Why does God send You the Wrong People?
Why does God send you the wrong people that you’re not meant to be with? And then makes you love them a lot……
For a while even I had this question in my mind but now, I don’t believe that God necessarily sends someone to you to make you suffer.
I noticed that these days, when something good happens in our life, when we achieve something, we say like, oh, this is because of my hard work of my education of my competence. You know, it’s all me. we take selfies and pictures and so on. And if something bad happens, we’re like, God, why are you doing these to me?
Actually we are very insignificant things. After all, we are even smaller than a drop of water in the grand scheme of things. We are so insignificant.
The reason we meet wrong people is because of our own past karma. We had sawn a seed, maybe a good seed, maybe a beautiful flower or maybe a cactus. we don’t know, maybe a healthy egg or maybe a rotten egg. We don’t know.
As per my experience, we sometimes only have the karma to be with someone for a certain duration. Once that is exhausted, We can try our best. We can do whatever we want. We just don’t have that feeling anymore. What’s the purpose of that duration?
Ah, I think there’s no ultimate purpose. It is a consequence of one of our past actions in our life. Yeah. So maybe we misbehaved with that person and dumped that person after a certain amount of time. And now the cycle is, you know, come full circle and we are seeing the effects of our actions.
And instead of breaking the cycle and accepting it and maybe just remaining friends or ending on good terms, our ego prevents us from doing that or level of attachment prevents us from doing that, we think it’s love, but it’s not. It’s a sense of extreme possession. You just can’t let go. And you cost suffering to yourselves and to the other person in you creating a new cycle again.
But how can we eliminate that sense of attachment?
I believe when it comes to love and relationships, we should love without getting a test. I mean, as soon as the sense of attachment comes, it can very rapidly turn into possession and obsessive behaviour, constant calling and reminding and arguing and so on.
I think if we keep our love very free, very open based on loyalty, trust, it can feel very good in our relationship. But as soon as we get attached to that person, where are you? Yeah, it is 10 past. Who are you with? I think I heard someone.
we’re like so attached to that person, not physically attached because she is somewhere else, but mentally and emotionally attached. we just can’t think of anything else but that person. And if we send a message, what’s up? One tick. She hasn’t seen my message. Two ticks, blue tick. She hasn’t responded back. You understand, we even get obsessed with the ticks and the tings and the blues, I know, that becomes very obsessive.
So, When you love someone, I think you should trust that person. It should be based on giving and not focusing solely on receiving and receiving and receiving and it should be open and free.
Anyway, if you enjoyed this article and want to know about love and relationship…plz consider this book All About Love: New Visions by bell hooks..
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