avatarShamaz Abraham

Summary

The author emphasizes the importance of personal fulfillment over comfort and societal expectations, advocating for originality and self-expression as keys to a meaningful life.

Abstract

The article discusses the author's journey from battling addictions and societal criticism to finding true meaning through fulfillment. The author describes a deep-seated desire for creativity and connection, which led to a realization that fulfillment, not comfort, is the most valuable aspect of life. Drawing on the work of Brené Brown, the author highlights the need for authenticity and the strength found in vulnerability. The article encourages readers to embrace their unique talents and to view others as supporters rather than judges. It suggests that facing challenges and pursuing one's passions, even when uncomfortable, can lead to a sense of purpose and monetary rewards. The author concludes by urging readers to follow their purest desires and to free themselves from irrelevant societal pressures.

Opinions

  • Fulfillment is valued more than comfort or societal approval, as it provides true meaning in life.
  • Addictions and societal criticism can hinder one's creative potential and sense of self-worth.
  • Human connection and sharing life experiences are crucial for personal growth and fulfillment.
  • Vulnerability and originality are essential components of a happy and creative life.
  • One should not be a slave to others' opinions but instead seek environments that accept and support them.
  • Personal strengths should be recognized, polished, and used to contribute to society.
  • Adler's psychology, which suggests viewing people as supporters, can improve relationships and productivity.
  • Challenges should be faced head-on, as they lead to personal development and fulfillment.
  • Monetizing one's passions is a viable path that aligns with personal fulfillment.
  • It is important to sacrifice unnecessary things to focus on one's true desires and achieve fulfillment.

Why Fulfillment is the most valuable in everyone’s life?

Fulfillment is the way of meaning not comforting yourself:

What I value most in my life is fulfillment.

I want to share with you my addiction to pleasing and smoking. These addictions almost break my creative bones. People start to criticize me and treat me like a useless dumb.

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I found a deep desire inside my heart and mind about my creative life In dark days. I love to talk to strangers know about their life views. I feel blessed every time about the sunset.

I want to live a happy and creative life. It’s my monster of lusts and desire ready to swallow my creativity. I found myself lonely and broken.

Brené Brown, the best selling author about vulnerability, says that human requires belonging that demands to be original.

Our weakness or natural mood drift makes us create a demand to live together in society.

If you feel insecure, fitted or unknown about yourself with your friends or any social circle, talk about your feelings or if people laugh at you, change the society. You’re not a slave to other opinions.

Nature blesses you with strengths that you never imagine. You need to polish them and make them shine as your identity. My strong point is my creative way of writing a story. For you, it can be singing, business or engineering.

The pain point is the lack of awareness kick-off the hail of criticism, less worthiness or perfectionism.

You being you should happy and cultivate fulfillment through constant face the challenges of your life.

One point that helps me to make better or more productive friends is the view of Adler’s phycology. See people as your supporter. It fuels your desire to assist others and add value to other’s life through your creativity.

The meaning becomes my ultimate source to get fulfillment. In my teenage, I found myself trapped in my parent’s protection. I want to go outside and explore something that means to me. I get my fulfillment in writing. Then, I find various ways to monetize my work. I don’t feel comfortable every time I move towards fulfillment. I feel reasonable in that way.

It assists me in exploring new things.

I move with the new lands and share them with my readers.

I feel free from the dependencies of irrelevant thoughts. You have a different choice that gives you fulfillment. Never run from your deepest pure desire.

The purse desire leads me to sacrifice several unnecessary things.

Meaning Of Life
Fulfillment
Hope
Self Love
Career Development
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