Why Narcissists Will Be Stuck On Their Exes
Even people who are very focused on themselves, like narcissists, can feel really sad when they lose someone they loved a lot.
It’s surprising for me to say this. But for them, they usually realize how much they did wrong only after the person they cared about has moved on to better things.
While their ex-partner looks forward to new and happier experiences, the narcissist has to deal with the heaviness of losing them and desperately trying to make things right again.
Even though they try really hard, narcissists often can’t get back what they lost. Just like anyone else, a narcissist can feel really sad, especially if their ex-partner was close to their family. Losing something important can make even the most self-centered person think about their actions.
Sometimes, the narcissist might get another chance to restart the relationship, but it often leads to the same problems as before.
The person who experienced mistreatment from the narcissist might decide they’ve had enough and take control of their life by ending the relationship.
The person the narcissist will regret losing the most is the one who got away. Usually, these individuals are independent and not afraid to move on, leaving the past behind. They are often generous, willing to give second chances, and good at seeing the best in others.
Now, the narcissist can only think about their loss and feel regret silently. The heartache serves as a reminder of what could have been, especially for a narcissist who cares a lot about social status.
If their ex-partner moves up the social ladder after the breakup, it feels like adding salt to the wound for the narcissist.
They are constantly haunted by the realization that they missed out on a great opportunity.