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The text emphasizes the importance of perseverance and positive thinking in overcoming obstacles and achieving goals, suggesting that perceived setbacks may be opportunities for growth and learning.

Abstract

The article encourages readers not to view changes in direction or pauses for reflection as giving up, but rather as part of the journey towards their goals. It posits that resistance and obstacles may stem from one's own thoughts and beliefs, and that a positive attitude can transform seemingly insurmountable challenges into achievable feats. The author suggests that visualizing success and trusting one's emotions can guide individuals along their path, even if it means deviating from conventional expectations. The text argues that altering one's circumstances, such as changing jobs or relationships, does not equate to giving up but rather is a choice to foster a positive environment. It advises letting go of self-imposed resistance and following emotions as a compass for making decisions, asserting that maintaining a positive outlook can magnetically attract success.

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  • The author believes that a positive mindset is crucial in the pursuit of goals and can alter one's experience and outcomes.
  • It is suggested that the feelings of resistance one encounters may be self-generated and can be overcome by changing one's perspective.
  • The article conveys the idea that taking breaks or altering one's approach does not constitute failure, but rather is a natural part of the process of achieving success.
  • Trusting one's emotions is presented as essential, as they can guide an individual to learn necessary lessons and continue towards their goals.
  • The text implies that societal norms, such as the necessity of maintaining a long-term job or marriage, should not dictate personal happiness or define one's path to success.
  • The author encourages readers to give up on self-imposed resistance and negative environments, not on their dreams or themselves.
  • Visualization and positive affirmations are touted as powerful tools for manifesting one's desires and attracting success.

Why would you give up?

The human being never gives up!

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You didn’t give up if you changed course a little to your destination or if you stopped for a while on your way and thought about possible options to reach your goal. You didn’t give up. You’re just resting .. It gets hard and tiring for each of us at some point, we don’t see results and we ask ourselves, “Are all these signs that I actually need to give up on everything ?!” If you look at everything from a positive angle, then you will first ask yourself whether all this resistance and obstacles are actually caused by you ?!

Maybe you encounter resistance just because of your thoughts and beliefs?

Maybe, during your journey to the goal, you focused on something else?

How will you recognize when you really need to give up something, but completely? And tell yourself "Isn’t this for me?"

First, try to confront everything around you, with your positive attitude.

Even if the whole world says it’s impossible to do something, you smile and say to yourself, "I can do it."

People today, due to their preoccupation with obligations, are not even aware of what they can do only if they think positively and if they focus on their success!

If you imagine and visualize yourself in the desired place with the achieved goal, you can do it (just be down to earth with your wishes)!

Let me give you an example ...

You have opened a shop in a non-traffic place and everyone is telling you that there are no people there, that no one will buy and come because it is not in a good position, there is no traffic!

You believe in it and experience it!

If you appropriate what they tell you, nothing will happen but what you are listening to and what you are afraid of!

Because people speak from their experience or have heard that someone close to them has had a similar experience ... and they are 100% right, because they tell you from their experience and wish you well.

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But... Your experience may be quite different!

You have to monitor your emotions and trust them. They are an indicator of your path, even if they seemingly distract you from your goal, your emotions are your guide and that is the only right thing to do!

Maybe your emotions take you somewhere else to learn something new and then, so ready, continue on your way to the goal!

All of this is, in fact, the path to the goal with waypoints, which are actually lessons and schools that you have to learn because you will need to achieve the goal.

We have been taught that it is very important to have a permanent job, even if you have been in it for 20 years, then you must not miss it. We are taught that if we are in a marriage , that we must stay in the same, even though at several moments we have come to give up everything.

Well, that’s exactly what I’m trying to explain to you ...

These are not giving up on anything ...

You have not, by changing your job or changing your spouse, given up on your path! Your path is your path, you only choose along the way whether you will be surrounded by a negative or a positive environment!

It is normal that if your plans change from day to day, if your ideas change, if your view of certain people and situations changes, if you, just growing up, look at certain things differently ...

Then it is normal that you change yourself!

If you need to give up something, then give up the resistance you create for yourself, in most cases.

You have to think carefully about whether these resistances were created by your thoughts, can you change them in that if you look at the situation from a different angle, with different eyes?

Sometimes you even need to say “I’m giving up,” but just give up the resistance you provide in trying to solve the problem!

Give up the fight to solve the problem and follow your emotions!

Emotions tell you if you are on the right path.

If you don’t feel good about what you are doing then you need to give up, but if you are feeling good and if you have all the faith in what you have decided to accomplish, then there is no giving up!

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Try to imagine feeling like you have achieved a goal, try to feel all that joy of fulfilling a wish! Keep it to yourself and smile at the world!

The more positively you go towards the goal, the faster your goal goes towards you!

Try to see, imagine, yourself every day how that goal was achieved and how you reached it!

Just look at it positively!

It will be resolved, you will see!

"You attract, what you radiate !”

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