Why Looking for Approval From Others will Crush Your Dreams

Most people don’t care about your happiness

If you are waiting for others to approve of your ideas, forget it.

You won’t be able to manifest your vision by seeking advice from others.

Sure, a few tips here and there could help a little, I guess, but, most people couldn’t care less.

I’ll tell you why —

Because to make your vision a reality, you are going to have to make sacrifices.

This test comes from above — your higher power.

If you want the ultimate plan for your life to come to fruition, you are going to have to go down a long and winding road.

And guess what?

While you undergo these painful changes, something has to give.

Usually, your time, money, or energy, which means you are not going to be as available to others as you once were.

You will need to focus on yourself, for a change.

Do you think this will make them jump for joy?

Not at all — as there’s no longer much in it for them.

There are fewer benefits.

So, why would they approve?

Because they love you?

You would think so, or at least, hope.

But, seeking their approval is one fast way to crush your hopes and dreams.

Why?

Because…they can’t see or feel your vision.

It’s not important to them.

So, they can’t see why it could possibly be desirable to you.

Most people don’t give a damn about your happiness.

So stop seeking their approval and do it for yourself instead.

© Orla K.

Thank you Diana C. for publishing my work on Know Thyself Heal Thyself.