Why We Women Are So Empty to Pleasure in Today’s World
TRUTH: A WOMAN CANNOT FEEL THE DEPTHS OF PLEASURE WHEN DISCONNECTED FROM HER HEART
I have witnessed this topic arise in the world often and with limited understanding and importance.
Why are women today operating so much in their masculine, pushing down men. Trying to set the record straight of all the wrongs of our past history as a soicety?
Why do we bounce in and out of relationships?
Looking for love but not knowing why we cannot find it?
Where have all the good men gone idea?
Well, the good men are out there ladies.
We just can longer sense them, choose them or accept them and it is because we have closed our beautiful hearts.
We are harboring what is so important and not looking at our lives, our future and our men with our hearts eye.
We have traded one form of service and commerce for another.
And it is blocking us from what we all want.
Happiness and to be loved.
Truly loved.
So, let’s explore the profound connection between the surrender of the heart and the depth of our sexual experience as women. It’s a journey into the very essence of our being, a deep dive into the interconnectedness of our emotional landscape and our sensual awakening.
At the heart of this journey lies the concept of surrender — a relinquishing of control, a letting go of the need to cling to our fears and insecurities, and a profound trust in the unfolding of life’s divine plan. For it is only through surrender that we can truly open ourselves to the fullness of experience, allowing the currents of life to flow through us with grace and ease.
But what does surrender look like in the context of our sexuality?
It begins with a deep trust in ourselves and in the wisdom of our bodies — a recognition that our bodies are sacred vessels, capable of experiencing profound pleasure and connection when approached with reverence and respect. Yet, this trust cannot fully blossom until we surrender our hearts — to life, to God, and to our intimate partners.
When our hearts are closed off, when we harbor fears and doubts within the depths of our being, we create barriers that prevent us from fully experiencing the richness of our sexuality.
We may go through the motions, engaging in physical acts of intimacy, but the true depth of connection remains elusive, just beyond our reach.
This is because the heart is the gateway to our deepest desires, the wellspring from which our most profound emotions flow.
When we close off our hearts, we cut ourselves off from the source of our passion and desire, leaving us feeling disconnected and unfulfilled.
But when we surrender our hearts — to life, to God, and to our intimate partners — we open ourselves to a world of possibility, a world where pleasure flows freely and connection knows no bounds. In this state of surrender, we become vessels for divine love, channels through which the energy of the universe can flow unimpeded.
It is through this surrender that we come to truly know ourselves — to understand the depths of our desires, the nuances of our pleasure, and the intricacies of our being. We become attuned to the subtlest of sensations, the gentlest of touches, and the deepest of connections, allowing us to experience pleasure in its purest and most profound form.
But surrender is not always easy — it requires us to confront our deepest fears and insecurities, to let go of the need to control and to trust in the wisdom of the universe. Yet, it is only through surrender that we can truly find freedom, liberation from the constraints of our own making and the opportunity to experience life in all its fullness.
How a woman can soften her heart and lean into trusting God, self, life, and her partner?
Here are three powerful practices to cultivate surrender and open the door to deeper connection and fulfillment:
Cultivate Self-Compassion and Self-Acceptance:
Self-compassion is the practice of treating ourselves with kindness, understanding, and non-judgment, especially in moments of difficulty or suffering. It involves acknowledging our own humanity — our flaws, mistakes, and imperfections — and offering ourselves the same warmth and care that we would offer to a dear friend. By cultivating self-compassion, we can soften the walls around our hearts, allowing ourselves to be vulnerable and open to the full range of human experience.
One way to cultivate self-compassion is through mindfulness meditation, which involves bringing awareness to our thoughts, feelings, and sensations with curiosity and non-judgment. Through mindfulness, we can observe our inner landscape with compassion and kindness, allowing ourselves to fully experience our emotions without resistance or judgment. This practice can help us develop a deeper sense of self-awareness and self-acceptance, fostering a greater sense of connection and trust in ourselves and in the unfolding of life.
Another powerful tool for cultivating self-compassion is self-care.
This involves taking intentional steps to nurture our physical, emotional, and spiritual well-being, prioritizing activities that bring us joy, peace, and fulfillment. Whether it’s practicing yoga, spending time in nature, journaling, or engaging in creative expression, self-care can help us replenish our energy and connect more deeply with ourselves, fostering a greater sense of trust and confidence in our own worthiness and value.
Practice Vulnerability and Authenticity in Relationships:
Vulnerability is the willingness to open ourselves up to the possibility of being hurt or rejected, to reveal our true selves — flaws, fears, and all — with courage and authenticity. When we practice vulnerability in our relationships, we create space for deeper connection and intimacy, allowing ourselves to be seen, heard, and loved for who we truly are.
One way to practice vulnerability is through honest and open communication with our partners. This involves sharing our thoughts, feelings, and desires openly and honestly, even when it feels uncomfortable or scary. By expressing ourselves authentically, we create opportunities for deeper understanding and connection, building trust and intimacy in our relationships.
Another important aspect of vulnerability is setting boundaries and asserting our needs in relationships.
This involves honoring our own limits and communicating them clearly and assertively to our partners, without fear of judgment or rejection. By respecting our own boundaries and advocating for our needs, we demonstrate self-respect and self-worth, fostering a greater sense of trust and safety in our relationships.
Surrender to the Wisdom of the Universe:
Surrender is the practice of letting go of the need to control and trusting in the wisdom of the universe to guide us on our journey. It involves releasing attachment to outcomes and surrendering to the flow of life, trusting that everything is unfolding exactly as it should.
One way to cultivate surrender is through the practice of mindfulness and presence. This involves bringing our awareness to the present moment, fully embracing the here and now without attachment to the past or future. By surrendering to the present moment, we can let go of worries and anxieties about the future, trusting that everything is unfolding in divine order.
