Why Do We Marry?
“Marriage is not a lack of love, but a lack of friendship that makes unhappy marriages.” ― Friedrich Nietzsche
Why do people merry this aspect has forever been a paradox for many, it is about love, sex, or both, it is about the legacy or about the social appearance.
Why do we marry?
- Scientist says: it is the willpower To breed and keep offspring
- the lover says: to united with our love and to collide our souls
- men say: it is a hard life and we need someone to care about us
- religious men: to not commit sin
- un Unhappy man: to be happy
- women say: to have someone take care of her
- religious women say: to not commit sin
- well cultured people say: is a life form of settlement raising a child to become great and when the parents become old they have a family to take care of them and to not feel lonely
- Oscar Wild says: men marry because they are tired, women because they are curious: both are disappointed.”
with all the unlimited opinions related to the merger still, it is why do people merge
The choice to marriage altogether arises from the individual experience and the effect of the environment
Some, are scarred by being left alone in this life
some fear the vulnerability that comes with the relationship without binding themes together
some only to prove themselves self
some to find a shelter or safe house
and it goes on …….
the truth is always simple in the end, if you believe it or not
most marriages are social standards, most people marry without knowing the reason, and without getting ready for this huge change,
….it is an easy thing to understand and many
most marriages are a passing whim
So it’s not gonna be easy. It’s going to be really hard; we’re gonna have to work at this every day, but I want to do that because I want you. I want all of you, forever, every day. You and me… every day.”-Nicholas Sparks
the truth is People marries for a variety of reasons but the most successful mergers are built on
a good marriage and a good wife will not make you cry
she will not make you sleep unwell
and it is the same for the man
loyalty trust and respect …it is not about love ..it may begin with it but it is not about it it is all about Patience and sacrifices
Respect, tolerance, forgiveness for mistakes, sacrifice, giving, helping, love, sharing pleasure, the ability to share pain, acceptance
all this affection is called love and that is what a good marriage is about.
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