Why do men struggle with dating apps?

Black Coffee explains why the majority of men are frustrated by dating apps.

The reason so many men have problems with dating apps is that they're not being honest with themselves.

If they were, they would admit that they use dating apps because they're too afraid to approach women in real life.

Dating apps were created because of this fear. If men weren't afraid to approach women, there wouldn't be as many dating apps as there are.

Every new dating app. It is just another way for men to do more of what didn't work in the first place.

Men, be honest.

If you weren't afraid to approach women, would you be on a dating app?

Whenever I ask men why they use dating apps. The answer I hear the most is that it saves time because they don't have to dress up and go to a party bar or club.

The men who say this are the men who fail to get positive results because in truth the only way for a man to get positive results on dating apps is if he invests both time and money.

The men with the best results on dating apps are the men who take professional pictures, as men who post selfies get fewer swipes.

Also, men who have witty openers as women rarely if ever reply to “hi”, so men have to think of witty things without knowing for sure if they'll get a reply. Both of which take time and money.

I don't know why men do it to themselves. Instead of taking rejection and moving on, they hide behind dating apps.

Most of the gripes I hear from millennial men about women were caused by dating apps. Swiping for hours and not getting a match can never be good.

A lot of young men think women only like men who are over 6 feet tall. I'm 5"6 and have never had a problem getting women in real life, yet guys are having problems because tall women aren't the most sought after women, so they go on dating apps and only want men taller than themselves.

Men read women's profiles intently or look at their pictures if they haven't written anything in their profile and then write something witty, and they rarely get a reply

If they do instead of setting up a date as soon as possible, most are so happy to get a match and a reply they are afraid of moving too fast and keep the conversation going only to get ghosted because they took too long to ask the woman on a date or because they asked too soon.

The problem is, men who approach dating apps as women do, will rarely if ever get matches.

Most women use dating apps when they're bored. Men have to use dating apps like a part-time job.

Why would you play in a field where you're at an obvious disadvantage?

She's not going to reply to your “hi” she's not going to match with your crummy picture. The reason is that you don't stand out from the rest.

You know how you can stand out, though. Seeing a beautiful woman you want to talk to and walking up to her and introducing yourself.

It doesn't matter if she says yes or no. All that matters is you took your destiny into your hands.

How is seeing a beautiful woman on dating apps? Writing her a heartfelt message and waiting to see if she answers, taking your destiny into your hands?

BUT so many men don't have the balls for that, and that's why they're swiping 100 times for a match and settling for narrastic entitled women whilst getting more and more bitter about women lying to themselves that they're using dating apps to save time.

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