A powerful tool for surrender is prayer and meditation. By connecting with a higher power or source of wisdom, we can surrender our fears, doubts, and insecurities, trusting that we are held and supported by a greater force beyond ourselves. Through prayer and meditation, we can cultivate a sense of trust and faith in the universe, knowing that we are always guided and supported on our journey.
“𝙏𝙝𝙧𝙤𝙪𝙜𝙝 𝙩𝙝𝙚 𝙤𝙥𝙚𝙣𝙞𝙣𝙜 𝙤𝙛 𝙝𝙚𝙧 𝙝𝙚𝙖𝙧𝙩, 𝙖 𝙬𝙤𝙢𝙖𝙣 𝙗𝙚𝙘𝙤𝙢𝙚𝙨 𝙖 𝙫𝙚𝙨𝙨𝙚𝙡 𝙤𝙛 𝙙𝙞𝙫𝙞𝙣𝙚 𝙡𝙤𝙫𝙚 𝙖𝙣𝙙 𝙝𝙚𝙖𝙡𝙞𝙣𝙜 𝙞𝙣 𝙩𝙝𝙚 𝙨𝙖𝙘𝙧𝙚𝙙 𝙪𝙣𝙞𝙤𝙣 𝙤𝙛 𝙨𝙚𝙭𝙪𝙖𝙡 𝙚𝙢𝙗𝙧𝙖𝙘𝙚. 𝘼𝙨 𝙨𝙝𝙚 𝙨𝙪𝙧𝙧𝙚𝙣𝙙𝙚𝙧𝙨 𝙩𝙤 𝙩𝙝𝙚 𝙙𝙚𝙥𝙩𝙝𝙨 𝙤𝙛 𝙝𝙚𝙧 𝙗𝙚𝙞𝙣𝙜, 𝙨𝙝𝙚 𝙣𝙤𝙩 𝙤𝙣𝙡𝙮 𝙝𝙚𝙖𝙡𝙨 𝙝𝙚𝙧𝙨𝙚𝙡𝙛 𝙗𝙪𝙩 𝙖𝙡𝙨𝙤 𝙗𝙚𝙘𝙤𝙢𝙚𝙨 𝙖 𝙗𝙚𝙖𝙘𝙤𝙣 𝙤𝙛 𝙡𝙞𝙜𝙝𝙩 𝙛𝙤𝙧 𝙝𝙚𝙧 𝙗𝙚𝙡𝙤𝙫𝙚𝙙. 𝙄𝙩 𝙞𝙨 𝙩𝙝𝙚 𝙬𝙤𝙢𝙖𝙣’𝙨 𝙬𝙞𝙡𝙡𝙞𝙣𝙜𝙣𝙚𝙨𝙨 𝙩𝙤 𝙨𝙪𝙧𝙧𝙚𝙣𝙙𝙚𝙧 𝙖𝙣𝙙 𝙤𝙥𝙚𝙣 𝙝𝙚𝙧𝙨𝙚𝙡𝙛 𝙛𝙪𝙡𝙡𝙮 𝙩𝙤 𝙩𝙝𝙚 𝙙𝙞𝙫𝙞𝙣𝙚 𝙛𝙡𝙤𝙬 𝙤𝙛 𝙚𝙣𝙚𝙧𝙜𝙮 𝙩𝙝𝙖𝙩 𝙖𝙡𝙡𝙤𝙬𝙨 𝙝𝙚𝙧 𝙢𝙖𝙣 𝙩𝙤 𝙟𝙤𝙪𝙧𝙣𝙚𝙮 𝙩𝙤 𝙝𝙚𝙞𝙜𝙝𝙩𝙨 𝙝𝙚 𝙘𝙖𝙣𝙣𝙤𝙩 𝙧𝙚𝙖𝙘𝙝 𝙖𝙡𝙤𝙣𝙚. 𝙄𝙣 𝙩𝙝𝙞𝙨 𝙨𝙖𝙘𝙧𝙚𝙙 𝙙𝙖𝙣𝙘𝙚 𝙤𝙛 𝙡𝙤𝙫𝙚, 𝙞𝙩 𝙞𝙨 𝙩𝙝𝙚 𝙬𝙤𝙢𝙖𝙣 𝙬𝙝𝙤 𝙝𝙤𝙡𝙙𝙨 𝙩𝙝𝙚 𝙠𝙚𝙮 𝙩𝙤 𝙪𝙣𝙡𝙤𝙘𝙠𝙞𝙣𝙜 𝙩𝙝𝙚 𝙛𝙪𝙡𝙡 𝙥𝙤𝙩𝙚𝙣𝙩𝙞𝙖𝙡 𝙤𝙛 𝙩𝙝𝙚𝙞𝙧 𝙪𝙣𝙞𝙤𝙣, 𝙪𝙨𝙝𝙚𝙧𝙞𝙣𝙜 𝙞𝙣 𝙥𝙤𝙬𝙚𝙧𝙛𝙪𝙡 𝙢𝙖𝙣𝙞𝙛𝙚𝙨𝙩𝙖𝙩𝙞𝙤𝙣𝙨 𝙖𝙣𝙙 𝙥𝙧𝙤𝙛𝙤𝙪𝙣𝙙 𝙩𝙧𝙖𝙣𝙨𝙛𝙤𝙧𝙢𝙖𝙩𝙞𝙤𝙣𝙨.” — RS
Let us all embrace surrender with open hearts and open minds, trusting in the wisdom of the universe and the power of divine love to guide us on our journey. For it is through surrender that we can truly awaken to the fullness of our sexuality, embracing pleasure, connection, and intimacy in all their myriad forms.
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