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is really going to do.Remind yourself how it was in the beginning, the narcissist admired you, bombarded you with love, you were the greatest person on earth. The narcissist made you feel that way, but over time you entered the stage of devaluation where the narcissist began to see only flaws in you.One flaw caused an avalanche of others. maybe the narcissist no longer replies to you, doesn’t answer your calls, ignores you, everything, and everyone suddenly becomes more important than you.Narcissists are hypersensitive and morbidly jealous. maybe you said something wrong. Maybe you looked at someone else when you were supposed to look at a narcissist. You smiled at someone that aroused envy. The narcissist already thought you were cheating on him, and even if he didn’t think that you already hurt him, and that’s enough. Enough to make him feel the need to take revenge for something you did to him something you didn’t even know you did.You’ll never know you offended him , he won’t tell you, but he’ll do something that will make you feel revenge, revenge for something you didn’t doyou will feel his wrath on you.The narcissist will accuse you of cheating on him, of being paranoid, of being mentally ill, of being oversensitive, of being childish, of being vindictive. He will accuse you of everything he is.The narcissist will disappear one way or another even while you are still together. He will be like a ghost, he will be absent. He will be present in the body, but there will be a wall between you two. A narcissist wants you to think about him all the time, he wants you to wonder what he thinks. A narcissist wants you to chase after him after he starts ignoring you.You start trying harder and harder, you want to fix the situation, and the narcissist is happy. He watches your efforts, and it amuses him. You focus your thoughts on him, you devote your time to him, and this makes the narcissist feel appreciated and important.On the beginning, a narcissist took you to the highest peak only to throw you off that peak later, only to keep you falling longer and the fall more painful. If you stumbled while on the ground, it wouldn’t hurt so much, that’s why th

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e narcissist has to throw you off the top of the mountain. He will throw you and disappear is his typical trait.Narcissist already has a new source of supply which you often don’t know about, you try to contact him but you meet with accusations, with devaluation, with insults. You don’t know what’s going on you explain it to yourself in different ways, you try to justify the narcissist to yourself. The narcissist knows that you are very susceptible to manipulation at this stage, he knows that you are easily hurt. A narcissist will tell you everything that will hurt you the most. You provided him with information about yourself, what scares you and hurts you, what hurt you in the past, and the narcissist will now use all this against you. you will be punished, humiliated just so the narcissist can feed on your suffering.The fact that the narcissist ignores you, that he treats you like a ghost, like the air, it’s not your fault, that’s a problem that you can’t solve no matter how hard you try, because you’re not dealing with a normal person, someone who cares, someone who wants to resolve the problem.There is no problem. the problem is the narcissist himself. There is no logical explanation. The narcissist reated you in such a way to make you feel anxious, to stress you, to provoke you to behave unusually, to see what you will do, what else you will tolerate. The more unstable you feel, the more confident the narcissist feels.The narcissist tries to make you someone you are not. He plays with you like a plasticine man, he will make you whoever he wants. The narcissist thinks he has so much power over you.<figure id="79bf"><img src="https://cdn-images-1.readmedium.com/v2/resize:fit:800/0*_n5CZ3V49E5O2RMP"><figcaption>Photo by Zanyar Ibrahim on Unsplash</figcaption></figure>If you see that you are becoming someone else, you do not behave as you used to, when you see that the narcissist ignores you, disappears, does not respond it’s time to take care of yourself. It’s time to disappear once and for all. A narcissist can appear and disappear many times. You want to be in a relationship with someone who is present in body, word, soul, and mind. You don’t want to be in a relationship with a ghost ship.</article></body>

Why Narcissists SUDDENLY Disappear

Narcissist has a need to exalt himself he won’t admit he is wrong he thinks that he is better than you.

Narcissist wants you to support his illusions. When you’re with a narcissist, you only have two options, either you agree and do everything the narcissist wants, or you become fearful of him. Fear is one of the basic foundations of a relationship with a narcissist. Forget about normal values like respect. Respect doesn’t exist. For a narcissist, all that matters is power and control. All that matters is domination over you. The narcissist wants to be the boss of all bosses, and he wants you to focus all your attention on him and subordinate your whole life to him.

For a narcissist, you are his slave for which he did not even have to pay. You are only to fulfil the will of the narcissist.

The narcissist doesn’t care about you. One day, the narcissist gets bored, and you offended him even if you wasn’t that’s how he sees it. You didn’t have to offend him in order to offend him.

The narcissist starts to punish you with silence and starts ignoring you. You wonder why he doesn’t talk to you, what you did, how you could fix it. You feel bad, you feel lonely and abandoned. You wonder if you did something wrong, sometimes you try harder, you improve your behaviour, you feel anxious, you know something is wrong but you don’t know what, you don’t know what’s going on. This is exactly what the narcissist wants to create to cause confusion.

The narcissist wants you to be on the edge all the time and never know if you will lose your balance and fall, you will explode, if he manages to provoke you or you will continue to balance on the edge not knowing which way it will go.

The narcissist wants you to worry so that you care about his approval. The narcissist gradually disappears, you see that he is less and less present and he does it only to have more control over you and to dominate and addict you even more because that’s gives him an advantage.

The narcissist will pretend to be the victim, he will try to convince you that you are to blame - this is a task designed to confuse you about what he is really going to do.

Remind yourself how it was in the beginning, the narcissist admired you, bombarded you with love, you were the greatest person on earth. The narcissist made you feel that way, but over time you entered the stage of devaluation where the narcissist began to see only flaws in you.

One flaw caused an avalanche of others. maybe the narcissist no longer replies to you, doesn’t answer your calls, ignores you, everything, and everyone suddenly becomes more important than you.

Narcissists are hypersensitive and morbidly jealous. maybe you said something wrong. Maybe you looked at someone else when you were supposed to look at a narcissist. You smiled at someone that aroused envy. The narcissist already thought you were cheating on him, and even if he didn’t think that you already hurt him, and that’s enough. Enough to make him feel the need to take revenge for something you did to him something you didn’t even know you did.

You’ll never know you offended him , he won’t tell you, but he’ll do something that will make you feel revenge, revenge for something you didn’t doyou will feel his wrath on you.

The narcissist will accuse you of cheating on him, of being paranoid, of being mentally ill, of being oversensitive, of being childish, of being vindictive. He will accuse you of everything he is.

The narcissist will disappear one way or another even while you are still together. He will be like a ghost, he will be absent. He will be present in the body, but there will be a wall between you two. A narcissist wants you to think about him all the time, he wants you to wonder what he thinks. A narcissist wants you to chase after him after he starts ignoring you.

You start trying harder and harder, you want to fix the situation, and the narcissist is happy. He watches your efforts, and it amuses him. You focus your thoughts on him, you devote your time to him, and this makes the narcissist feel appreciated and important.

On the beginning, a narcissist took you to the highest peak only to throw you off that peak later, only to keep you falling longer and the fall more painful. If you stumbled while on the ground, it wouldn’t hurt so much, that’s why the narcissist has to throw you off the top of the mountain. He will throw you and disappear is his typical trait.

Narcissist already has a new source of supply which you often don’t know about, you try to contact him but you meet with accusations, with devaluation, with insults. You don’t know what’s going on you explain it to yourself in different ways, you try to justify the narcissist to yourself. The narcissist knows that you are very susceptible to manipulation at this stage, he knows that you are easily hurt. A narcissist will tell you everything that will hurt you the most. You provided him with information about yourself, what scares you and hurts you, what hurt you in the past, and the narcissist will now use all this against you. you will be punished, humiliated just so the narcissist can feed on your suffering.

The fact that the narcissist ignores you, that he treats you like a ghost, like the air, it’s not your fault, that’s a problem that you can’t solve no matter how hard you try, because you’re not dealing with a normal person, someone who cares, someone who wants to resolve the problem.

There is no problem. the problem is the narcissist himself. There is no logical explanation. The narcissist reated you in such a way to make you feel anxious, to stress you, to provoke you to behave unusually, to see what you will do, what else you will tolerate. The more unstable you feel, the more confident the narcissist feels.

The narcissist tries to make you someone you are not. He plays with you like a plasticine man, he will make you whoever he wants. The narcissist thinks he has so much power over you.

If you see that you are becoming someone else, you do not behave as you used to, when you see that the narcissist ignores you, disappears, does not respond it’s time to take care of yourself. It’s time to disappear once and for all. A narcissist can appear and disappear many times. You want to be in a relationship with someone who is present in body, word, soul, and mind. You don’t want to be in a relationship with a ghost ship.