of this, let’s say you want to get into this game to understand more of what it offers — Where to start?

Well, basically, with your partner’s consent. In fact, you need it for any sexual act — well, maybe it’s not the best idea to just reach out to your partner and say something like, “Are you interested in trying water sports?” Instead, mature this idea with your partner before commenting on it. But, again, giving tips is an excellent option for approximation.

Of course, you shouldn’t suggest something like this at the time of the act either. Coming up with this idea for your partner without first maturing can be a path of no return. In the worst-case scenario, both would get frustrated, and sex would go downhill.

We must understand that only some things that are spicy for us are spicy for our partners. That’s what it means to have individuality.

And if your partner has never even expressed an interest in Golden Shower, you could start by asking them about it. Questions like, “Have you heard about it?”, “how do you feel about it?”, “if you had the opportunity…” they can be questions that answer your questions without having to ask you directly if you can do this to yourself.

It is worth remembering that the most important thing when performing the Golden Shower, or any other type of sexual fetish, is to respect the limits imposed by your partner. Any game can be fun between four walls through mutual respect, good communication, and honesty.

Final Thoughts

That was my tip today: a new adventure between four walls that can be fun for you.

If you like it, don’t be afraid to share your ideas with someone you love. Your partner is open to hearing more about your desires and will definitely listen to what you say.

Trying golden showers or any other type of fetish can be the door you were looking for to liven up your relationship and revive that burning flame you’ve always sought.

Thanks for reading. Have a great day!

If you enjoy reading articles like this, consider becoming a medium member. It is $5 per month, and you will get unlimited access to 10000s of stories and writers. In addition, if you sign up using my link, I will earn a small commission.

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