Why do Elite Athletes Have Mental Health Struggles Right After Success
When they hit ambitious goals, there is still something missing
Having a single fixation on achieving an ambitious goal helps develop a focus on one outcome and restricts all distractions. But is this narrow focus healthy and even worth it in the end?
We just need to look at sporting stars to realize that once they achieve their goal, they can become deeply miserable and sometimes suffer from depression.
Boxing Heavyweight Champion Tyson Fury is the prime example of this. Fury had the dream since he was a child to become the heavyweight champion of the world. He strived all his life to achieve it, as he thought this was what would make him happy.
Against all odds, he went and beat Wladimir Klitschko, when no boxing ‘expert’ gave him a chance.
Once Fury achieved his life-long dream he instantly went on to live happily ever after right.
Nope.
This is life, not a fairytale.
Instead of being truly happy and basking in his glory, he had a much-documented battle with mental health and even considered suicide.
And his story is not uncommon.
We just need to look at some of the most successful Olympic athletes.
Michael Phelps & Simone Biles are two of the most decorated Olympians of all time. They have both had mental battles after their success.
Michale Phelps admitted in an interview after every Olympics he “fell into a major state of depression”.
This could be something World №1 tennis player Ashleigh Barty is going through too. After winning the Australian Open and Wimbledon, she announced her retirement from the sport at the tender age of 25.
She hasn’t even reached her prime but has achieved everything she ever wanted and it still wasn’t the answer.
Barty realized this after winning the 2021 Wimbledon championship. She admitted after achieving her ultimate personal goal in the sport, she still “wasn’t quite fulfilled”.
This tells us everything. You train your whole life to achieve something and when you do, it still isn’t enough.
I think the major problem with elite athletes is that they often have to be so selfish and make so many sacrifices in life to get to the top. This means that they neglect all other important areas of their life.
For example, they may forgo their relationships for success. So when they win, there is still a part missing and no one to truly celebrate this with, who has their best interests at heart and can possibly understand.
Make sure it’s worth it
You can probably recognize some of these themes yourself from your own life.
You may have achieved a really ambitious goal that you thought you would never achieve. And you dreamed that once you hit that goal, you would be happy and that would be enough.
But once you hit it, you have that empty feeling and ask yourself “is that it”? You still feel the same as you did before, sometimes even worse.
So if you are still going to go through all this pain and sacrifice so much for a single goal, make sure it’s worth it.
