Why does a person yell when angry!

A Tibetan story tells that one day an old sage asked his followers: - Why do people shout at each other when they are angry? The men thought for a few moments: - Because we lose our cool, said one, that’s why we screamed. - But why scream when the other person is next to you? The wise man asked, is it not possible to speak to him in a low voice? Why do you yell at a person when you are angry? The men gave other answers, but none satisfied the wise men. Finally he explained: - When two people are angry, their hearts go far. To cover the distance, he must scream, to be heard. The angrier they are, the louder they will have to shout to hear each other across a great distance. Then the sage continued: - What happens when two people fall in love? They don’t scream, but they speak softly, why? Their hearts are so close. The distance between them is very small. The wise man smiled and said: - When they fall in love even more, what happens? They don’t speak, they just whisper and become even closer in their love. Finally they don’t even need to whisper, they just look at each other and that’s it. This is how two close people are when they love each other... Then he said: - When you fight don’t let your heart go, don’t say words that distance you more, maybe a day will come when the distance is so big that it won’t find the way back