Why Doesn’t My Twin Flame Want to Share Their Feelings With Me?
3 main reasons why your twin flame is hiding their feelings
Twin flame journey is such an intense thing that it often gets you running faster than the pace you always walk or jog. When you run faster, your lungs often tighten and you want to take deeper breaths. To withstand this intensity, your body must be strong and trained. If this is your first time running at such a fast pace, neither your body nor your legs will keep you going for long.
In the twin flame journey, emotions are intertwined with intense energies. There is such a great intensity of emotion that we can laugh at the same time we cry because of what we feel. Everything we feel on the twin flame journey is for the expansion of our heart chakra and for us to come to unconditional self-love. But unfortunately, not every twin flame spirit opens up to this intense love with the same willingness. Sometimes only the masculine side and sometimes both masculine and feminine energies will try to escape from these intense emotions they feel during the twin flame journey.
After a certain period in the twin flame journey, the masculine energy starts to hide its true feelings and starts to do some kind of spiritual ghosting. The feminine energy is uncomfortable with this situation because it feels unimportant and worthless. And feminine energy often my twin flame doesn’t love me anymore? They begin to ask. and gets into a cycle where they wonder about their twin flame’s feelings.
In this article, we’re going to talk about why our twin flame is hiding its feelings from us.
Is our love for our twin flame enough to do anything for them?
In the culture I live in, there is a phrase that is said a lot among the people. “If someone loves you, no matter what, there is no obstacle.” I grew up with this sentence. And I tried to shape my thoughts with the idea that if someone loves me they should fight for me and if they don’t they probably don’t care about me. But contrary to collective ideas, the reality was far from that. I have loved many times in my life. And I was sincere in all these feelings. But I could not confess my love to anyone. Because my character was too shy to do that, my feelings were fragile and discouraged. The first person I confessed my feelings to was my twin flame
Guess why? Because beyond believing he was all me, I wasn’t ashamed of him at all. Even though we’ve never spent any time with my twin flame, it was a strange feeling to feel as close to him as my family. I said I can be myself with this person. It was the true home that I had sought for so long.
Confessing your feelings to someone comes with many responsibilities. And sometimes circumstances or the development of our character are not suitable for confessing our love or fighting for the person we love. This is quite normal. Most of the twin flames don’t talk about their feelings or even avoid talking. Because they cannot balance the intensity of their emotions in their daily life. This is a situation that takes a lot of time and effort.
Twin flame love strikes our lives like lightning. And to undo the damage done by this lightning one must turn within and be willing to do all the work. But how many divinely masculine are willing to do that? I have seen so many twin flame journeys that even the divine feminine energy is not willing to dissolve itself. In order for the masculine energy to open up to you, the feminine energy needs to learn to sit within itself clearly with its emotions.
Yes, I am aware that the subject starts and ends with feminine energy again. And I know you’re thinking, “Why does the feminine have to do all this healing work?” But here I would like to remind you that the ego intervenes and makes you feel this way. Divine feminine energy works for itself first. and the power it creates mixes first with the divine masculine and then with the whole universe.
Now we can look at the reasons why your twin flame is reluctant to reveal their feelings to you.
1. They are afraid of losing control of their emotions
Well, we have to admit that the intensity of twin flame energy is very high. It can be much, much more painful than touching a hot pot with bare hands. Feeling these emotions without any meditation or protective energy can give a person the feeling of “going crazy”. It is like reaching our soul and simultaneously attracting all the essence in our existence. This can destroy a person’s entire emotional system. Especially in logic-based approaches, you may question why these intense feelings you feel towards someone. You haven’t even seen them, or they just came across by chance somewhere.
Your twin flame may be stuck in matrix thinking and just thinking in ways that it’s used to and learned. Society only advises us to live our relationships in “usual” ways. Any other form of association may indicate that we are abnormal or insane. So I know that my twin flame mostly controls his emotions so as not to stray from what he knows. Because once he loses control of his emotions, he will have to do more. And he is someone who is terribly afraid of failing to deliver on something he promised.
2. Their emotions are slowing them down and they can’t do their job
Twin flame emotional cycles can turn into an obstacle that disrupts daily life too much if they are not noticed and kept in balance with practice. I’ve experienced this many times, and it took me months to find the right way to balance these emotions. A constant inner turmoil, thoughts talking loudly and emotions crying, was driving me physically into chaos as well.
Many things became clear when I realized that the same situation had happened to my twin. Later I heard that my twin was stuck between never leaving the house and working too hard. He was working very hard because so many emotions he didn’t know the meaning of were jumping around and punching the cell walls. And while he was balancing himself, I had to start a long series of meditations again, because what he was feeling was impossible to bear with my conscious mind.
This is why there is a reason why your twin flame can’t accept their feelings. Their emotions slow them down and prevent them from going about their daily chores. They want to keep these dysfunctional emotions out of their lives. Even though they try to focus on themselves and live smoothly again, something inside them is constantly returning them to the emotional black hole because they have internal wounds to unravel here.
They are running away from these wounds with the violence of their emotions. And you think they are running away from love. No. In order to reach love in a healthy way, we must first understand our obstacles to love.
3. They can’t admit their feelings because they haven’t felt this way before
One of the reasons your twin flame hides their feelings from you is because they can’t even make sense of their feelings themselves. Even if they have fallen in love before, the intensity of emotion created by the twin flame energy is unlike anything before. They are unable to relate their minds to their previous experiences. They are afraid of it when they are faced with a completely unfamiliar situation. Everything we are unfamiliar with gives us a sense of uneasiness at first. Because the less information we have, the more fear and anxiety we have.
As the feminine energy of your twin flame is balanced with the masculine energy, they allow this love to radiate and guide them. Tasting the warmth of love, the masculine twin flame awakens and tries to find out what this love means to them here.
Before you reach this stage, your twin flame will not open up to you. They themselves must digest this love and find out what it means to them. It is also about revealing the core energy within love. They will be surprised by how much they have to learn. They will look for their twin flame wherever they go, in every person they spend time with. But what they’re actually looking for is an energy essence.
Since the masculine twin flame has lived away from them for years and is only concerned with the material things that keep them alive through various masks, they take the feminine twin flame as their guide to find their own spiritual essence. That’s why what they look for wherever they go is actually the energy of the feminine within them. A twin needs equal amounts of masculine and feminine energy to feel balanced. This is how masculine energy misses feminine energy. And after a while, this energy reaches an unbearable point.
Your twin flame is distracting themself with most things in the 3d world to keep their emotions in balance. But the intensity of any distractor cannot be measured by the intensity of the twin flame energy.
So the more you stop chasing them and focus on yourself, the more you force them to face their own feelings. Confronting their own feelings, your twin flame may awaken or volunteer to delve deeper into their emotions. They stop thinking about why they love you and accept the love within them. Then they allow them to improve their thoughts and even their lifestyle. This is something that will happen of their own free will. Thinking we can heal someone comes primarily from self-pity. That’s why it’s essential to let everything flow, especially the emotions. Allow your twin flame to grow emotionally and discover its patterns.
Hi, I’m Bensu. I write about mind, hard feelings and self-love. If you enjoyed my articles about surpassing yourself and achieving your dreams, you can start your medium subscription from this link:
