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Summary

Men are attracted to women's buttocks due to an ancestral memory that associates the curvature of the spine with physical health and fertility.

Abstract

The article discusses the reasons behind men's attraction to women's buttocks, citing a study conducted by researchers at the University of Texas at Austin. The study suggests that men are not simply looking at women's buttocks, but rather at the shape of the curvature of their spine. This attraction is attributed to ancestral memories that have become ingrained in human behavior, where men were programmed to look for women who had a more youthful appearance, which was associated with the ability to produce healthy children. The curvature of the spine was seen as a sign of physical health and fertility. The article also acknowledges that this criterion may still be used today, but emphasizes that the frequent male gaze on women's buttocks can be uncomfortable and inappropriate.

Opinions

  • The author acknowledges that some men may have bad intentions when staring at women's buttocks.
  • The author suggests that women may have developed techniques of seduction to attract men, which included positions that highlighted the curvature of their spine and buttocks.
  • The author questions whether the criterion of choosing partners based on their ability to produce healthy children is still used today.
  • The author emphasizes that the frequent male gaze on women's buttocks can be uncomfortable and inappropriate, and asks men to stop doing it.

Why Do Men Love Asses?

The reason behind this can be a bit bizarre, understand

Photo by Alfonso Scarpa on Unsplash

I have a shocking fact to reveal to you: there is a very bizarre reason why men stare so much at women’s butts. And the most shocking thing isn’t even that, but rather the fact that they’re not exactly looking at our butts, but at something beyond that.

I know, I know. A lot of people will come out and say that I’m talking nonsense, but that’s not something I’m paying lip service, everything I just said was based on a study conducted by researchers at the University of Texas at Austin. And yes, they managed to come to a conclusion as to “why” men are attracted to butts. If you want to know more about it, come with me!

I really thought that the male gazes focused on our buttocks was the purest sign of a perverted man with dirty intentions in his mind. But apparently, I was “a little” wrong about that. Of course, some are bad-tempered and really keep “drying” our buttocks out of malice — but oddly enough, the biggest reason for men to focus their gaze so much on our buttocks is something simpler than it seems. Basically, they are not looking at our buttocks, but rather at the shape of the curvature of our spine.

Okay, I know you’re thinking this is all just a “fairy tale,” but it’s true. And there’s a reason behind that.

You see, to better understand this issue, we’re going to need to go back millions of years and understand how society functioned at that time about the choice of their partners.

The first point we will raise is the fact that millions of years ago, man was a born hunter who lived to seek food for his family, while women stayed in the cave preparing lunch and doing more manual labor.

The woman of that time knew that she was not as strong as the men. Therefore, they needed to find partners who were strong and healthy enough so that they could give them a “comfortable” and safe life as much as possible during that time.

To do this, women had to develop certain techniques that later became known as “seduction.” The Evolution of Human Seduction dates back to ancient times, and the main goal of this technique was to make women understand which positions most valued their body and which most demonstrated their exceptional physical health and their innate ability to have strong and healthy children.

And as incredible as it may seem, the best positions were those that make the best use of the curvature of the female spine and managed to give a nice highlight to the butt. Okay, but now you’re probably wondering what one thing has to do with the other, right?

Well, the ancestral answer to why men like our butts so much has to do with ancestral memories that have already become part of our lives.

What I want to convey is that men have been programmed to look for women who have a more youthful appearance, and well-shaped buttocks are one way to identify these women. This youthful appearance represents the ability to produce healthy children and this was the criterion that men of old used to choose their partners: the size of the buttocks.

That is, not the size of the ass itself, but the shape of the curvature that the woman’s spine provided, and that made it look like the buttocks were bigger, better shaped, and healthier.

So, according to the proposed study, the reason why men are so passionate about women’s buttocks is due to an ancestral memory that was engraved in the species as a way of identifying a physically healthy partner with full capabilities to give birth to strong and healthy children.

I really still have my doubts if this criterion is still used today, but it makes sense that this is something real. After all, for thousands of years, men have chosen their ideal partners based on their ability to fertility — that is, it’s not something that can change overnight.

However, it doesn’t change the fact that the frequent male gaze on our buttocks is extremely uncomfortable, so I kindly ask you to stop doing it.

I know it may be something involuntary, but put yourself in the shoes of the woman who is suffering from these attitudes. Would you like any man to look at his woman’s butt with ulterior motives? I don’t think so! Therefore, train your mind not to stare at ours — That’s a favor you can do us.

Thank you for reading this far. I hope this has met your expectations :)

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