Why Is It Important for Union to Raise Frequency in Twin Flame Journey?
If you raise your frequency on the twin flame journey, you will get closer to yourself and then to your twin flame
In the twin flame journey, there is something that people who improve themselves and have a high frequency say. They always tell us to do our inner work. We do not believe some of the words of those who say these things. Because they say you can be happy without your twin flame.
It is as if they have discovered a new “island” within them. A judgmental voice rises within us and says: What nonsense is this? How can I be happy without my twin flame?
The term being happy without your twin flame is a somewhat misunderstood phrase. A person’s happiness often depends on someone’s absence, unfulfilled potential, or unfinished stories. I always said to myself that if I didn’t live in South Korea, I wouldn’t be happy. But one day I got outraged and scolded myself.
‘’You’re not in South Korea right now and won’t be in a while. No, the love of your life will not come and save you. You will learn to be happy with yourself by enjoying what you have and getting to the core of everything you love.’’
When I slapped myself, I understood the power of gratitude. Life is now. A life lived without depending on anyone or any condition is the greatest freedom. This is what people who are happy apart from their twin flames do in their lives. It is learning to live with self-love without needing anything in the conditions of the present.
I suffered a lot when I was separated from my twin flame. It was like nothing would ever be the same. But when I looked deep into this pain, I saw that it was telling me something about myself. This is how I discovered the untouched island within myself. It was essentially going with the flow by learning to surf within myself. I realized that the more I discovered myself and left the process to divine time, the closer I got to my goal.
I went to South Korea 5 months after I brought myself to my current reality. Even if I come back now, I know that I will go again at the right time. I just stopped controlling the process.
What does it mean to raise your frequency on a twin flame journey?
Raising your frequency on a twin flame journey is like collaborating with the universe. Because what the universe can do and what we can do are different. We move faster when we can’t do the work of the universe and focus on removing the stones in our own path.
The inner workings of the twin flame journey are about supporting ourselves. When we make a mistake or go back to the point where we started, it means “Don’t be sad, we will find a way to progress together” without getting angry with ourselves. Our greatest friend and enemy are none other than ourselves. If we support ourselves, we will find a way forward. But if we always talk negatively to ourselves, we will always stay put or start to regress because we will be demoralized.
We have a great source of love within us. After I started collaborating with myself, I became connected to a great resource I didn’t know was called the “higher self.” At first, our communications were like poorly connected radios. The connection was bouncing. Because the voice of my higher self sounded so deep. There had to be no other crackling for me to hear it. But I had too many things in my head.
As I developed my relationship with my Higher-Self, I was finding that everything I once called very difficult, somehow came true. It wasn’t easy, but it really felt like everything was going as it should. As I reduced the resistance inside me, I felt that my own energy was also lighter. Working on yourself is to lighten your attitude toward life over time.
So you understand why some people have an easier job and live better. They just found a way to balance their energies.
The universe always supports any energy that is compatible with it.
Although we always think that other things stand in our way, we forget that the stubborn force standing in the middle of our path is our own energy. We are very insistent on not letting go or doing things our way. The universe is telling us “let go”. “Don’t try to do everything alone.” But we move on. Then we are blocked. We have no idea why we were blocked. This intensifies our energy even more. We get even more angry and keep pushing.
When the universe can’t stop us, it makes us sick physically. I have read that most diseases start in the mind and then accumulate in the body and turn into diseases. I agree with that. Although we always believe that illness is a physical thing, what actually makes us sick is our stubbornness with life, our chronic stress, and our anxiety.
Coming back to the twin flame journey, this journey is our home. Because here we learn to be ourselves. By entering deeper levels of ourselves, we find our authentic identity. There are many ways of doing inner work and they vary according to our needs. I write about my feelings when they come fast. It relaxes me to dig deeper as I write. To relax, I take long walks and look around me carefully as if I don’t want to miss any detail. Mindfulness practices allow me to relax by stimulating my mind. This allows our more intuitive side to be with us during the day while we are conscious.
Working on yourself is to lighten your attitude toward life over time.
Self-understanding of twin flames is crucial in this journey. Why am I like this? Why am I so insistent on going into the details of everything? Because discovering our own truth is like doing research. And doing research in the field we know best can always bring the best results. We are the ones who know ourselves best. We don’t just want to discover ourselves.
Because when we open our own box full of secrets, we see that there is so much to discover here. Of course, we won’t like everything we see. Because we are human beings, we have aspects that remain in the dark as much as we are in the light. And what makes us whole is being able to accept ourselves as we are. This is what raises our frequency the fastest.
Hi, I’m Bensu. I write about mind, hard feelings and self-love. If you enjoyed my articles about surpassing yourself and achieving your dreams, you can start your medium subscription from this link:
